jus friends

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omg THNK U
finally sum1 who i can relate my thotz 2

i do think itz so damn stupid 2 jus leave the guy jus coz hez cumin on 2 me
hez 1 of my best guy friendzz
but am not sure abt tellin him 2 back off n all
he might take it the wrong way u know n get offended
n thas jus watz makin me so effin confused

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dont tell him to back off just tell him nicely that u cherish ur friendship and u dont want to date him bcoz you r not feeling it.. he might get offended a bit but he'lll be okay in a few days.. if he overreacts and then acts all stupid then he's selfish and stupid and ur probably better off without him being a friend.. in either case u gotta b frank.. ur good frnds afterall !

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thn maybe you start with "Listen, I'm your friend, and I dont want to hurt you.."

or something close to that...oh that poor guy:(

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If ther'es nothin wrong w/ him then why not? Just THINK about it....you never know what it can lead to..Like vedic intellect said, sometimes friends can turn into great partners

Ok, i'm not sure how old you are or how much of a priority it is in your life at this point but sooner or later , you'll have ot get married, right? Are you goign to blindly marry some guy your parents pick out for u? Or are you allowed to marry someone you chose? Think abt it this way...you know the guy since forever, so there's no bad surprises...you already know what hsi bad habits might be, his shortcomings, u dont gotta worry abt his past relationships (if he has/if thats your concern, just to use it as an example) et cetera...i mean unless there are some serious differences (religion/nationality) there's no harm in giving it a shot.....obviously if you found him totally ewww you wouldn't b3e friends with him right? (Cz who wants to be freinds with an asshole)..any relationship is a risk, but if you know this guy already (and you said u find him buff, which ill assume means u find him cute) then hey why not take hte calculated risk

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Vedic Intellect is giving sound advice. Speaking as a guy who was once in that position before.. make it very clear that you don't want to be anything other than friends. Things might be awkward for a few weeks but they'll pretty much get back to normal after that.

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Mrs Saeein - Paki Pride is far too young to be thinking about partners. :hoonh:

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^ How old is she? :emmy:

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:rule: dont put ideas in her head

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PakiPride...
Just tell the guy your not interested...its quite simple really...yes it will hurt his feelings but hey thats life...if your not interested you just have to be blunt about it...

Hes overstepped the mark as a friend and isnt a friend anymore...this kind of **** happens all the time...just make sure your mutual friends know the deal aswell so they dont get upset at you when he stops chatting to you...

Oh yeah btw you probably wont be friends after this...

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post his pic, ill help you decide :halo:

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:hehe:

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BTW Paki pride, my advice was intended for if you’re an adult… if you’re stil in grade school/high school, then my advice is just to leave out the getting involved stuff..keep him as a friend if you want, but DONT GET ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED with him or any other guy…:emmy:

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yeah high school relationships too hormonally charged and drama-filled... once you're a bit older.. looking to settle *down...*give it a go :)

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^^ but they are a part of growing up :P

~~~ hOw OLD~~~
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hey if you have the patience and time, why not? me personally… i found the kids during my high school years to be nothing but foul-mouthed, broken English, gangsterrrr wannabes…I couldnt deal with the drama, headaches, and jahaliyaat (is that the word?)… except one desi… he was perfecto :blush:

Getting Bored :(
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jahaliyat? or jahiliyat? my mom uses sumword like that for my boys.. "yoru friends look jahil"...

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What HS did u go to ?

Thankfully my HS wasnt filled w/ desis, but they were still ghetto :(

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whichever word means stupid, dumb,crude... etc..

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Sheepshead Bay