I didn't know hipster catchphrases came with built in implications, but I can only imagine that in your mind it must be something scandalous. 'Nuff said.
you do realize ryan seacrest is so far in the closet that he can reach narnia
and if that's a hipster catch phrase then you must be 35 years old.
sorry aunty. my apologies :)
if that's a hipster catch phrase then you must be 35 years old.
*sorry aunty. my apologies *:)
No problem babaji: you and your vaudevillian goatee are forgiven! ;-)
you do realize ryan seacrest is so far in the closet that he can reach narnia
Good thing he's got you there to keep him company. ;-)
Was the implication to your satisfaction, Milord?
oh, that’s such a lame diss 
too lame even for you
atleast i’m comfortable with my own gender to brush you off. what’s your excuse 
LOL, Good one khumi
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this looks like a DRAMA serial to me that MALAL on hum tv.
u are the one to stay out of the matter she has alll the reason to be worried and if the situation was that u were had to get married then the feeling were not the same as of a friend …reallly if he spends that much time with u his wife should had been talked u very before iam wondering why she delayed…
and i dont know what i have done if i was in the same poor lady situation…
Bubli Gee, Sorry to say but when I read your thread, I felt sorry for you that you do not even realise the effect that you are having on this girl. Plus the fact that you do not know what sort of feelings he has for you. Obviously he not gonna tell you, he’s not that stupid! He knows he’s been married not to a girl of his choice and now he has to stay with her. But he’s still keeping in touch with you under the pretence of friendship. How can you be 100% sure that he has no feelings for you? Just cus he says so right? Wrong!!!! Listen there are enough divorces happening in Pakistan bcus of “ modern” soch ke logue. Dont let yourself be the reason for another one.
Your afraid of what to say to her when she comes accussing you. Why?????? Are you not afraid of Allah??????? Im guessing not otherwise you wouldn’t be dissing his wife for being a hijabi and conservative
By your previous posts it seems none of what we say on here is going to have any effect, because you have made up yur mind about how you feel about your “Best buddy in the world” and to hell with what the wife thinks. Well you just carry on sweetheart, but don’t come crying when all this blows up in your face when his wife decides to insult not just you but your hubby as well for a being a dick not to notice what his wife is upto. Then not only she leaves him but your hubby leaves you as well and that’s when Even your so called friend will blame you. Open your eyes and see the reality of what you’re getting yourself into. But then maybe everybody divorcing each other will be the perfect chance for your “best buddy in the world” to make his move . wink wink
I don't care how "broad-minded" you are compared to that "60 yr old granny" You need to back the feck away.
PS: Mods, feck is not a bad word. At least not in Ireland.
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Huma , well said 
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Bubli, I agree with all the other responses here. You are creating and maintaining a rift in someone else's marriage. If you are indeed, his best friend then do right by him and let him go.
If his wife calls you to complain, you should humbly apologize to her for creating stress in her marriage, assure her that this was not your intention and that you will not again ever give her cause for anxiety.
Bubli,
I agree with** heart n soul.**
It's not impossible for married men (or even women for that matter) to secretly harbor romantic feelings for someone else under the guise of friendship. Sure, he's your best friend. And if you ask him if he still has those feelings for you......he might say "no" if he knows that such a confession would make you feel uncomfortable.
It's so easy to blame the wife. And I understand that she's not perfect, that she may have some irritating qualities. Granted, she might be lack tact when interacting with others. But as a wife, it's not unusual at all for her to be so concerned. Her husband (your cousin) needs to put himself in her position. If your cousin had married a girl whom he was in love with (be that you or someone else)...................I highly doubt that he would feel comfortable with his beloved wife talking to a male best friend all the time.
I don't remember if you're married. But in the event that you are......it wouldn't be unreasonable for your husband to be concerned about you spending majority of your time interacting with another guy.....even if he is a cousin.
This isn't an issue of being modern or a hijab.............because even non-Muslim western women also feel suspicious/upset/HURT that their spouse/SO is spending more time with someone else. And even THESE WOMEN (who are assumed to be more modern and liberal by their desi counterparts) are not appeased with the "Yeah, but she's like my best friend" reason.
It's great that yo have a best friend. You're fortunate to have one among your family. But currently, this "best friend's" marriage is being affected by his frequent interactions with you. And correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems like your cousin doesn't care much about his wife. Rather than blame her for being so anal................he should try use his time to bond with her and make their marriage stronger. And as his friend................you should want what it good for him. You should push him toward strengthening his marriage.................even if that means that you need to limit the contact with him.............so that his marriage/house doesn't break down.
It seems there is a lack of trust in his marriage. Perhaps if he spent more energy bonding with his wife, showing her through his actions that he loves her and has nothing to worry about........she'd feel a bit more comfortable if he interacts with other females. Because he would have set a strong foundation. It seems like that is not in place. If she doubts him.....there relationship is not strong.......and he needs to work on it.........and that can be done if you both back off from each other and concentrate more on your spouses.
Bubli Gee, Sorry to say but when I read your thread, I felt sorry for you that you do not even realise the effect that you are having on this girl. Plus the fact that you do not know what sort of feelings he has for you. Obviously he not gonna tell you, he’s not that stupid! He knows he’s been married not to a girl of his choice and now he has to stay with her. But he’s still keeping in touch with you under the pretence of friendship. How can you be 100% sure that he has no feelings for you? Just cus he says so right? Wrong!!!! Listen there are enough divorces happening in Pakistan bcus of “ modern” soch ke logue. Dont let yourself be the reason for another one. Your afraid of what to say to her when she comes accussing you. Why?????? Are you not afraid of Allah??????? Im guessing not otherwise you wouldn’t be dissing his wife for being a hijabi and conservative By your previous posts it seems none of what we say on here is going to have any effect, because you have made up yur mind about how you feel about your “Best buddy in the world” and to hell with what the wife thinks. Well you just carry on sweetheart, but don’t come crying when all this blows up in your face when his wife decides to insult not just you but your hubby as well for a being a dick not to notice what his wife is upto. Then not only she leaves him but your hubby leaves you as well and that’s when Even your so called friend will blame you. Open your eyes and see the reality of what you’re getting yourself into. But then maybe everybody divorcing each other will be the perfect chance for your “best buddy in the world” to make his move . wink wink
blunt and well said!Agreed x2
I didn’t consider it a “diss” (as such), but friendly banter. Had you but told me you actually wanted me to insult you, I’d gladly have complied.
If you’re as “comfortable” with your “own gender” as I suspect you are (your defensive homophobic remarks notwithstanding), one would expect you “to brush…off” any other member of the opposite sex, not just myself. Don’t worry: Your secret’s safe with me, gurlfriend!
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the impression i got from ur post is that ur the one who is actually jealous of his wife.
so his wife always had a jealousy for me cos, well.. i am kinda good looking too and get along with her huisband more than her tiny finger can..
what a thing to say lol. no wonder she wants u to back off
the impression i got from ur post is that ur the one who is actually jealous of his wife.
so his wife always had a jealousy for me cos, well.. i **am kinda good looking too* and get along with her huisband more than her tiny finger can..*
what a thing to say lol. no wonder she wants u to back off
Jealous? Really, Lipstick? I don't see any jealousy in that statement. I'd say that it's a very "humble" comment, lol. ;)
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very 'humble' indeed lol
a man in question needs chhitrool alongwith his* luundi angraz* cousin
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Hun, when you was kids you were best mates, but now your older with families you gotta cut it off. Its her husband and she has a right to tell him how she feels, And you have to respect it. You get narrow minded people like that, but what can you do? You gotta jus let it go, and ignore her and possibly him if she doesnt believe in friendships.
I know how you feel because my dad is very close to his girl cousins too, and they joke around so much, jus how u described yours.
Its unfair that shes behaving like that, shes insecure obviously. Jus leave it for the time being.
Like you said your good looking, so obviously many women do get insecure about good looking women especially if your hubbys talking to them.
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Jealous insecure wife, What can you do eh? Your prettier than her, Forget herrrrr!!!