It's my recipe...

[Sara516]

@Gemini_the_Great

Sahar and Sara: here is a thing.. I dun have a problem with them not sharing it but my problem is why promise or give out the wrong recipe.. i mean to the point where they ask you to remind them next time when they are around but still have the guts to give out the wrong recipe.. I think her problem is she wants to be the best… even though no one is liking that about her now!!

Anyway, I am going to treat her the same from now on.. no more going out of the way (printing out the recipe from work to drop it off at her place just because she requested it) to share any recipe with her neither am I going to ask her for anything now.. simple!!!

CA: I understand that but honestly I follow recipes to the exact measurements, if it says 5 black peppercorns, I make sure I count them before I add them in!!I need to graduate from cooking 101(

It is not right to lie or keep stringing someone along, to constantly “promise” that they will do something when the never really intend to.

But at the same time, i’d just stop bothering w/ them, they dont deserve YOUR precious time and energy wasted on them..

@Sahar02

I agree, Gemini. It’s a terrible thing to do. I didn’t mean to sound like I was making excuses for women who behave in this way. It’s just another pathetic consequence of the way our gender roles are constructed.

Sometimes its just easier to try and understand the reasons behind other ppls behaviours just for ones own sanity if nothing else…