I hope you don't take offense to any of the questions i ask, i've always been curious about the ismailis and would just like some answers. Also so you know my only experience of ismailis and interaction is in canada.
- If the aga khan is supposed to be the spiritual leader for all ismailis, then should he not also be the most pious so that he can lead by example? For example, your current Imam, Shah Karim, has been married and divorced twice. Both times to non muslim women. I'm not saying theres anything wrong with marrying non muslim women since they converted but these women are often influential and famous women and I don't think they would really follow islam truly. It seems like they only convert for the sake of marriage but isn't it a muslim man's duty to marry a pious and religious woman to be a good mother for his children so they may be the same.
Also although there's nothing wrong with divorce if there is a good reason behind it but in islam we are also taught not to take it lightly. So why does your Imam treat it so? Also although I know his father was never an imam but wasn't Prince Aly Khan notorious for having extra marital affairs and marrying actresses ad models? again women who probably are not pious and religious at all. Hence as the imams role model he was hardly a good islamic one?
So to summarise as your spiritual advisor why does the imam not practise islamic rules even better than an ordinary person should?
In canada, all of the ismaili's i have met go to some thing called 'khaane' on friday evenings (i think they also go at other times but this event seems to be more special or whatever). They dress up more than people dress up for prom at these events. The girls wear low cut tops, and short dresses, tons of makeup etc., the guys wear suits. I asked them one time why they were dressing up so much (regardless of the fact that as muslims they shouldn't be prying half naked) and they said because its a social event where girls and guys often meet each other as potential b/f , g/f etc. So why is this going on?
Again only out of all the ismailis i know in canada (which is probably like 100 from various places in canada) all of them drink alcohol. Now i know alot of muslims drink and they're not supposed to but its not just this generation either, even their parents consume alcohol on a regular basis and their grandparents. Again i asked a bunch of my friends if they knew drinking alcohol was haram and some of them didn't know and the ones who did, said that their Aga Khan had said that it was important for them to fit into and become a part of the community they belonged to. Hence if they belong to a western community then it is ok to do whatever people in the west do. So my issue was they did not even realise or know it was wrong, and once again i received the same response from their parents
once again i hope you find none of this offensive, these are just my observations of the ismailis in canada. and i was wondering if ismailis are different elsewhere then what is the reason for the canadian (and i know a bunch of british ones too) ismailis being this way?
as such they are an incredibly tight community, they stick together, and take care of each othr. and when aga khan comes to visit , it isa huge deal for which they miss work and what not. they are also very generous in terms of charity, all good traits but none of them have anything to do with islam.
i hope you can answer my question