There is small number of people who want Pakistan to be a ‘Islamic Caliphate’, just look how big a support Islamic political parties get and how much other parties get support during elections that I believe is a good enough indicator of how “Islamism” is affecting Pakistan’s progress. Its not possible to ask everyone to think along only one line, let everybody think and do what they can as long as it is towards Pakistan’s interests but nothing wrong/abusive towards fellow Pakistanis whether its in name of religion or ethnicity.
The success has come only in last few decades, where was this success 200 years ago? I don’t think they abandoned religion only in last few decades from govt.
How many people are actually jamming religion everyone’s throat? You are hanging out with wrong people or reading wrong media.