Re: What to do about Grandma
be upfront. tell her she's wrecking your son's self-esteem and it is not acceptable. if she wants to continue living with you, she needs to stop, otherwise some other living arrangement will have to be made. i know she's your mom, but she's being really mean to a little boy. kids dont understand these things and they do scar them emotionally... whats your little guy done to deserve that treatment? nothing. its not fair and its not acceptable. its bad enough that she's picking on you and making you feel bad about yourself, but with your son, its pushing things too far. does she perhaps need medical help to chill out? i know its an awful thing to say/consider, but if she's affecting the whole family, something needs to be done.