Is it Ok that u r fiancee talk like this?

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i really don't think she discussed anything here..she is just asking for help that all..

it's not always good to give your two cents!

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Re: Is it Ok that u r fiancee talk like this?

Tell him to be patient and all shall be revealed on the wedding night :D

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Ap kay fiance kay hormone level kuch ziyada hee high lagta hain.. but main hoti to ak to gali day kar phone hang up karti.. :snooty:

But on a serious note: No actually i would never want my fiance to talk to me like tat especially before nikkah, but still if he does i would tell him directly tat iam not comfortable discusing such things with him.. if he was wise he would get the point..

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wud u be more comfortable if he asked other girls these questions instead of u. hes ur fiance for god's sake who else is he going to talk to like that?? grow up!

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lols! the voice said is all true.. that's why i said make him understand in a friendly atmosphere otherwise it happens that he might think you're insulting his feelings that are growing for you only.. and i know a couple of girls in my colllege had the same problem, their fiancees got involved in other girls too.. so handle the situation carefully and intelligently as i said earlier.. and don't think too much about this please, he loves you and may be has grown more feelings for you than you've for him.. and if you talk about islamic point of view and all then there's nothing like fiancee in islam, so better keep islam away from this topic if you ask such a question.. - peace!

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For me, it's pretty normal....I'm married with a 9 month old daughter...

I like to ask questions that kind of arouse me........sometimes it's not about SeX but just the thought of something arousing is already mouthwatering!!!

YOUR SCIENCE QUIZ!!!
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but a married man with a kid now talking like this sounds.........aham aham! it gives an impression of a bad boy! lols

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Frist I would advise Maha, don't take the advice from any guys in this topic, and not even guys in real life. Most guys do not understand and do not grasp how a girl feels, and what her needs and limits are, they usually think girls feel the same way about sexuality as they do, but that is not so.

Secondly, I would advice you not to get intimate before nikkah as it can be horrible and painful if it breaks, which I don't wish but it is better to be on the safe side. And the relationship before marriage isn't as beautiful with that intimate stuff. The relationship before marriage is a different one and should be treated like that. If you did everything now, and on the phone then what will be the point of marrying. So, set the limits or the guy will think he has a free ticket to do as he wants. Nicely tell him off, and the key to all of it is communication in a way that he understands, at times it can even result in a fault, but arguements are part of a relationship just like love is. So, the making up at the end can be good too.

Wish you all the best.

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couldn't have said it better myself.

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what's wrong with talking back dirty?

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harsh

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:smack:no wonder she hasn’t come back to the thread

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lolz

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No, i am still here, taking different opinions from different people.

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Here's my opinion, since u asked for ppls opnions

No, it is not OK for him to ask these type of questions...they are very sleazy and because of their sleaziness are disrespectful to you before marriage....doesn't matter if he asks them only once in a while or if he's your fiance, they are still inappropriate. (unlike a couple of other ppl are suggesting) there's no point in getting flattered about the fact that he asks u these questions...

I would be very offended if my fiance asked these types of questions .... after marriage, and after having been sexually intimate it is a whole different situation... but your man should show you some respect before that point is reached, and should show some classy-ness while communicating his desire for you. there are more classy ways to do it. meaning there are more classy ways for him to compliment you, and to let you know about his desire for you...and he should be displaying class and respect for you, after all you are his future wife, not some trash ...

and why are you asking for "clever" ways to drop the hint to him...
just be direct, and say clearly, you like him a lot and are looking forward to be his wife, but you think before marriage these questions are inappropriate...tell him to ask you questions about your interests, about your studies, your work, your hopes and dreams, your belief system etc...

and talking to him every night is too much for u two i think based on what i have judged about the maturity...few times a week might be better...