Re: Is it Ok that u r fiancee talk like this?
nope.
Maybe if you asked him what size his bits were he might get the hint!!!
No, don’t do that i’m only joking!! xxx:femme:
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Or ask him for his shoe size.
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or his ear lobes... but that would give you the adjacent part size lol
or his ear lobes... but that would give you the adjacent part size lol
His tongue, right? Which we've already establishde is long, him being a horny chatterbox and all.
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no, I think it relates to the size of balls
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Again from the conversation provided, those balls are bigger than his stomach.
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Guys, guys, guys ... hold your horses! :)
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Faisal, does the "horse" in your comment has a especial meaning? ;)
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Sorry I think this guy needs to get a check on himself here. If he behaves this way on the PHONE, I feel very sorry for Ms Maha on the wedding night as this "type" will never take no for an answer and is looking to pleasure HIMSELF, not his WIFE.
Ms Maha, I'm sorry to be harsh here. But this guy needs to get a grip and FAST. He sounds like one of those who wants a wife so that he can releive himself if you get my drift. Personally, I would tell a boy like this that he will have to wait. He will need to go thru marriage etc and THEN prove himself to be a man that can provide for his wife and family in the way that a proper Muslim man should...and IF he is a GOOD boy and an adequate husband, THEN and ONLY then will he will be rewarded with sex.
Maha. whether it is ok for fiance to talk like this is very relative question, there could be different views from everybody, it looks as if it is not right from your point of view and if you look from his perspective it certainly is ok for him to talk like this......
So even if you ask for opinions on GS, some would say it is ok while others would say its not, in the end it boils down to the fact that what you feel about it, if you do not like it, you have to voice that opinion to someone who matters...which is your fiance!
But on GS since its only you who know him, therefore the choice of words, actions, and time you select for airing your views to him are something which only you can best decide!
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lol wow thats soundz kinda weird :p
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Dear Gapporose!( this excludes Gaporries),
thats a girls issue, keep your precious grey matter for men facing something like when a girl wanting to know your statisitcs or your eating, snorring, burping, dirty socks, how many days you take to change them and wants to know the truth. WOuld you go into the girl trap!
no its not ok one thing leads to another so better be carefull
first of all..talking to him every night may be the reason why he is moving too fast.....it could be the reason he is asking you such questions..if you are not comfortable with his directness...have him call you at a different time..if he is smart..he will take the hint..and respect you. good luck!
If your not comfortable with it... (which it sounds like you aren't if you need advice) how are you going to be comfortable with him after you get married. Now im not saying that you are wrong, but it sounds like there needs to be more communication here. I believe intimacy comes after friendship. If you have already reached a level of understanding and your still not comfortable maybe you two are compatible. Than again I could be wrong, because I dont know the whole situation, and even if I did, It is a lot different looking from the outside in, than it is looking from the inside out. You need to talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Communication is very important in order to have a healthy and fufilling relationship. Talk to him about it and i'm sure you two will be able to figure out a solution.
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There is a big difference between establishing good communications after marriage (there is physical intimacy) or even when the two people are physically in the same place compared to a telephonic relationship.
Conducting any kind of long term relationship over telephone/email is very dicey. You miss out all the body language cues (86% of communication is non-verbal) and there are plenty of chances of creating misunderstandings.
Reduce your frequency of contact and keep it light and comfortable for both parties. If necessary, explain to your partner what I just said above so he understands that you are not trying to blow him off, but that you realize that this is a very important time in this relationship and you want to keep things moving in the right direction to have happy and successful married life.
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Next time he asks you about the size, bring up some of his Zulekha bajis, or Sajida bajis and say I am almost the same size as them...now that'll work like a bucket full of ice-chilled water on his fire of passion!
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HAHAHAHA, tell him that you will answer all his questions if he asks through his ammi, AHAHAHAHAH!
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dear maha, i would talk about my own experience, as i'm also engaged.. we didn't know eachother before our engagement but now we do.. these situations should be handled intelligently.. i would talk about some boys, who're a bit impatient and like to know everything before marriage.. but these are only girls who can set the limits, really if you allow him or answer him or even tease him it will turn him more towards asking even more open questions which will ruin the beauty of your relationship before marriage - again as "phatbilongri" said we don't know him, its only you who knows him as you guys have been engaged for 2 months now and talk daily, don't encourage him/ don't answer him and tell him that you want these things to be discussed after marriage, and you want to keep the beauty and respect of your relationship.. and try making him feel that you love him/ like him and you do respect his feelings.. please don't make him feel that you're insulting his feelings, that can be harmful for your new relationship as i think you do not know eachother too much or its an arranged engagement - right? so be close to him if he wants but do set the limits and i too talk to my fiancee every saturday night, trust me there's nothing wrong to talk at night - after you set you limits with him in a friendly conversation (once) then you'll never have to think about day or night.. and the relationship will stay beautiful - tell him that you will answer all his question once you're married.. stay happy! best of luck from me.