Is it normal that she talks to some other guy??

MasterX · July 14, 2009, 1:42pm

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@mods

Plz close this thread!

IdentityLost · July 14, 2009, 1:45pm

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Love before marriage is nothing.....!!
Real love exists b/t Hubi nd wife... bt parntz nd child.... b/t Momin nd ALLAH...!! B/w siblings....!!

lady_lama · July 14, 2009, 1:51pm

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aww u guys... quit condemning him and his gf... ok i know islamically its not allowed but no ones perfect and they only see each other after a few years.... So its not like a proper full on gf bf relationship

he came here for advice not condemnations!!

anywhows.... i think the only time you should be concerned is if she does it regularly... Islmaically even, a man should not always be suspicious of his wife ( i knw she aint ur wife but its heading that way) You made it clear to her u didnt like her talkin to him for so long and she apologised.. if she continues it then it becomes an issue. You should be happy she shared that little piece of info with u maybe shes talkin to him out of naievaty, U can direct her and ask her to stop. If she must talk to him then she shud make it kaam ki baat not for hours on end, I dont think being overly protective is healthy for a relationship but its always good to have a calm head especially since she apologised quickly and realised the err in her ways.

lady_lama · July 14, 2009, 1:51pm

i SOO agree with that 100%

Afro-Sheen · July 14, 2009, 1:55pm

I was thinking the same thing!!! I didnt see anyone comment on this, & were just giving him advice. That is not real o rmature love at such a"tender" age....maybe she is getting over it....that's a real long time....plus another 5-6 years till marriage....

Afro-Sheen · July 14, 2009, 1:57pm

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I think he means 3 am his time, not paki time.

COLD_FIRE · July 14, 2009, 1:58pm

Take It easy lover boy.
You asked for it urself. So u see, people are more likely to criticize than puke an advice.
N e ways... 5 - 6 years is an awful long time. Especially when one's abroad. Many things change... and are destined to.
If I were you, i would perhaps not bring up saeed bhai whatever's name, Atleast for a while. There are too many uncertainties right now. So just chill and relax rather than go berserk.

Monk · July 14, 2009, 2:05pm

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ur 18 and been in luv for 6 years?

McPendo · July 14, 2009, 2:20pm

ahahahahahah saeed bahi calling at 3 lmao ahahah some bahis in Pakistan!

COLD_FIRE · July 14, 2009, 2:23pm

Ur earlier post had much better sense. Should n't have edited it in the first place.

McPendo · July 14, 2009, 2:27pm

Your boytoy? hmmm:hmmm:

McPendo · July 14, 2009, 2:29pm

Bro do you get in to subways with that beard on thats wicked innit?

hareem01 · July 14, 2009, 3:34pm

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She called him "bhai", right? I think you are doubting her for no reason.

hitchki · July 14, 2009, 3:47pm

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er yea.

what about her sleep. Between you bhai folk the poor girl is probably sleep deprieved. :(

Pakilarka · July 14, 2009, 4:44pm

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talkin to some guy @ 3 am is bad ... but was that 3 am at ur time zone or her ?

Now good thing is she was honest to u and that she called him saeed bahi... You know her better than any of us, so u wud know what to do next.... Tell her u r offended by that and she shld never talk to any guy this late.

Close this chapter move on .... Or close this story open a new book. Your choice :)

hareem01 · July 14, 2009, 4:54pm

Why not?

First of all there's nothing wrong in talking to a friend [saeed bhai] at 3 am

and seond of all the thread starter is not her husband who should tell her what to do and what not to do....he can't restrict her from talking to someone.

Gaia · July 14, 2009, 4:59pm

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^Its not like they are best freinds or something, they're in a committed relationship, therefore, this girl can't pull saeed bhai stuff!

The other thing i don't get it why is someone "bhai ish" level talking to her at 3 am. doesn't this shareef bhai need to sleep???

Pseudonymous · July 14, 2009, 5:04pm

oh give him a break. it's been happening for how many years?

lady_lama · July 14, 2009, 5:05pm

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^ innit like get over it puh-leeease

lady_lama · July 14, 2009, 5:06pm

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gaia i think he meant 3am his time... myt mean its a diff. time for her... myt b earlier or later