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so u started ur own story
which is going bit away from what u started the topic with

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and your parents
and thats where the term “Thaley lagna comes from” :omg:

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now thats a girl giving u good advice DL

♥♥♥♥♥♥ I am getting married ♥♥♥♥♥♥
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there is no doubt!

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Well thsi buddy is living in dream
which is a good dream tho

let him enjoy

but the reality is somewhat different from the dream, thats why everyone is giving him real life advices and he just keep rejecting
because he is still in the dream which is very fascinating

but he ll realize all this as soon as this dream comes to end

dreams come to an end! dont they

u get up and u dont even remmber the dreams after few days
no matter how much u liked it or how wonderfull experience it was

what u remmeber is a good feeling

so let him feel good, help him to make this better so he could have a better feeling after few days when gets up

dont laugh! everyone, i m serious :omg:

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i have never talked to her friend... :(....and its not time to talk about all that....when time will come...i will respectfully approach her....

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I know the respect of a girl..and her shyness…rather to have cheap things…isq muhabbat.com…bollywood stories..cellelar love stories and all that crap…

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u mean what 99.9% normal ppl do is crap

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cheapsters do cheap things...not normal people....

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The reality is you don't have the himmat to talk to your mum about her, keep looking at her cheeks becoming red or pink and second glance is haram according to your earlier post so it is ok to look at the cheeks becoming pink as long as you don't you don't look into her eyes?

What about the muslim reverts from the west?

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You know this is shirk brother. You don't worship your girlfriends.

♥♥♥♥♥♥ I am getting married ♥♥♥♥♥♥
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lol
ya! and thats a girl telling u

DL
what a hypocrite u are

you said:

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I know the respect of a girl
rather to have cheap things
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so are u respecting that girl
talkin about her in so many unknow ppl

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i have never talked to her friend... ....and its not time to talk about all that....when time will come...i will respectfully approach her....
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so why are u talkin now if its not the time yet

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i cannot dare to say all that to her....i cannot expose my views so openly to her...she is so shy ...and i cannot dare to talk on such issues with her...
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why did u dare to talk about her in so many strangers

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nd my reluctance was ...was due to her honour..respect..and her shyness....which never allowed me to look into her eyes...even for a once !!!!!!
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where is that honor and reluctance now

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May be she will ever be my life partner in future or not..only Allah Ta'la knows better...
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Still u r ruining her image by talkin abt her even when u know she is not urs

U know what! u r confused
confused between the Islamic values and todays modern trends

u r destroying her image, she doesn't event know abt it.

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[quote="divine-light"]

i cannot dare to say all that to her....i cannot expose my views so openly to her...she is so shy ...and i cannot dare to talk on such issues with her...:(

I will try my level best to convince my mother...and i am sure...she will not go against her dear son...:)

talking is not such forbidden...but haya is in eyes..if you talk to a guy...its easily depictable...how ...positive..sensible...and respectable you are while talking to opposite one....yet in pakistan..many girls...avoid...communicationg..or atlest ...have sense of haya..and womanish ego.....and "brave girls" who do such hanky panky...they are not brave...they are not "girls".....!!!/quote]

ur point is still confusing...wat side r u on??? all im saying is...its not like back in the days anymore whre there was no communication etc...there is communication and yes there is haya in the eyes..but u really gotta go there now and hear the stories that go around abt dating etc...'haya' is disappearing..again, this is not to say there are no good girls in pk anymore.

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studying in a coeducation? shame shame
sitting just 2 feet away from the opposite sex? shame shame
checking on her checks going red pink yellow whatever?? shame shame ...whatever happened to 'lowering your gaze' logic??
wait...she dont don pardah??..... be-hayyaEee... haraam haraam

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dl ---- i have 1 question only ..

what is ure age ?

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^He's grown up.....shaadi ke qabil.

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^I think he will eventually grow out of it. I do hope he does..! with time.

What DL does not understand is that its the same feeling that are channelled in different ways by people by people of different cultures. If DL or the gal were born in London they might have been courting, in Pak they don't even talk.

Behaviors are product of personality and environment. The gal in question might be having an affair in some other place where someone more daring than DL makes a move.

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Well if DL and the gal do get married it might turn out like this

](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?p=5623065&posted=1#post5623065)

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:konfused:

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