Is hitting ur wife allowed in Islam

What PakiAmerican is saying is not really practicle for the purposes of this thread (I mean it's really detailed..and we honestly don't need to get into such detail). ....

But i;ll give it to you anyways...

And the point remains the same, a wife has the right divorce her hubby for reasonable reasons...

When khul doesn't work (which happens very rarely) the wife will seek annulment from an Islamic court or a committee (in non-muslim countries).

1) The following are the grounds on which the wife may seek a divorce from her husband at a court of an Islamic country or in the absence of an Islamic Court (as in western countries) from a committee of a few religious people that consists of at least one scholar of Islamic law:

a) Inability or refusal of the husband to financially support his wife (even if she happens to be rich, it is still the full responsibility of the husband to maintain her).

*b) Abuse and mistreatment of the wife (which includes beating and swearing, cursing and attempting to force her to do wrong). *

c) Impotence or any other illness that prevents the husband from fulfilling the wife’s sexual needs (in recognition of the wife’s legitimate instinctive needs).

d) Incurable, repulsive disease in the husband like leprosy (or aids according to the contemporary scholars).

e) Insanity in the husband.

f) Extended absence or desertion of the husband.

g) The husband deceiving and concealing information regarding himself at the time of marriage.

h) The relationship becoming severely damaged, in that there is allot of hatred between the spouses and it is impossible for them to live a peaceful life.

The above are brief examples in which a woman can seek a divorce. There are certain rules, regulations and principles with regards to the procedure, and one should consult a reliable scholar before taking any action.

2) There are certain situations where a woman may get a divorce even without the intervention of an Islamic court:

a) Delegating of the husband, the right of divorcing, to the wife after marriage,

b) Delegating this right at the time of contracting the marriage,

c) Delegation of this right before the marriage and the marriage is attributed to this delegation,

d) Conditional delegation, where at the time of signing the marriage contract, the wife stipulated certain conditions to her husband, the breach of which would result in a divorce.

In conclusion, Shariah primarily gives the unilateral right to divorce to the husband. However, under certain conditions, the wife also has a right to seek for the annulment of the marriage. This is the ruling that was chosen for us by our Creator and it is totally in accordance with logic, common sense and the betterment of the society as a whole.

And Allah Knows Best

Muhammad ibn Adam Darul Iftaa
Leicester , UK

Very well said

copy cat :smilestar: that is what I said in 85

but you said it better :bummer:

I agree with all of it 100%. And that is exactly what I been saying in my response.

Regards

Wife beating is not allowed in islam. Even beating animals is not allowed. Physical and verbal abuse of any nature, shape, or form is not allowed.

We take things out of context and use it to fulfill our desires, all under the banner of islam.

Ok a husband can use slight physical discipline to reform wives undesirable behaviour.What about a wife?If the husband is into hitting on petty disagreements ocassionally though not everyday n at the same time hes fulfilling the basic needs of food,cloth,shelter n sex what options a wife has?.Are there any institutions in our country or the West where she can approach n help the husband control his abusiveness b4 taking the final course.
Now i'm not talking abt calling police or abuse lines.that will only worsen the thing n might involve social services who seems keen to remove the kids in such cases

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can the wife hit the husband if he's being bad? why are men the only one who can hit?

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Yes wife can hit the husband whenever he needs it..!

fatwa! fatwa! —> by Sheikh Gup Shup :fraudia:

you will have to take that up with Allah Mian. He made the rules. But then it's controversial that husband can hit the wife...so that's not exactly set in stone.

Ohhh my Allah that is so very wrong Face par marna mana hai. Face pay bilkul naheen marna chahyay.

My Monster (now no more monster as you changed your monsteri eye.)

If she does cheating thats why. Why not is liaay kay aurat mard say muqabla kar hi naheen sakti wo kumzor hoti hai mard ki nisbat.

Yeah you and queer teach this to your sister, mother and daughter or if you yourself are girl and then see the after math.

How could they give fatwa? What if they are not muslim?

Ask Social services to send him to "ANGER MANAGEMENT COURSE".

Quran main hai.

"Musalman wo hai jis kay haath aur zuban say kisi doosray musalman ko nuqsan na ponhchay".

No physical abuse is not allowed in anyway in Islam except when she is doing adultry and asking to stop and after stopping bed sharing didn't work.

No not even in argument or anyway physical abuse is not allowed.

What that girl can do at that time.

Gr8 Advice ABSOLUTELY FREE From Gr8Heera for the Married girls whose husband have anger problem is.

When he is saying something and you don't like it or have different opinion and he gets mad when you tell at that time then don't say anything and keep quite.

And when he is in good mood or after sometime then tell him your opinion.

Jub mard ghussay main ho us waqt aap uski sub badamizi bardasht kar lain kuch na kahin. Baad main jub wo achchay mood main ho us waqt us mauzoo pay baat karain aur jub wo garam honay lagay to chup ho jain.

This is the way to avoid physical abuse from an angery husband. Jub aap turki ba turki jawab na nain us kay ghussay kay waqt to marnay ki naubat nahee aay gi.

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Another question: is hitting one’s husband allowed in Islam? :hmmm:

WE HAVE ALREADY ADDRESSED this A THOUSAND TIMES!!! the answer is YES!!! With a balen!!! :bailan

i was just kidding!

Thank you. That’s all I needed to know. :halo:

readers of this thread try it on their own risk :)

Me too.

Agree.

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This is so not funny. And inappropriate. No you cant hit your wife, or a woman. Bye