the future bride if she is virgin or not? And if he does not he is supposed to “deal with it”.
The comments from repeiring hymen thread suggest that men should not divorce a woman if they discover she had sex before marriage. Kinda strange reasoning.
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NO!
Is that the only thing on your mind? Im sure many brides would be offended! I sure as hell would be.. it would kill my mood and i wouldn't really feel like talking to him for ages until i feel better!
As for how u shud react... it depends on you!
and this topic really has been dragged, killed, resuscitated and killed again today!
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I think too much information is bad for your own self . One can stay happier if he/she just take things at their face value and not try to dig deeper .
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I aree lady lama with that, it is quite an offending question, but some ladies seem to suggest that if its so important for a man to have a virgin, he shud ask first.
I think too much information is bad for your own self . One can stay happier if he/she just take things at their face value and not try to dig deeper .
What if the things explode at your face later on.
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Don't know.
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Keep it away from your face 
Translating into urdu
baad meiN beech bazar bhanda hoot jaye
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if the girl is truly remorseful for what she did aur sachay dil say tauba ki hay, then that should be the end of it (and she shouldn't disclose that part of her past anyway). if a guy feels like he has to ask that about a girl, then that's not a good sign.. either the guy is too insecure / not trusting, or the girl probably is acting immaturely or in a way that would make even an understanding guy wonder abt her past.. regardless of which one is at fault in that scenario, the two aren't right for one another since the seed of the relationship is suspicion; doesn't fare well for them down the road.
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Stick to girls from back home from good families, do a thorough background check, rely on your parents judgement and hope for the best.
You may still end up with a girl who isent a virgin, but there are less chances of it.
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^^^Girls back home? Bigger chance that they aint virgins compared to us Brits/Americans etc.
The joke of the century! Plz!!!!!!!!
^^^Girls back home? Bigger chance that they aint virgins compared to us Brits/Americans etc.
The joke of the century! Plz!!!!!!!!
There may be SOME desi chicks in North America who are still virgins...but the majority of desi girls in the US, and Canada are highly 'doubtful' virgins.
Meaning they may conveniently forget they ever lost their virginity when they are trying to dupe some poor desi sucker into marraige!
Or they may go for the procedure someone mentioned on another thread.
Thats also when the 'nakli hijab' comes out - and they dupe some poor sucker into believing they're Mother Teresa!
Girls back home are totally the opposite. Culture, upbringing and parental control has a lot to doo with it.
Cant say what the deal is with the brits. Desi guys from the UK could probably shed more light on that one.
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Ok...the thing is...is it important to YOU? If it is, then ASK.
If its not then dont ask.
This is the person that you are promising the rest of your LIFE to. Be sure you're getting what you want.
MY THREAD " MUSLIM GIRLS GOING FOR HYMEN REPAIR SURGERY" HAS BEEN UNFAIRLY AND UNDULY CLOSED.PERHAPS SOME GIRLS HERE ON THIS FORUM DO NOT LIKE TO SEE AND LISTEN THE TRUTH! IT HAS BEEN CLOSED ONLY AFTER 66 REPLIES...............ITS TOTALLY UNCALLED FOR!!!!
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farhanyu, i feel your pain. i recommend you show them nastay girls and the cruel thread-closer by getting your hymen repaired as well. that'll teach em beaches...
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Can a woman ask the man to take a blood test because she doesnt want to contract AIDS or other STDs?
If so, he can.
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^ She should if she has a reason to ask.
Why even bother to think of marrying someone if there is a need for this question or about virginity and if it is important for the person???
Can a woman ask the man to take a blood test because she doesnt want to contract AIDS or other STDs?
If so, he can.
Best answer !
I did ask on our wedding night 
She said “Uzi what Fck are you talking about we have been together for 2 1/2 years now”
I said “guys back home ask”
She said “but we been hummping..rememebr?”
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Not worth my time