How many of you believe in your personal space after marriage?
And how many think that everything should be shared after marriage?
Personaly speaking I believe in no matter how much you love someone or are close to, but some part of you still belongs to you, and it is sancrosanct. Nobody is allowed in it, even your spouse. The day I will give up that small part of me, is the day I die.
Agree/Disagree? Why?
define the personal space
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with space u mean= seperate rooms ?? or time for yrself ?
i believe there's already part of yr life / routine which u don't share with yr spouse ......... is the time u spent on yr own , like say @ work , in office ,work related travel, in college ( if studying) , hang out with friend or simply chat with them on phone, also time spend ( in person or again at phone) with yr parents , siblings etc........... it's not like with yr spouse u're stuck for all 24/7 but other than all the above mentioned stuff the rest of yr time should be spent with yr spouse and kids ( if u have any).
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agree
getting married doesnt mean that u have to give up ur identity
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umm one shud share things with the partner cuz this helps in building trust and better understanding.for me i never have much to keep aside:vivo:
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If you are talking about the time you get after all other activities you do on your, solo like work , studies , driving travel , etc . Then start adding all that time up and subtract it from the time you have for you wife/husband then you will get no time for personal space. If you are looking for personal space on a regular basis then there is some snag in your married life. Once in a while some time out with your buddies is ok. I will not quantify that once in a while you be the judge.
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I think personal space should not be confused with personal time. Both have different implications and both are required. Each person may have a different and unique reason for it. The prime example of personal space of a man being being violated is the relations between wives and inlaws, each one sometimes invades the others personal space and all hell breaks loose. There are other examples as well but this most prevalent.
As for hanging around old time buddies or sometimes having gender specific gatherings is an example of personal time than one could need.
I think both are important and both spouses should understand where each others personal space lies and when spending some personal time is productive rather than counterproductive to the welfare of the family.
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well first it depends what kinda things you have done in your past, and second is did you even learn anything from your mistakes or no?
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I would keep my personal space/time/activities with me but will definitely share it with my wife (to be) ... The relationship in my opinion should be an open book and I can not have the keeRa of "my life, my way" when I have a life to share with someone I would love :)
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Light Bearer
Aap kay seenay main kon kon se ahem raaz dafan hain?
How many of you believe in your personal space after marriage?
And how many think that everything should be shared after marriage?
Personaly speaking I believe in no matter how much you love someone or are close to, but some part of you still belongs to you, and it is sancrosanct. Nobody is allowed in it, even your spouse. The day I will give up that small part of me, is the day I die.
Agree/Disagree? Why?
I absolutely agree with u and understand wot u r saying...i dun only believei n my own personal space but i believe that u should give ur spouse his/her space as well....let ur better half have their individuality and let u keep ur individuality as well......
this is one of my touchy points :S I want to stay wot I am
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main ney soch liya hey
I is keep mine tooth brush aleheda..haan jii , schee.
you is keeped shaving razor alahida two 
heheheh..
I is not marry u AQ
main ney soch liya hey I is keep mine tooth brush aleheda..haan jii , schee.
why are mine toohbrush green
lahola wala
good babua, girl is you buy Enny chanced? 
Main Mar jawan Gur Kha key…
in coutry u is live two boys is marry, I seed on TV..schee
and Abbu saided
Laholwallah…
wesey Aq if I are gal, is u marry I?..lol
daso..hun
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Hum ney AQ ko NASA Deya....
Ab Kitna socho gey Aq
Kuch Bolo Moun tu Kholo tum
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goodbabu: i kneed mine space. please left I alone 