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dekhta hai tou dekhnay do..kya howa?
.... aakhir aaye ga tou tumharay paas hi na? ;-)
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She has watched movies on the “ritual” … what’s your point? What I was trying to say is, even if the wife is so open minded and kinky, she still finds her husband to be addicted to porn. So to those of you pointing fingers at the girl, it’s not her fault. Her husband is messed up.
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She assumed that since a lot of muslim/pakistani girls in a western society don’t adhere to religion, I might have some ‘secret bf(s)’ and experience under my belt as well.
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She has watched movies on the "ritual" ... what's your point? What I was trying to say is, even if the wife is so open minded and kinky, she still finds her husband to be addicted to porn. So to those of you pointing fingers at the girl, it's not her fault. Her husband is messed up.
Isn't that what her husband is doing? Watching movies on the "ritual"? And how can a movie about kama sutra not be porn? If a wife watches movies about kama sutra, she is open minded kinkaaay. But if the husband watches porn, he is a perverted porn addict. Screw logic.
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you just have to be really vela to be addicted to porn.
watch it, get over it, and act like an adult. 
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She assumed that since a lot of muslim/pakistani girls in a western society don't adhere to religion, I might have some 'secret bf(s)' and experience under my belt as well.
awww. i hope you gave her a big thappar :(
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Isn't that what her husband is doing? Watching movies on the "ritual"? And how can a movie about kama sutra not be porn? If a wife watches movies about kama sutra, she is open minded kinkaaay. But if the husband watches porn, he is a perverted porn addict. Screw logic.
Difference between watching something for learning purposes (to be able to please DH) and becoming addicted to the point it starts to affect your relationship with your spouse.
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Because it’s 2013. Good chance marriage isn’t a pre-req to be experienced.
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Isn't that what her husband is doing? Watching movies on the "ritual"? And how can a movie about kama sutra not be porn? If a wife watches movies about kama sutra, she is open minded kinkaaay. But if the husband watches porn, he is a perverted porn addict. Screw logic.
Could not agree more.
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Kama Sutra is not a “ritual”. You need to get more educated on this stuff before you make up stories..
Or if you seriously consider KS to be a ritual, God help you.
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Because it's 2013. Good chance marriage isn't a pre-req to be experienced.
Well this still held true when I got married in 2007 (I'm not a dinosaur :().....There was no way I would have asked any of my single friends for sex advice UNLESS I was very open with them and I knew for a fact that they were experienced......and if someone did I'd be very weirded out/insulted.
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OMG, what part of my msg was difficult to comprehend? What she did was more for educational purposes … similar to when someone discovers for the first time where babies come from and it piques their interest to learn more. I don’t know her religious history … I am not an expert on Geetha … but she made it sound like in hinduism, a lot of emphasis is placed on (legitimate) physical relations and she preserved herself for her husband and wanted to please him through this and other methods (cooking, taking care of him, etc) to ensure he will love her back and be loyal to her. She sees porn as a form of cheating and insulting to women. Her marriage was arranged, so when she found out her husband is an addict, she felt hurt to know that he derives pleasure from other means (other than her).
Anyhow, I don’t know what she watched or what he watches. But the way you’re twisting the story and justifying the husband’s actions, isn’t right.
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Well this still held true when I got married in 2007 (I'm not a dinosaur :().....There was no way I would have asked any of my single friends for sex advice UNLESS I was very open with them and I knew for a fact that they were experienced......and if someone did I'd be very weirded out/insulted.
I don't think her intentions were bad. She is part of a group of friends and some of the Muslim girls in the group, I wouldn't really call them Muslim. So... it was an honest mistake.
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OMG, what part of my msg was difficult to comprehend? What she did was more for educational purposes ... similar to when someone discovers for the first time where babies come from and it piques their interest to learn more. I don't know her religious history ... I am not an expert on Geetha ... but she made it sound like in hinduism, a lot of emphasis is placed on (legitimate) physical relations and she preserved herself for her husband and wanted to please him through this and other methods (cooking, taking care of him, etc) to ensure he will love her back and be loyal to her. She sees porn as a form of cheating and insulting to women. Her marriage was arranged, so when she found out her husband is an addict, she felt hurt to know that he derives pleasure from other means (other than her). Anyhow, I don't know what she watched or what he watches. But the way you're twisting the story and justifying the husband's actions, isn't right.
Can we understand this better. This so called friend of yours was well-informed about Kama sutra and what not. If she had to be well-informed she would have considerable knowledge on the subject which could be gained by multiple means none of which is something we could write home about. Do you seriously believe that she just took the classes on KS and did not ponder more(look around) on the subject. If that is the case she has every right to be aggrieved and I rest my case. I certainly believe this story and understand the husband needs to come to terms with his wife who looks at KS as just another subject to study. Maybe she should get a Masters on the subject also.
Just to remind you of your post
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OMG, what part of my msg was difficult to comprehend? What she did was more for educational purposes ... similar to when someone discovers for the first time where babies come from and it piques their interest to learn more. I don't know her religious history ... I am not an expert on Geetha ... but she made it sound like in hinduism, a lot of emphasis is placed on (legitimate) physical relations and she preserved herself for her husband and wanted to please him through this and other methods (cooking, taking care of him, etc) to ensure he will love her back and be loyal to her. She sees porn as a form of cheating and insulting to women. Her marriage was arranged, so when she found out her husband is an addict, she felt hurt to know that he derives pleasure from other means (other than her). Anyhow, I don't know what she watched or what he watches. But the way you're twisting the story and justifying the husband's actions, isn't right.
Oh please. All the women who are going nuts about Fifty Shades of Grey, for what? Its literary value? Its plot? It is BDSM porn. Do you see men crying bloody murder? Just because she sees porn as a form of cheating does not mean it is cheating. She never gets turned on by those acrobatic maneuvers? What is she, some sort of a god who transcends basic human instincts? Learning Kama Sutra just to please her husband? Dude, some of those positions are downright shocking, and I have seen a stripper cry on stage.
Look, you can have your Kama Sutras, your Fifty Shades of Greys, just let us have our Fifty Shades of Sasha Grey. And stop making such a big deal about it.
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Oh please. All the women who are going nuts about Fifty Shades of Grey, for what? Its literary value? Its plot? It is BDSM porn. Do you see men crying bloody murder? Just because she sees porn as a form of cheating does not mean it is cheating. She never gets turned on by those acrobatic maneuvers? What is she, some sort of a god who transcends basic human instincts? Learning Kama Sutra just to please her husband? Dude, some of those positions are downright shocking, and I have seen a stripper cry on stage.
Look, you can have your Kama Sutras, your Fifty Shades of Greys, just let us have our Fifty Shades of Sasha Grey. And stop making such a big deal about it.
LOLL @ fifty shades of sasha grey
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What would u do if you found out your spouse was checking out inappropriate pics online...confront or what?
firstly, build him a time machine and rescue him from 1985. pics??? even gifs are animated these days.
second, be like.. y u marry me and look at gay pr0n? y y y?
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Oh please. All the women who are going nuts about Fifty Shades of Grey, for what? Its literary value? Its plot? It is BDSM porn. Do you see men crying bloody murder? .
good point.
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Well this still held true when I got married in 2007 (I'm not a dinosaur :().....There was no way I would have asked any of my single friends for sex advice UNLESS I was very open with them and I knew for a fact that they were experienced......and if someone did I'd be very weirded out/insulted.
I don't know what to tell you except that 99 percent of the time when girls discuss sex lives, they don't do it randomly; it's usually brought up after you understand the other person is in the same world as you and the same page for that matter.
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I don't know what to tell you except that 99 percent of the time when girls discuss sex lives, they don't do it randomly; it's usually brought up after you understand the other person is in the same world as you and the same page for that matter.
Or it could be that you discuss because you feel the other person generally gives good, sincere advice, wouldn't judge you, and wouldn't gossip about it to the other mutual friends.