In an arranged marriage set up, if you had 15 minutes to meet the guy and decide yay or nay, what would you ask?
I think my first would be, what are your expectations from your wife? Next, How do you envision your married life? What else should be asked to get a vague idea?
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15 min is just to short of a time span but if this has to be this quick first question should be are you in this with your heart and mind? If there is some time remaining after this I’ll go for following questions (in order)
I dont think you will even get the chance to reach to question 2 in 15 min … 15 min main tu bus danth (teeth) check ho saktey hain k bakra 2 danth ka hai ya char danth ka
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I didn't think of the most important question. Thank You D6C
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Of course atomic number of ‘Au’ . . . and how many of them he can get you . . .
First part will tell you size of his brain , and second one of his pocket 
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is your mother be living with us? haha no but seriously
But this is too short of a time. By the time, I grab a chair and introduce myself, it will be all over lol
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in 15 min let him talk and u just observe his behavoir😊
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Wo larka hai Tahir-Al-Qadri nahi jo khud he boley jayee ga
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notice if he actually listens to you
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In an arranged marriage set up, if you had 15 minutes to meet the guy and decide yay or nay, what would you ask?
I think my first would be, what are your expectations from your wife? Next, How do you envision your married life? What else should be asked to get a vague idea?
good starter but do you think if either a man or a woman is asked this question, would he or she answer it in earnest sincerity and honesty?
an honest person would definitely reply in earnest sincerity and honesty but how about a crook or someone who got to hide his true personality? would he/she still feel obliged to to answer truthfully to the questioner? i'm afraid NOT!
the right people to inquire about someone's personality is to ask his social circle which includes his friends in order to investigate intensively.
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good starter but do you think if either a man or a woman is asked this question, would he or she answer it in earnest sincerity and honesty?
an honest person would definitely reply in earnest sincerity and honesty but how about a crook or someone who got to hide his true personality? would he/she still feel obliged to to answer truthfully to the questioner? i'm afraid NOT!
the right people to inquire about someone's personality is to ask his social circle which includes his friends in order to investigate intensively.
And the girl asking him, is he in this with his heart n mind, in her arranged marriage first meeting with him, is considered too much bold too ;)
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The most imp nowadays is, ask him, is he noon leagi or pti supporter 
bd mei prb na ho na :
Aur agar phoonk oos ne pehlay maar di, I mean agar question oos ne pehlay pooch liya tou LP won’t even be able to reach question 1
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Aur agar phoonk oos ne pehlay maar di, I mean agar question oos ne pehlay pooch liya tou LP won't even be able to reach question 1
hahaha...matlab, sawaal sunne kii taab hii na laa sakeNgii to kujaa sawaal kujaa jawaab! :D
@LP, good luck and ham sab kii du'aayeN tumhaare saath haiN! :)
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15 mins too short to talk but just right to make out. - confuzzlius
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In an arranged marriage set up, if you had 15 minutes to meet the guy and decide yay or nay, what would you ask?
I think my first would be, what are your expectations from your wife? Next, How do you envision your married life? What else should be asked to get a vague idea?
1) Can you come up with a way to increase the allocated time to one hour?
Consider this question as a suggestion or as a proposed question to the marital candidate.
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Our families had scouted out one another, my parents had done the checking on his fam etc. And then we both met.
Hubby and I met for shy of a day, around ALL our relatives, had about 20 mins ALONE time , by the end of the day we had our 'Ha/Yes' done.
I remember his only concern being "Are you being forced into this?"
Me "No"
Him "Okay lets get married"
Me "Okay, erm lets tell our parents"
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The first 15 mins should not be wasted on asking the guy any questions ... you should only ask questions when you have answered your own questions ...
First question should be the one you ask your own gut ...
"Can I live with the guy in front of me for the rest of my life?" It will take you 15 mins to decide whether to pursue the marriage.
In the 14th minute and you are in the "he is acceptable" bracket ... then ask him this question ...
"When are you available to spend a bit longer so we can learn more about each other?"
Never discuss matters ... try to experience each other's presence it is better and more natural.
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Our families had scouted out one another, my parents had done the checking on his fam etc. And then we both met. Hubby and I met for shy of a day, around ALL our relatives, had about 20 mins ALONE time , by the end of the day we had our 'Ha/Yes' done.
I remember his only concern being "Are you being forced into this?"
Me "No"
Him "Okay lets get married"
Me "Okay, erm lets tell our parents"
Sign of a confident man ...
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Our families had scouted out one another, my parents had done the checking on his fam etc. And then we both met. Hubby and I met for shy of a day, around ALL our relatives, had about 20 mins ALONE time , by the end of the day we had our 'Ha/Yes' done.
I remember his only concern being "Are you being forced into this?"
Me "No"
Him "Okay lets get married"
Me "Okay, erm lets tell our parents"
masha Allah. so, the "YES" came after the "time alone"...kia jaadoo kar diyaa thaa bechaare par? :D
vaise, did you ask him if he was pressured into marrying you? :p