It seems to be all the rage now. According to an aunty, “achey achey khandaanon ke larkey baahir ana cha rahey hain” … due to the fact that Pakistan is going down the drain.
So how do Pakistani guys think nowadays? I can’t say I’ve met very many (apart from my cousins who are exceptional and taken )
Ive actually seen that trend declining nowadays here...not sure who is going to Pak anymore. It was done A LOT when I was younger and some ppl that were older than I were getting married.
Ive actually seen that trend declining nowadays here...not sure who is going to Pak anymore. It was done A LOT when I was younger and some ppl that were older than I were getting married.
Ditto.
My grandad is so against the idea now. Only a couple of lasses in my family married guys from Pakistan and after seeing how their lives turned out, we kind of decided against that route. It became difficult when it came to career opportunites...a city only needs so many taxi drivers. (ouch!)
now she has two daughters aas soon as three years period rxpired he left and took her to court to get half of her property.
due to this she got a brain tummer
so many negative responses!! c'mon okay, so say a guy wants to get out and you support him initially, it is still possible that he may make a good husband and eventually get a suitable job if he has the right qualifications, no?
Allah reham kere,...sorry to hear this...
This import thing should actually b stopped, glad that its not happening in many families now..But if a girl and boy wants to get married by their own will, they should b allowed i think...but kisi ki neeyat ka insaan ko nai pata hota, May Allah bless all.
so many negative responses!! c'mon okay, so say a guy wants to get out and you support him initially, it is still possible that he may make a good husband and eventually get a suitable job if he has the right qualifications, no?
Depends on their qualifications and if they are recognised in whichever country they are moving to.
I know of one guy who came over from Pakistan who has actually made something of himself, will never be able to support his family on his income alone, but he came with nothing. Unfortunately, from what I have seen, his is a rare case.
someone asked other pakistani visiting pakistan for her daughter solicitor in uk.
then he asked what his sons qualifications he replied " pathay puthay janwaran nu pa leinda"
Don't be put off luv, thats only from what i'v seen and personal experiences. In the U.K, its easy to get dole, you know what I mean.
Im sure there are plenty of Pakistani guys who have been very successful in finding great careers in western countries inspite of all the negative connotations attatched.
Actually i know many families where the husband came from Pakistan married a british pakistani girl, got the passport has children and MashAllah they are living a happy life :)
It's not that there are negative points always, there are negatives and positives in everything....