I'm gay....what do I do?

BlindHope · May 21, 2009, 9:03pm

So you** believe** its natural ?

Sheroz · May 21, 2009, 9:04pm

Re: I'm gay....what do I do?

Yaar simple ..girls don't attract you...fine
but boys attracting you is just not fine certainly not in our religion..

Just forget about boys/girls and turn your self towards Allah, go mosque regularly, pray, read quran and you will get over it slowly.....time heals every wound just try your best...Allah will guide you to the right path Ameen...

I knows it's damn hard but at least give it a try yaar :)

TT · May 21, 2009, 9:04pm

again, I wasn't thirteen when I stared having feeling for boys, I remember have feelings for the same sex as early as when I was 3.

absolutely no attractions to girls at all no matter how hard I try.

TT · May 21, 2009, 9:08pm

well considering how I didn't make a conscious decision to feel this way, yes I do believe it's natural. sure, I may have been influenced (which I was not) but now at this age it has become natural.

BlindHope · May 21, 2009, 9:11pm

so u dont take the blame ? nature should?

Esix · May 21, 2009, 9:15pm

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BH be easy :@: , as PM said its pretty hard to control one's sexual preferences

so tt01 - what have u decided?

my recommendation - stay a bachelor if girls dont attract u, read NAMAZ, QURAN and just remember ALLAH SWT all the time, hopefully it'll be easier for u

TT · May 21, 2009, 9:17pm

again I did not make a conscious decision to think the way I do. so no, I don't take the blame. there is no blame.

BlindHope · May 21, 2009, 9:18pm

that makes no sense at all.......

Esix · May 21, 2009, 9:20pm

PM (punchking monk) said

its hard for someone who is gay to change his views because they are attracted to men as normal men do to women , get it :@:

BlindHope · May 21, 2009, 9:23pm

ohhh oohhhh okey achaaaa

haan

Esix · May 21, 2009, 9:25pm

Re: I’m gay…what do I do?

u rock BH

BlindHope · May 21, 2009, 9:26pm

Re: I’m gay…what do I do?

and you rule E6

Lusi · May 21, 2009, 10:40pm

lol especially calling other guys… dear, jaan, jigaar, etc etc..

ps. I don’t hate gays.

BlindHope · May 21, 2009, 10:42pm

and honey and sweetheart… to just about all gals even strangers is so gay

Khubsoorat_Collection · May 22, 2009, 4:56am

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esix loving your posts yaar and couldn't agree more

tt01 vhat fun will you have in being gay yaar? i just don't understand. i am being serious. i just can never understand what comfort and fun gays find in eachother!

what draws you to the same sex? what you find appealing in them that you don't in a woman? like i said before is that our bodies are proof that men and not designed for other men.

have you thought about your parents and how hurt they might be yaar? it will be a nasty shock for them when they find out. just out of interest have you ever prayed on a praying mat or read the quran?

TT · May 22, 2009, 5:10am

I have prayed in the Grand Mosque in Mecca. I go for Juma at the mosque every week.

Khubsoorat_Collection · May 22, 2009, 5:12am

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okay thats good yaar.

want to ask you another question? what do you want roughly for yourself in the future? you have any plans?

do you ever think about having kids or getting married?

TT · May 22, 2009, 5:17am

I want to be a stay at home dad :biggthumb. no, no plans as of right now.
I want kids, but I want to adopt.

Khubsoorat_Collection · May 22, 2009, 5:33am

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stay at home dad? where the other dad goes to work then? :) :) :)

TT · May 22, 2009, 5:40am

yup, i'll live in a big house in the suburbs