Re: I’m gay…what do I do?
Yeah it was a joke, and hate me but the only support I can offer is to advise the gay guy to seek mental help. This is not a disease that you are born with. I dont hate gays, as long as they dont hit on me 
, but I don’t support them either. Hate me more, I dont have issues with gays as long as they stay in the closet.
That having said, you need mental help. Get your issues sorted out.
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
conversion therapy isn't offered anywhere near where I live nor do I have the time or the money for it.
What I dont understand is how you know you were inclined to boys from the age of three? I mean isnt that normal at that age, where boys prefer to play with other boys and girls with girls?
Personally, I think it may have been an interest thats festered in your mind, and perhaps has taken over after a while. do you at all socialise with girls?
What I dont understand is how you know you were inclined to boys from the age of three? I mean isnt that normal at that age, where boys prefer to play with other boys and girls with girls?
Personally, I think it may have been an interest thats festered in your mind, and perhaps has taken over after a while. do you at all socialise with girls?
Yes I do socialize with girls. I have sisters.
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
If you are gay and you feel it is natural, then why should what anybody else say what you do is wrong. Mind you I personally find homosexuality a choice and not a natural occurance. It is a choice made by men and in Islam it is a sin.
Now you should do what you feel is right. You love men, great for you. Just don't call yourself a gay muslim. That is an oxymoron.
If you are gay and you feel it is natural, then why should what anybody else say what you do is wrong. Mind you I personally find homosexuality a choice and not a natural occurance. It is a choice made by men and in Islam it is a sin.
Now you should do what you feel is right. You love men, great for you. Just don't call yourself a gay muslim. That is an oxymoron.
can i consider myself a pakistani gay? or is that also an oxymoron?
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
There's all sort of chit in all geographical locations - shouldn't matter much.
Yes I do socialize with girls. I have sisters.
and aside from your sisters/cousins/aunties..?
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
I don't think this guy came here for a psychoanalysis session.
and aside from your sisters/cousins/aunties..?
yeah at uni i talk to a few girls.
I don't think this guy came here for a psychoanalysis session.
no I didn't, but I do wanna hear what other pakistanis have to say.
can i consider myself a pakistani gay? or is that also an oxymoron?
Pakistani gay works, because nothing states you can't be both. And enjoy life as you see fit and don't let others judgement of you affect how you live your life.
Oh yes also tell you parents. You will need their support.
Re: I’m gay…what do I do?
These two alpha-males will help you out:rotfl:
On a serious note, if you are being serious about this and not just creating a topic to get a reaction or wind people up, then only you know what is best for you. Lots of random people can ‘uhm’ and ‘ah’ and speculate/hypothesise as to what to do, but they can’t do it for you.
Agreed Jaanwar. this is one of those "I am bored in real life so let me make up drama threads". The guy needs to go out and get laid.
wouldn't that be an oxymoron, muslims aren't suppose to go get laid. I have to admit I am bored, but I'm not making up any drama it's all real.
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
I think you have your work cut out for you if you want to live within the Pakistani community openly as a homosexual.
My religious beliefs of course say no to homosexuality. However, as long as its not being imposed on me, I am a live and let live sort of person.
Good luck!
Well tt01! after reading ur comments it seems that you yourself dont want to change your habits becoz in the world nothing is impossible yes indeed its difficult too but not impossible and if you keep on thinking that you know that this thing could not be finished then you could never finish it.
if you are a muslim no doubt that u would be a weaker one in sense of imaan as im too then you will think like that, but when you would be determined to finish it then definitly one day you will succeed but only if you are determined.
otherwise not, you should yourself know Islam and if you knew that Islam is against all this rubbish and when you see the ancient nations who were given azaaab-e-Ilahi for this then why dont you think that if you would not be determined to finish this thing out then you would be a food of hell fire one day?
you must have to because Allah definitly has given enough thinking power to all and atleast ur a muslim not a non muslim no matter if u have weak imann but atleast ur a muslim and a muslim must not involve in such activitiz and if ur then u must have to finish it out from ur personality.
Thats it
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Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
yaar, you have opened up a thread because u were bored and wanted to see what other peoples reaction would be. yaar u dont want to change. i can tell yaar.
being gay is deviant, totally unnatural and abnormal. sorry if you mind my words but i am expressing my opinion. also, yaar please dont label yourself as muslim gay! nor as pakistani gay!
look at your body! yaar, even that is proof enough for you that it was not designed for another man!
yes you will hurt your parents but i can tell you are prepared to do that anyway. you need a serious wake-up call but again from reading your posts you dont want to change at all.
yaar people, please no one take my post as 'gay bashing' okay.
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
wow, no comments. good luck to you if you are seriously GAY.
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
tt01; I think its real brave of you to disclose a personal piece of info that most will not read and support you in pleasure- however i believe its each to their own- you re Muslim- you know how you think and feel- just be true to yourself- if you pray- then pray for Allah swt to strengthen your Emaan and guide you on this spiritual and emotional journey youre embarking- be all it may on your own- this is your imitihan- you have two paths to choose- either path you take- you will be judged by Allah swt only, according to your intentions and good actions - we live in a society where everone searches for Duniya and not Akhirah- please be mindful of this- I will make dua for you and I really do wish you well
Re: I'm gay....what do I do?
Do you honestly want to know what most Pakistanis or religious people in general think of you?