Re: If polygamy was allowed for women
polygamy for men is unacceptable, tou polygamy for women tou dooor ki baat hai.
Re: If polygamy was allowed for women
One man for one women. End of!
Simple, I would not be in this situation. :D
Let' see.. Allah wouldn't allow something that would not be of benefit to mankind. Do we agree on this? If yes then no need of arguing ..
Same time the man who gonna marry 2, 3, or 4 (step by step :D) will have to know what requires of him..!
Seriously, who in their right mind will marry 4 when 1 can't be taken care of these days? :(
Once again you have not offered a solution to this problem.Where this is a relationship there is a problem. I never said put urself in the situation I am asking how is this man supposed to treat all his wives equally. Yet NO man has offered a resolution... most of you men that are stating polygamy can work... I think your eyes are bigger than your stomach.
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pro... lots of love attention outings and shoppings etc for women since all of the hubbies would try to prove themselves better than the other...
cooking cleaning taking care of the kids etc. would be men's job...and on top of that they will be waiting and singing 'tum aaye tou aaya mujhay yaad gaali main aaj chaand nikla' on their wives' visitations...aaahhhhhaaaa...
Re: If polygamy was allowed for women
girls keeping hard to keep this thread active :D
my 2 cents to the cause
Re: If polygamy was allowed for women
^..i got only 3 enteries… u got much more 
Re: If polygamy was allowed for women
has anyone seen the movie "Wicker Man"?
Wonderful, than can you please answer the question that I asked CP....
what question? ask again.
I think its the attitude…it will take a shift and all of a sudden its the men that will be wanting to get female attention…because she can have anyone she wants…
has anyone seen the movie "Wicker Man"?
apparently not...
apparently not...
Sorry jee, ghalti ho ga'ee, maaf ker dain. Ainda zaroor dekhain ge
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TLK... I will re-post the question in a few...
Desi man have a hard time equally dividing time, materials, etc between their wife and mother.... and they think they can manage 4 wives... LMAOOO
Sorry jee, ghalti ho ga'ee, maaf ker dain. Ainda zaroor dekhain ge
lmaoooo
TLK... I will re-post the question in a few...
Desi man have a hard time equally dividing time, materials, etc between their wife and mother.... and they think they can manage 4 wives... LMAOOO
Desi men dont have hard time dividing time and money equally, its desi women who think that the division is unfair.
Desi men dont have hard time dividing time and money equally, its desi women who think that the division is unfair.
Well feelings aren't just aroused out of nowhere...
every action has an every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Blaming women for being ungrateful or MAKING them BELEIVE that the division is fair and they are overeacting is a method often used by humans to get away with something that we clearly know is wrong. However, you make the other party believe the issue is in their head and in return make them feel guilty, when you yourself at at fault...
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There is a difference between equal distribution and fair distribution. Equal is the measure of quantity while 'fair' is a perspective. Maybe from your pov, fair means that you should get 80% of your hubby's time and money, while he thinks that 50-50 is fair.
There is a difference between equal distribution and fair distribution. Equal is the measure of quantity while 'fair' is a perspective. Maybe from your pov, fair means that you should get 80% of your hubby's time and money, while he thinks that 50-50 is fair.
I guess it kinda sucks when the husband THINKS hes giving 50/50 and both parties involved feel like they are getting 20/20... he must be doing something wrong...
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Point is, is he really giving 50/50? if he is then he is fine as long as 50/50 is what shariat asks him to distribute.
Point is, is he really giving 50/50? if he is then he is fine as long as 50/50 is what shariat asks him to distribute.
Well apparently he isn't if both parties are unhappy. He thinks he is, tells himself he is, convinces others he is... but in reality he isnt....
oh well.... lol
Well apparently he isn't if both parties are unhappy. He thinks he is, tells himself he is, convinces others he is... but in reality he isnt....
oh well.... lol
Listen, fairness and happiness are 2 different thing. A court of law may pass a fair ruling that may or may not make either party happy. This is the biggest problem in relationships. We look for happiness all the times than to look for fairness.