Seems like feeling disgusted is a function of whether or not a child’s father can be named and not the multiple partner arrangement.
Babies are just a by product. Why does a one women-many men scenario itch people so much more than a one man-many women case?? Only because one carries the baby and the other does not?
Welcoming a child is a one time act. Subjecting a child to 75-25% off father days is a lifelong consequence.
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I think women hardly can burdasht 1 hairy and smell man , how they will ever be able to take 4 . :D
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The man married one woman here and one back home, and they didn't know about each other until they were both living under the same roof.
The black guy situation is what it is... as long as the parties involved have no obligation i don't have a problem...
A woman CAN/CANNOT make it work the same way a man can. I mean it sounds just as bad when your child asks daddy who is that other woman and why does she look like she could be my older sister.
Having multiple wives is just as harmful as having multiple husbands, they both have their pros and cons, at the end of the way.... in our time this living situation simply won't work.
I'm not a feminist... I am very old fashioned for the most part.
Yes I know very well that Islam put a restriction on allowing only 4 wives... Islam is also the ONLY religion that states that if you can not treat them all equally only have one.
Yes I know very well that Islam put a restriction on allowing only 4 wives... Islam is also the ONLY religion that states that if you can not treat them all equally only have one.
But that is the point Desi_B. Guys have what it takes to treat 4 women equally. Eemaan se, sachchi main, main jhoot nahi bol rahaa
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The song: “it’s raining men hallelujah” will become true!
The woman will have more risk of dying of ‘stimulation overload’. 
Jealousy will prevail in men than women. And the fight will be more serious! Not like just simple ‘Nouk Jhounk’ 
Woman will say: Now tell me, who’s your mama? Shut up and do what I say. No excuses like headache. 
Woman will lose charm faster since you know…
Woman will have to work more to try to please different men. Wait: Isn’t this something we already feel sorry for many **‘Professional men-pleaser women’ **(I just made it up) to do?
The problem will still be there after DNA test. Women have maternal love and enough to share, men have more selective love and may not be able to share love with other man’s child.
Hence more “phadda” “hatum Pai” and “Jootum Paidar”. ( Now this is thick urdu folks) 
Its the fight of testosterone versus estrogen. We know these hormones affect the emotions and love.
A small number of people practicing throughout the history of mankind speaks volume of this largely hypothetical situation.
Polyandry practice <<<<<<<<<<<<<< much less<<<<<<< than Polygamy.
And both are still less than Monogamy.
Nikiiiiiiiiiiii Kahan ho Behan Jee? 
But that is the point Desi_B. Guys have what it takes to treat 4 women equally. Eemaan se, sachchi main, main jhoot nahi bol rahaa
:D kese pata?
What the H? Why is that you girls have 50 dozen multis, half of them you dont even know yourself.
Girls should login through one of those multis and tell the truth
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I wonder how it will be...
the wife will have four husbands and each husband will have at least another wife... and those wives will have more husbands.... LOL
I told niki once that for me, she carries the charm and beauty of 4 women, so if you think of it. I am done with my quota.
I wonder how it will be...
the wife will have four husbands and each husband will have at least another wife... and those wives will have more husbands.... LOL
this world will be a one big family then
Acha…Masha ALLAH…
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yes, bee jamalo
App ghussa to nahi kare ge ? 
If I ask you what is bee jamalo ?
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Ok seriously, that should be another thread.
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Dekha dekha khud spamming karte hain koi aur kare to…
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koi aur kare tou kare
sanoo kee
What the? Less than 10 minutes I left this thread alone and I come back and.. and and and.
Trouble with multis is that someone will know them.
But that is the point Desi_B. Guys have what it takes to treat 4 women equally. Eemaan se, sachchi main, main jhoot nahi bol rahaa
Wonderful, than can you please answer the question that I asked CP....
A man is required to provide separate housing for each wife, two out of the 4 wives give birth within the same month, the husband has to go back and forth between the two wives making sure the newborns are taken care of... one is suffering while waiting for the other... what about the other two that are put on hold.... so at this point 3 women and two children (not to mention the other children that have previously been born) have to understand that their husband/father cannot keep it in his pants...
... how would you handle this situation? I mean come on.... you can have up to 4 wives, that would produce numerous children. People tend to forget that the 4 wives are not the only responsibility of the husband, there are innocent children in equations such as these... think of how hurt the children will be when their sick, hurt, upset, need help and their father is not around...
Please explain how this situation would work?
Simple, I would not be in this situation. :D
Let' see.. Allah wouldn't allow something that would not be of benefit to mankind. Do we agree on this? If yes then no need of arguing ..
Same time the man who gonna marry 2, 3, or 4 (step by step :D) will have to know what requires of him..!
Seriously, who in their right mind will marry 4 when 1 can't be taken care of these days? :(