If I could start again

If I could start again
a million miles away
I would keep myself
I would find a way

is there any thing in your life , you always wanted to start again ?

And Are you willing to hurt youself today to see if you still feel the pain ?

khaamkhwaa hi mein apnay aap ko takleef mein daaloon. :chai:

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No, I would not change the past.

I mean there are decisions that I made or behavior I had that had an impact on my life, but going back and redoing it, I still dont know what the possible outcome of that would be.

As a kid I read many comics, one of my favs was the "what if" series of marvel which looked at some turning point or sometimes a minor event and showed how things would have been different if someone had taken a different course, in many cases you were not as happy with the resulting alternate scenario as you thought you would be.

You will just trade one set of challenges and regrets with another.

I would rather learn from bad choices of the past and make my next set of choices differently or undo things in the present as best I can.

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I wish I could start my A levels again :hinna: And choose Geography rather than CHEMISTRY :mad:

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I agree with x2 bhai in a sense that I think the choices I have made so far in my life were the best available options on that given day and time . :)

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aliyish its more than that, I did nt always made the most logical or optimal decisions. there were times that I def made the wrong decision, but then I dont know the full impact of making the other decision.

stupid stuff like when i was in undergrad, I had the ability to move to a better uni, and I did not because all my pals were at my current uni, now I suppose that would have meant a better grad school and a better career start, but thats an assumption. I still sometimes kick myself. but its over pretty quickly..

you know why? we can think of decisions and assume that had we made a different decision things would be great. but maybe the outcome would be very different.

here is a real story.

a good pal of mine did just that after I graduated..was tired of being in a small town in midwest and moved to the west coast at a better uni in a better city. now one would think, great..but he got lonely, depressed and it got so bad that he committed suicide. I am sure when he transferred thats not an outcome he was thinking of, but he was thinking that it would mean err better grad school, better career start..

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^^ sad :(

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I have no regrets.

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No, I don’t regret any decision I made or anything that happened to me as I believe that everything happens for a reason. Despite of it being good or bad :slight_smile: However, it would be nice if a few alterations were possible :cb:

Woh zindagi hi kya jahan problems na hoon. Life can’t be perfect and it isn’t. There is nothing such as a perfect, problem free life :slight_smile:

Something that I strictly follow: Attention na do us chise ko jo chise tension de

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there is no point of changing ur past, if ur really wana change, change urself.

this is what i have learnt from my recent trip to Pakistan....loug sadyoon poorani baatoon per murnay marnay ko tiar, roohtnay ko tayar hain k us nay hum ko sahi salam nahi kia, ya hum ko poocha nahi tha to hum k saath aisa he kerain gain...i mean WTH

True

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nope alhumdolilah living it once is good, isi circle mie rehtaY rehtay jalebi bun’nay kay khiyalath hain kia? :hmmm:

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Ab tu GabhRa k yea kehTay haiN k MaaR jaa'ain Gay .....

Aik bar kissi shikari ny chiriya pakri os ny kaha agar tu mujhy chor dy tu do kam ki batin bataon gi ju umar bher tery kam aain gi, Shikari ny kaha bata kam as kam aik kam ki bat phir chorun ga, Chirya ny kaha ok here yo go ajnabi shikari, “Ju hath main hy os per itra na ju chala giya ps py pachta na”
Shikari ny kaha khubbbbbbbbbbb chiriya ny kaha ab mujhy chor phir dosri bat os ny osy chor diya, Chriya os ki dastaris sy dooooooooooooor darakht ki shakh per bythi or boli, " Mery pait main pao bher wazan ka heera hy" Shikari sir patakhny laga ky ay hay main ny issy chora kion. Chirya hansi or boli bywaquf tu ny tu aik kam ki bat per bhi amal na kiya, First of all(Chrir Aj kal ki Pakistani Angryzi dan chiri thi) chatank bher ki chirya ky pyt main pao ka heera tujhy wazan mehsos na howa? Dosra tujhy kaha tha ju chala giya os per pachta na:nono: Kam as kam os per hi amal ker ly ta:mocking:**

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The mistakes and bad decisions of the past has made me into a person that I am today. I learned from them and moved on and made sure, I never repeated them. Alhumdulillah, when I look back now, I am really glad that things worked out the way they did.