Marriage falling apart :(

[Deeba1234]

Re: Marriage falling apart

@cancerian87

i agree with bsb u should follow her advice ..stop thinking negative …who said to u that every married couple have same thoughts ? no its mostly girl compromise with her husband becoz she wants her home her kids …and 1 u should give respect to yur husbnd and slowly with yur love and respect he will understnd u and u will understnd him.. try to avoid those things which he doesnt like .like keep quite when he agrue with u let him give time and INSHALLAH he will releaize his faults…and if u have kids then u both will busy with them ..he will try to think about them abt their future and u also their ur both thinking will match

Ok whenever I hear or read something like this I think did it change things for the better when the older women around me always sacrficied, NEVER said a word to their husbands and hoped one day he would somehow miraculously change? 9/10 times they DON’T, why would they when their behaviour is being more or less reinforced by the wife’s actions? It isn’t fair that she can’t have a career and that he won’t even compromise or meet half way..

Not being allowed to study or work are not minor things..

I am NOT saying divorce.. OP, please think carefully about your situation and try and get your husband to try and go to counselling or some sort of mediation with an unbiased and fair-minded family member or friend who you both trust and respect.. I don’t think it’s healthy for you be stuck in this sort of relationship..