Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
well to me they dont sound right, because they seem to go against the whole sanctity of marriage and the social ill effects of sleeping around....and that is what this sounds like but in the garb of shariah compliant thing.
well to me they dont sound right, because they seem to go against the whole sanctity of marriage and the social ill effects of sleeping around....and that is what this sounds like but in the garb of shariah compliant thing.
It doesn't sound right to me either.
I think same way it's a way of sleeping around.
I know most women will hate this topic and show their hatred but what's wrong with this idea?
I know it's allowed in Islam, but I couldn't share a husband with anyone. I do joke sometimes, but in seriousness, I couldn't. My ex is married to another girl who has my first name and that is already weird! In his case, I don't care who he marries, but it's just awkward that he took another girl with my first name. Creepy.
But if I would marry again, and the marriage would be happy, I could never share my husband with another woman. I'd ask him for a divorce if he would insist on a second wife.
I'm not the only person, remember, our prophet (pbuh) was sad when Ali (ra) the husband of his daughter Fatima (ra) was thinking about a second wife?
It is allowed in Islam, but if the wife doesn't like it, the husband shouldn't do it.
Aaj ki aurat nay apna hi aik alag mazhab bana liya hai jisko who apnay khiyal mein Islam samajhti hai. Look at this njgal, she is bringing Mormonism into this.... duh... we are talking about Nikha which is strictly Islamic term....what does this Mormonism has anything to do with it ? Regards
Paki American - you thread title is misleading. Did you say "in Islam - did you mention nikkah anywhere?".
If you wanted to discuss the islamic perspective, please state so clearly. - There are many non muslims here. You are quick to assume that that every here is looking at everything from a islamic point of view.
In my defense - I was not comparing anything - I was merely pointing out a fact.
Thanks for the Info about Muttah and Misyaar X2.
But what I read in quran that you have to marry not for your pleasure something like that.
Gr8Heera, X2 and others.
I like to say something about Muttah. There are many orders from Allah in Quran that were given based on certain ground realities of specific time and later were taken back (MANSOOKH, Voided, Nullified etc.).
Muttah is one of them. It was allowed in prophet's (PBUH) time temporarily for Mujahids of Islam fighting wars for months away from homes. And it was, that they can marry a woman for certain time and divorce her after that time. But even in that, husband was still responsible for any children born as a result of this kind of marriage.
This was revoked later on and is not part of Islam anymore. Shia hazraat still practice this but according to Sunni Fiqah, it is not permitted.
Regards
Why you give fansite mashwara to others why not open yourself see how many fans come must be alot. Almost whole GS except me as I'm not modern or Liberal + very religious.
She is sweat hear in her mohalla.
Agree. So here you quoting one quran thing and negating other quran thing. What is that?
Kenji to meri bhi fan hai per Mujhay Alim online naheen kaha....ROING.
I would feel proud to get degree from you.
Yeah Kenji is very impressive. I'm impressed by her too. I can go to her room for sleep over.
Are you a painter. Thats good. Why red why not Paint quran everywhere. I would love to be your help. I would hold your banner.
Gold smith or Iron Smith?
just for the record... I dont have time for this
just for the record... I dont have time for this
Kenjifu
I have been reading your posts...you are quite harsh. I can bet on one of the following 2 statements:
In real life, Your personality is totally opposite of this HARSH online personality.
Your husband is a TRUE practicing Muslim because only Islam strictly prohibits suicide
Regards
Kenjifu I have been reading your posts...you are quite harsh. I can bet on one of the following 2 statements:
In real life, Your personality is totally opposite of this HARSH online personality.
Your husband is a TRUE practicing Muslim because only Islam strictly prohibits suicide
Regards
PakiAmerican
So I'm harsh for stating an opinion. Its a free world I can say what I want.
Just because I don't agree with a person's backward mentality doesn't give you the right to judge me.
As for my hubby - he's a darling - and if either of us is a true Mullah its me (p.s. where on earth did the suicide notion come from anyway?)
Lets be honest AP, the truth is when someone says anything that is against the ideals you hold so dear it tickles you funny - and whats worse its not coming from a man but a WOMAN
Its against the law for a woman to come across cold and calculating? I never heard that one - sure its taboo in our society - but the question is does this woman really care?
NO.
p.s. I like you and I want to be your friend
mujse dosti karoge? :)
I know most women will hate this topic and show their hatred but what's wrong with this idea?
If wife keeps you happy, would you let her marry again? I mean i knw most men will hate this topic and show their hatred but what's wrong with this idea?
Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
My last post was just a joke, aap tu haath jhaar kar meri khabar lenay lagein ....LOL
I like you too and I want to be your friend too....but remember meri biwi ko pata nahi chalna chahiyay..........LOL
(BTW last sentence was a joke)
Regards
(BTW last sentence was a joke)
Regards
I'm glad it was because so was mine
Lo ji, iss thread main to eik na’ee kahaani shroo ho ga’ee 
If wife keeps you happy, would you let her marry again? I mean i knw most men will hate this topic and show their hatred but what's wrong with this idea?
Copycat, come-up with your own ideas.
What's wrong with this copy-cat idea ? well nothing actually if you keep and practice this only inside place of your residence, mental hospital...... LOL
Regards
TLK may I remind you CM has started calling me Aunty Dangerous…?
(I don’t know whether I should be pleased with this development or outraged, and so for now am simply reserving judgment)
TLK may I remind you CM has started calling me Aunty Dangerous...?
yes because CM stands for Chota Munna :p
Tum kyon jaltay ho yaar, tum bhi is dosti mein shamil ho jao…you are welcome too…
‘not sucking up’
I always had that sneaking suspicion - thanks for proving it :k:
Now I’m going to have to terrorize someone else till they too admit me as Aunty Dangerous - ah well back to the drawing board
.. nahi bhai .. you guys enjoy your dosti .. just keep me in your paryers 
Danger is a perspective .. for a mouse, cat is dangerous … for a cat, dog is .. make sure in your hunt, you dont come across Mr Extremely Dangerous
Gr8Heera, X2 and others. I like to say something about Muttah. There are many orders from Allah in Quran that were given based on certain ground realities of specific time and later were taken back (MANSOOKH, Voided, Nullified etc.).
Muttah is one of them. It was allowed in prophet's (PBUH) time temporarily for Mujahids of Islam fighting wars for months away from homes. And it was, that they can marry a woman for certain time and divorce her after that time. But even in that, husband was still responsible for any children born as a result of this kind of marriage.
This was revoked later on and is not part of Islam anymore. Shia hazraat still practice this but according to Sunni Fiqah, it is not permitted.
Regards
but sunnis are allowed this misyar thing instead of mutah...read up on that, its kinda like diet coke and coke zero..diff packaging, a diff twist to it, but at the end of the day both are diet colas by coke..
hmm..now I am thirsty
thankyou for the advice bhaijan TLK - I will take care and watch out for MED :halo:
besides tension is not my style -
I like to make friends despite having so few, I have even offered AP but for some reason - I still don’t think he trusts me sigh