If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.

[PakiAmerican]

@Kenjifu

You know for once I agree with you American Paki

You are right, there are very many ALIMs but no ILM

but I think we have found one in you on behalf of GS I would like to say we are all very grateful for you departing with such pearls of wisdom and advice

lets start a fansite AMERICAN PAKI FOR PRESIDENT
sorry PakiAmerican for president

(I’m smiling that means I’m being nice)

Thanks sweetheart

[Kenjifu]

Just for the record-

In the Quran it is permissible and yet advised that one wife is** better for the husband**

[PakiAmerican]

Lol, Okay if you insist that I dont have any knowledge then so be it .. I dont need a degree from you anyway, do I? :)

Yes you do need a degree from me, according to one of my fan, Kenjifu, I am an ALIM....LOL LOL

Regards

[PakiAmerican]

@Kenjifu

Just for the record-

In the Quran it is permissible and yet advised that one wife is** better for the husband**

I agree and I am impressed....

[Niksik]

Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.

Paki Amrikan bhaijaan, you thread is very interesting indeed… like adding garam masala to a bowl of spicy nihari. The after effects ain’t that great

You know, while muslim women are very aware of what is possible and allowed, sadly enough, we don’t quite like the idea of our husbands having second wives even though it is allowed. It’s just the way we are… it’s hard to share and imagine your husband being in someone else’s bed. I also know that if a man found out his wife liked someone else romantically or was cheating on him, he can give her a divorce in a few seconds. However, the guy can marry his mistress and make it all halal. So yeah, there are some sad realities and we just hope and pray we or our loved ones never have to go through this situation.

I think I speak for most women here although I personally know of a lebanese friend who was brought up with the expectation that her husband will marry his 4 so she was always OK with it.

[Kenjifu]

@PakiAmerican

Thanks sweetheart

please…don’t sweetheart me it makes me want to pull out an M79 and paint the world red

(I’m still smiling)

[teelobhain]

Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.

NO NO AND NO AND NEVER!!!!

[TLK]

@Kenjifu

please…don’t sweetheart me it makes me want to pull out an M79 and paint the world red

(I’m still smiling)

you should change you nick to Mrs. Smith then …as in Mr and Mrs Smith

[Kenjifu]

I think I speak for most women here although I personally know of a lebanese friend who was brought up with the expectation that her husband will marry his 4 so she was always OK with it.

my lebanese friend takes a very different approach to this... despite their culture and there are many arab women I know who would *********** their husbands if they even suggested it

[_Iraj]

Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.

no

[Kenjifu]

@TLK

you should change you nick to Mrs. Smith then …as in Mr and Mrs Smith

You know I quite like the idea of that… just the thought of Angelina Jolie as a sex symbol puts me off

I think I’ll stick to my own nick but thankyou for the suggestion

(genuinely smiling)

[TLK]

You know I quite like the idea of that... just the thought of Angelina Jolie as a sex symbol puts me off

When they say Angelina Jolie is a sex symbol, they are talking from male perspective, they dont give a damn whether women get turn off by her :D

hey what the heck, we husbands cant have another woman but cant we even fantasize about one ..

we need our sex symbols please

[Kenjifu]

When they say Angelina Jolie is a sex symbol, they are talking from male perspective, they dont give a damn whether women get turn off by her :D

hey what the heck, we husbands cant have another woman but cant we even fantasize about one ..

we need our sex symbols please

TLK I really like and admire you, in fact I think I rather hold you in a very high regard now, especially after that last post

have you ever considered starting a fan site? lets start with a party you bring the party poppers and I pick out the hand grenades

we'll have a blast

:)

[PakiAmerican]

When they say Angelina Jolie is a sex symbol, they are talking from male perspective, they dont give a damn whether women get turn off by her :D

hey what the heck, we husbands cant have another woman but cant we even fantasize about one ..

we need our sex symbols please

Ma MAN.....Now you are talking yaar....

[TLK]

@Kenjifu

TLK I really like and admire you, in fact I think I rather hold you in a very high regard now, especially after that last post

have you ever considered starting a fan site? lets start with a party you bring the party poppers and I pick out the hand grenades

we’ll have a blast

only 8 posts ago, you were starting a fansite for Paki and now for me

.. why dont you take your grenades to that party first ..I will watch and learn and then decide

[PakiAmerican]

@Niksik

Paki Amrikan bhaijaan, you thread is very interesting indeed… like adding garam masala to a bowl of spicy nihari. The after effects ain’t that great

You know, while muslim women are very aware of what is possible and allowed, sadly enough, we don’t quite like the idea of our husbands having second wives even though it is allowed. It’s just the way we are… it’s hard to share and imagine your husband being in someone else’s bed. I also know that if a man found out his wife liked someone else romantically or was cheating on him, he can give her a divorce in a few seconds. However, the guy can marry his mistress and make it all halal. So yeah, there are some sad realities and we just hope and pray we or our loved ones never have to go through this situation.

I think I speak for most women here although I personally know of a lebanese friend who was brought up with the expectation that her husband will marry his 4 so she was always OK with it.

Niksik Baji

I feel our pain sister…but you should refrain from reffering Allah’s laws as ‘sad realities’. He is the most HIKMAT WALA, you can’t disagree with that sista…

Regards

[Kenjifu]

@TLK

only 8 posts ago, you were starting a fansite for Paki and now for me

.. why dont you take your grenades to that party first ..I will watch and learn and then decide

but its noo fun without others around, and I would SO love to have such highly esteemed presences as your own and American Paki’s (…sorry PakiAmerican’s)

but its okay, since you clearly don’t appreciate my talents I’ll stick this one out - but don’t worry I’m quite sure I’ll come up with something else

[Niksik]

Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.

I agree that it is a law of Allah, but so is divorce... yet it is considered to be one of the worst of all allowed acts... people try to prevent divorces from happening until the last straw, until there's really no choice left at all... it is considered a sad event...but it is still allowed... similarly, for a woman, her husband marrying again can never be a happy occasion even though it is allowed. That's all.

[TLK]

Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.

^^ Good argument Niksik .. like your perspective

[TLK]

but its okay, since you clearly don't appreciate my talents I'll stick this one out - :)

I appreciate your talent as an observer and an admirer, not as a participant and a victim :)