i would prefer a sexless marriage

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Re: i would prefer a sexless marriage

Ajuba,

Maybe you've lost interest because its not enjoyable for you anymore. I think if your husband paid attention to what you wanted and you told him, you would want it also.

You need to talk it out with him because if he aint gettin it from you...he might get it elsewhere.

Eid-Ul-Adha - Hajj-E-Akbar - (Oct-Time Pass)
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if its like every night *duty *for you... then i feel sorry for you

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below is the answer… :cb:

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no way ---- NEVER fall for "if he aint gettin it from you...he might get it elsewhere"

you should be able to say no - even in marriages - otherwise it's not a marriage - it's just a "sexual contract"

18th October 2014 , The Pakistan's future in the hand of young Pakistanis
18th October 2014 , The Pakistan's future in the hand of young Pakistanis
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Re: i would prefer a sexless marriage

this thread reminds me of Sajjad Ali song

abhee mood nahee hai kal aana
abhee mood nahee hai

u need that CD playing on system 24/7 !!!

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This is something that you shud discuss with your husband. I dunno how can gupshup help you in this.

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Re: i would prefer a sexless marriage

Gupshup. background music getting louder and louder, then sudden silence

Aap ki zindagi mey koi hole hai?
Aap ki zindagi ka kya goal hai?
Idher ayee, har naseeat yahan anmol hai.
Gupshup aap key kuuNaye ka dol hai.

Ta da..

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now where she her self who started it…it will effect ur marrige too if now ur hubby start seeing any other for it then…what will u do :shoaby:

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No i don't agree.
As unpopular as the thought is, sexual fulfillment is the rights of both spouses.
IF the wife isnt' ill and teh guy treats her nicely, she shouldn't refuse him for no reason.

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^ oh please! that depends on the frequency

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both reserve the right to refuse the offer but refusal should also be minimal. If she starts refusing him 80% of the times then dont expect him to maintain his integrity as Niksik mentioned.

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I have never seen any woman in Life1 complaining of not having enough xxx , while in real life there are so many women who complains that their husband don't giv them thattttttttttt kind of attention n etc,all women here complains of too much xxx or being bored n etc, I wonder why the imbalance.

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may be u r not getting what u want from ur husband .............................:P

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You don't have to have a sexless marriage to avoid getting pregnant.

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I think everyone here knows its okay for your husband to want to have sex with you. If he desires you, its a good thing.

Dont drive him away.

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SO true haha

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what you folks need to do, is introduce some bondage in to the mix. :D

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Maybe it is low libido..anyway I don't feel its him desiring me. For him its just a release, its just fullfilling a basic urge and if it doesn't happen he's in a bad mood. Anyway theres other issues which make me not want to have that physical closeness with him. There's too many I won't list them but we just don't get on that well and he's always criticising me these days and i answer back in an increasingly cutting way. So, when he makes me feel like crap all the time I definately prefer sleep! Btw we sleep in separate rooms, have done for maybe 2/3 years.

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It seems that you have more problems to tackle than just figure out when and where and how many times to have sex.

My prayers for you and your hubby.

"The best girls get married quickly"
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^ aye…that’s a bit of an issue then :bummer: