We’ve had two kids and don’t plan on having anymore, I need my sleep, I prefer my sleep. I know its selfish and my husband doesn’t share this viewpoint but its what i want.
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your nick says everything about you ..cant do much!
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ajeeb si post hay... so what are you saying here;
- you do not want more children, and therefore no more sex?
- you do not want more sex in your marriage so you could sleep?
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Life1 is on a roll. I am switching between kitchen, religion and now sex.
oooooooooooooooo - kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
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you dont want more sex or you dont want more children? or you never wanted sex or your never wanted children? 
How are you managing that?
i mean its not healthy to switch b/w kitchen and sex anyway …religion tu khair possible hee nahee hai 
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Sad.
yeah someone should add a shower related thread so i can take a quick ghusl on my way out of ajuba’s thread.
oh never mind, it is sexless. but TLK might make me take a ghusl anyway. remember it’s one thing to take a ghusl it is another to tell someone else to take it.
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Ok lets try to have a decent discussion here without giggling like a kid if a thread is on the topic of sex.
Ajuba, you need to communicate the needs of your body to your hubby just like he communicates you his needs. I am sure you guys will be able to find a middle ground.
yeah someone should add a shower related thread so i can take a quick ghusl on my way out of ajuba's thread.
:D
ahem ahem .... maira zameer jagh gaya .... aab main boloon k na booloon :)
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ajuba - has a good point. u c - it might be a better and a fulfilling option to sleep, rather than having a non-satisfying sex:(
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How the heck does it affect your sleep? If anything it should make you sleep better.
ajuba - has a good point. u c - it might be a better and a fulfilling option to sleep, rather than having a non-satisfying sex:(
Maybe this couple needs to read some books, etc., to get some new sparky moves...I'm not kidding.
But the desire for sex is a natural desire. Ajuba if you resist too much, it may affect your health and his integrity.
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Its sounds like a matter of changing your schedule a bit ajuba.
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I could be that you are suffering from a low libido, which is quite common in women and can be due to a number of reasons, such as anaemia, diabetes, just plain ol' stress, anxiety or prescribed drugs, to name a few.
Bottom line, you need to communicate your feelings with your husband so you're on the same page...
Men and women can never be on the same page. Never.
Men only want want and want. Women like to take a break to reignite. Simple as that.
The reigniting phase could be considered as the “sleeping” part - that I want to sleeeeeeppp 
what happened to the old, tested .. I have a headache, bail out?
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I have a aazmooda nukhsaa for men who face "I got a headache" excuse. Always respond with, "oh no, that's so bad. Let me give you a head rub". If someone need more details then PM me.
I think sleepy excuse is more convincing.