I' ve cheated... need help

[WitchDr]

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@PyariCgudia

For those of you saying there is nothing wrong with what he did...I think somewhere he admitted that he liked her and flirted with her. How would you feel if your spouse did that to you? Enough said.

Without exaggeration, if my wife did something like that, I would be the first one to look at myself and see where I have gone wrong.

[Hahahaha]

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@WitchDr

Without exaggeration, if my wife did something like that, I would be the first one to look at myself and see where I have gone wrong.

True... What goes around comes around

[nia_khan]

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have open conversation with your wife.. and anytime you make friends make sure you wife is aware of it... Once you will learn not to hide she will start believing you more.

when you hide something thats where things go wrong...

its real life not kabhi alvida na kehna :p

[Diva4U]

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My spouse has friends who work with him and are female. They even hang out with me and/or him independently sometimes. I think its fine, as long as you are both okay with it. At least tell her where you are going and who you are with. That's just decent courtesy. Just don't hide and create a suspicious environment. That's what creates trouble.

[amirkhalid]

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yo bro u messed up
suppose u have a dog and like it 2, will ur wife get jealous or think u've done something wrong by liking someone or something else or other than her. as long as u only liked the other girl...... no harm done. think ur wife is toooooo possesive. it should b the other way round. give her a chill pill

[WitchDr]

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@clubber lang

Yea good point....

Come on Dr please elaborate becuz seems like it cud be helpful

It is your life and I did not want to guide you anywhere as you and your wife have equal respect in my eyes.

First of all you need to realise that you were committing a mistake. You need to make it clear with yourself that you were on the wrong path, no matter it felt right at that time or not. Then sit down with your wife and tell her firmly that you realise that you made a mistake and you will not do such a thing again. And tell her that this is it and no more talk of this anymore!

Women want their men to be firm (but not rigid).

[clubber_lang]

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@imxtraordinary

lololol ur so funnyyy…argh im in a library..cant contain my laughter.
neways hey tell ur wife you just wanted to know if tht gal liked u or not? and say it exactly like u said u DONT find her attractive at all..tell this to ur wife twice and tell her ur co worker made it a big deal and it was a setup as if shes the villain now lool..after that stop talking abt it and act normal and dont keep asking her whats wrong or she wont forget it..make her forget the whole thing by not talking abt yr work etc…learn something from it and STAY AWAY from your co worker.

thats the thing i have told me wife to 4get abt it but every day i go work n she is in my wife ask me how work is?..basicaly she wants to knw if iv been chattin to her..its like i hav to ring my wife on every break jus to re-assure her that im not up2 to my old tricks…

yea i hav learnt something never give ur nbr out to psyco gyal

[Sara516]

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@WitchDr

Without exaggeration, if my wife did something like that, I would be the first one to look at myself and see where I have gone wrong.

Yeah so blame the wife for hte husband straying.. as usual :)

[clubber_lang]

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@WitchDr

It is your life and I did not want to guide you anywhere as you and your wife have equal respect in my eyes.

First of all you need to realise that you were committing a mistake. You need to make it clear with yourself that you were on the wrong path, no matter it felt right at that time or not. Then sit down with your wife and tell her firmly that you realise that you made a mistake and you will not do such a thing again. And tell her that this is it and no more talk of this anymore!

Women want their men to be firm (but not rigid).

i wish life was simple, iv done everything u said above but wife stil wants to talk about it al da time…

[clubber_lang]

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@Sara516

Yeah so blame the wife for hte husband straying.. as usual

why wud i do that?i said it was my fault..sum ppl on here hav got warped ideas

[clubber_lang]

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@amirkhalid

yo bro u messed up
. as long as u only liked the other girl… no harm done. think ur wife is toooooo possesive.

dnt quite get ur analogy but i think i knw wat u mean, but hey if i said da above it wud jus make things worse

[clubber_lang]

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@Hahahaha

Tell her seriously if she doesnt get her act staright, you will have the spank her tushi in front of the whole team. Just kidding.
Dude she screwed you up right..and she has a BF also.. tell her to keep her distance orelse you will have to return the favor. That might get her harmones deactivated.

yea im thinking of repaying da favours but need sum sutle ideas…

[Sara516]

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@clubber lang

why wud i do that?i said it was my fault..sum ppl on here hav got warped ideas

nah, i was talkin to witch Dr..

[clubber_lang]

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@*paki*pride*

wtf…she pretendz nuthin happend? ohhhhhhhh…i think i no wat shez tryin 2 do…lolzz yea shez screwin u over…lol yupp shez messin with u…shez playin around with u…itz pretti obvious…shez purposely pretendin that she didnt do ne thing wrong…but deep down shez playin with u…ignore the gal…if u give her attention then shez not gonna stop…jus blank her…then we’ll c wat shez gonna do…

finally 2day she tells me why she did wat she did…she goes she did it cuz " i gave my wife da impression dat she(pysco gal) was after me"…wtf?..i never said that at all. All i said to psyco gal was that my wife doesnt like me chatting to gals and makin frends wit em, basically that my wife gets jealous (wich most desi gals do)…

so she decided 2 cause probz 4 me cuz she though she was being viewed as da person in wrong n thought that my wife wud hav gone around saying stuff n it wud hav reached her boyfrend…im getting more confused da longer dis goes on…
anyway so wat is she playin at?she mus hav an aim in mind?..u got any ideas wat she up2 or why she playin games?

even afta al dis she goes “wateve has happened its happened jus leave it”…so im jus suppose 2 4get abt whole issue even tho she tried to ruin my life??

sorry ppl 4 boring u but i cant tel my matez abt dis(too embrassed abt it) dats why ranting my anger on here…

[Hahahaha]

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@clubber lang

finally 2day she tells me why she did wat she did...she goes she did it cuz " i gave my wife da impression dat she(pysco gal) was after me"...wtf?....i never said that at all. All i said to psyco gal was that my wife doesnt like me chatting to gals and makin frends wit em, basically that my wife gets jealous (wich most desi gals do)...

so she decided 2 cause probz 4 me cuz she though she was being viewed as da person in wrong n thought that my wife wud hav gone around saying stuff n it wud hav reached her boyfrend....im getting more confused da longer dis goes on.... anyway so wat is she playin at?she mus hav an aim in mind?...u got any ideas wat she up2 or why she playin games?

even afta al dis she goes "wateve has happened its happened jus leave it"...so im jus suppose 2 4get abt whole issue even tho she tried to ruin my life??

sorry ppl 4 boring u but i cant tel my matez abt dis(too embrassed abt it) dats why ranting my anger on here....

If she leaves u alone yes... forget about it... and that will be the end of it..
If she doesnt leave u alone..... Tit for Tat :D

[clubber_lang]

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@Hahahaha

If she leaves u alone yes… forget about it… and that will be the end of it..
If she doesnt leave u alone… Tit for Tat

how can i 4get abt it? she nearky ruined my marraige, ok 75% was my fault but stil she played a big part in whole mess n now she pretends she didnt do anything…

obviously she can 4get abt cuz she prefectly happy wit her sitaution

[Zainaba012]

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@clubber lang

how can i 4get abt it? she nearky ruined my marraige, ok 75% was my fault but stil she played a big part in whole mess n now she pretends she didnt do anything....

obviously she can 4get abt cuz she prefectly happy wit her sitaution

I will post my true response later...

but i must ask...have you ever considered the fact that they may be upset with you because you never gave a sincere apology and you act as if you didnt do anything wrong...

As well...the "psycho" girl has a right to be very upset with you because you used her and thought nothing of her...im sure she has no intention of ruining your marriage..she probably keeps contacting you because shes frustrated and is trying to figure out why you would choose to use her when she has done nothing to you

[_paki_pride]

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@clubber lang

finally 2day she tells me why she did wat she did...she goes she did it cuz " i gave my wife da impression dat she(pysco gal) was after me"...wtf?....i never said that at all. All i said to psyco gal was that my wife doesnt like me chatting to gals and makin frends wit em, basically that my wife gets jealous (wich most desi gals do)...

so she decided 2 cause probz 4 me cuz she though she was being viewed as da person in wrong n thought that my wife wud hav gone around saying stuff n it wud hav reached her boyfrend....im getting more confused da longer dis goes on.... anyway so wat is she playin at?she mus hav an aim in mind?...u got any ideas wat she up2 or why she playin games?

even afta al dis she goes "wateve has happened its happened jus leave it"...so im jus suppose 2 4get abt whole issue even tho she tried to ruin my life??

sorry ppl 4 boring u but i cant tel my matez abt dis(too embrassed abt it) dats why ranting my anger on here....

wat the hell............this gal seriously haz issuez...n wtf iz she tryin 2 prove...she dun want her bf 2 find out so thas y she continuez 2 mess around with u?!?......BS......hmmm.....how dus she treat u....like how dus she act around u....???duz she show u ne signz she likez u? coz im tellin u....she iz either messin with u or she likez u......

[PyariCgudia]

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This has GOTTA be a dare thread. I mean, seriously. This clubber lang sounds more like a girl to me. No guy talks like this about relationship issues.

[Zainaba012]

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@PyariCgudia

This has GOTTA be a dare thread. I mean, seriously. This clubber lang sounds more like a girl to me. No guy talks like this about relationship issues.

...nevermind..lol