I' ve cheated... need help

[canpaki]

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@sweetpip

The only solution is to tell ur wife to get over it...othetwise if she carries on like this u probably really will end up cheatin on her.

Ur a man...of course ur gonna come into contact with persons of the opposuite sex and may even find them attractive. U don't need to act on it, its just natural to find people beautiful.

no no....not after hes married...

[muali]

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[quote=canpaki]
no no....not after hes married.../quote]

R u trying to imply that a man isnt a man after hes married........ *
*R u kidding or or u being sarcastic

[canpaki]

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lol...m being sar..

[muali]

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@canpaki

lol...m being sar..

*Good :) *

[Ex-Guppan]

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@desidudecool

thats not cheating ..cheating is much more interesting than that

Oh yeah? think about it the other way round. For real, think abt ur wife doing all this with her co-worker, and exactly the smae situation, phir kehna ussay, “ahem ahem Begum, tum nay cheating to nahin kee” koi na, am kool with it!

Gimme a break

[clubber_lang]

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ko i admit what i did was wrong but like da dude said its hard 2 avoid contact wit women whilst at work n completly blank em...but i guess i cud try at least

[clubber_lang]

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@aishaindubai

^then whats the problem. why is she still after you?

u r a gal u tel me why?

[_paki_pride]

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k this gal iz either messin around with u or actually likez u...

[canpaki]

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u shuddddddddddd.....make ur wife read this thread

[WitchDr]

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All men cheat one time or another if they get the opportunity. Women will cheat as well if they get the opportunity but for them opportunities are limited. Thats why they claim to be so pious and whine about men cheating. Here everyone is looking at you but they are forgetting the point the girl you were getting involved with had a fiance/bf as well. So she was cheating as well.

Technically, you were not cheating as yet but it would have led you there. Always judge the risk/reward from the outcome of your actions before you take the action.

Your line of action, now, depends on what you want to achieve. All relationships have a power-struggle associated with them. The outcome of this power-struggle at this moment will define the way your marriage life will be in the future. Don't want to elaborate on that!

[clubber_lang]

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@*paki*pride*

k this gal iz either messin around with u or actually likez u…

any ideas how i can figure out what she is really uptp? cuz afta al dat has happened she stil pretends like nuffin happened(i.e dat she didnt do anything wrong!)…im confused…wife says im not even allowed to say hello 2 her, only speak 2 her if its obsolute neccassary…but we in da same team..its kind of hard not 2…

[clubber_lang]

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@WitchDr

Here everyone is looking at you but they are forgetting the point the girl you were getting involved with had a fiance/bf as well. So she was cheating as well.

Your line of action, now, depends on what you want to achieve. All relationships have a power-struggle associated with them. The outcome of this power-struggle at this moment will define the way your marriage life will be in the future. Don’t want to elaborate on that!

Yea good point…

Come on Dr please elaborate becuz seems like it cud be helpful

[imxtraordinary]

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@Larki-NY

Oh yeah? think about it the other way round. For real, think abt ur wife doing all this with her co-worker, and exactly the smae situation, phir kehna ussay, “ahem ahem Begum, tum nay cheating to nahin kee” koi na, am kool with it!

Gimme a break

lololol ur so funnyyy…argh im in a library..cant contain my laughter.
neways hey tell ur wife you just wanted to know if tht gal liked u or not? and say it exactly like u said u DONT find her attractive at all..tell this to ur wife twice and tell her ur co worker made it a big deal and it was a setup as if shes the villain now lool..after that stop talking abt it and act normal and dont keep asking her whats wrong or she wont forget it..make her forget the whole thing by not talking abt yr work etc…learn something from it and STAY AWAY from your co worker.

[PyariCgudia]

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For those of you saying there is nothing wrong with what he did...I think somewhere he admitted that he liked her and flirted with her. How would you feel if your spouse did that to you? Enough said.

[theinsider]

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@clubber lang

I've cheated on my wife (not physical/sexual) just became frends wit a gyal at work. even tho wife has 4given me 4 becomin frends,she stil suffers da pain and is hurt and cry's. It looks like i screwed things up in my marraige, is ther anyway bak?

how old is your wife?and how old are you
if she is young she will get over it soon
but if she is over 25 GOOD LUCK
what you did it not cheating in my books

[canpaki]

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its not cheating...but it is hiding sumthin from ur wife which ur not supose to...i mean a husbn n wife are supose to b ONE...n they shud no everything abt eacther...n thas wut he did wrong...he din tell her...if he had told her then it wudnt of gotten out of his hands...but if sheees the one that fouund out...then she rlyy thinks that u wer gna keep it secret from her...and keep going...all the best tho...n i wish u a happy maried life...:)

[arshad5]

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@clubber lang

I've cheated on my wife (not physical/sexual) just became frends wit a gyal at work. even tho wife has 4given me 4 becomin frends,she stil suffers da pain and is hurt and cry's. It looks like i screwed things up in my marraige, is ther anyway bak?

Its quite common to have friends of both sexes now. It does not mean that you are cheating on your wife. Your wife feels insecure that is the problem..not your actions.

[_paki_pride]

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@clubber lang

any ideas how i can figure out what she is really uptp? cuz afta al dat has happened she stil pretends like nuffin happened(i.e dat she didnt do anything wrong!).....im confused...wife says im not even allowed to say hello 2 her, only speak 2 her if its obsolute neccassary....but we in da same team..its kind of hard not 2....

wtf...she pretendz nuthin happend? ohhhhhhhh...i think i no wat shez tryin 2 do.......lolzz yea shez screwin u over....lol yupp shez messin with u....shez playin around with u...itz pretti obvious...shez purposely pretendin that she didnt do ne thing wrong...but deep down shez playin with u....ignore the gal...if u give her attention then shez not gonna stop....jus blank her...then we'll c wat shez gonna do...

[PyariCgudia]

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Er....

[Hahahaha]

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@clubber lang

any ideas how i can figure out what she is really uptp? cuz afta al dat has happened she stil pretends like nuffin happened(i.e dat she didnt do anything wrong!).....im confused...wife says im not even allowed to say hello 2 her, only speak 2 her if its obsolute neccassary....but we in da same team..its kind of hard not 2....

Tell her seriously if she doesnt get her act staright, you will have the spank her tushi in front of the whole team. Just kidding.
Dude she screwed you up right..and she has a BF also.. tell her to keep her distance orelse you will have to return the favor. That might get her harmones deactivated. :)