Re: I’ ve cheated… need help
Anyhow, Clubber, I don’t think you will find any answers to WHY on this forum and I doubt you will get any really constructive advice either. I hope you resolve your issues. I think you need to be spending time with your wife rather than on GS.
Re: I’ ve cheated… need help
I read once
*A Muslim who grows up in Western society learns how to think and act in a way alien to Islam. Although often brought up in a Muslim household some Muslim youth are unfortunately swayed by the rotten fruits of Western society, drugs, alcohol and illicit relationships. They are tempted by these rotten fruits and end up in a downward spiral growing further away from Islam every day. *
Re: I' ve cheated... need help
Interesting :)
Re: I’ ve cheated… need help
i have apologised 2 da boyfrend(face 2 face) n feel sorry 4 em 4 puttin up wit a pysco galfrend.
how did i use her?..if she didnt hav intention of ruining my marraige why did she…
text me on a number when i told her not 2 her ring/txt me on that nbr 1st thing in da morning on my day off??? come on she was doing it on purpose, well thats wat it seems like to me
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True but how can i spend time with her when im at work?..i mean this whole mess would have not started if we actually had something to do at work…anyway i rather spend time on GS whilst at work than chat to physco women
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she stil try’s 2 act like nuffin happened n try’s 2 flirt..i knw she is messin wit me she has got sum agenda..i need 2 figure it out quik time
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so only gals r allowed to seek advice?..gals complain dat guys dnt talk abt ther feelings n wen we do we get cursed 4 it…wat a contradiction
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lol…nobody is going to help you until you get all your lies straight…
im not trying to be mean…but so many things u say contradict each other…
like…u say that u didnt like her…why did u tell her u liked her?
then u said…i told her that i liked her…because i wanted to set boundaries!
u were suppose to say, “i dont like you”…and tell her that u were just playing around with her…so she would run from you!
if u told her how u truly felt..instead of saying that u liked her…im sure she wouldnt have spoken to you and avoid you completely!
then u said…u didnt seek attention from her…but then u also sid…u liked the attention and u wanted an ego boost to feel better about urself and u used her that way…
even if SHE was the one who started it all..all u had to do was tell her how happily married u are and NEVER give her ur phone number…
my question is…did u tell her all these things?
how did she get ur phone numbers? (u obviously gave her more than one..since u told her not to call at a particular one)
and now…talking..conversating works two ways..
u dont care about this girl..tell her how much u dont like her and how u lied to her and hang up the phone! since u dont care..it should be easy to do!
then..after that dont answer the phone..at work avoid her…
u make it so complicated when it is so easy…u hate this girl so much..why doesnt she know this by now?
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o realli? kk then shez tryin 2 pass time with u .............but then again there cud b a chance that she likez u....but if shez pretendin like nuthin happnd then shez most likely passin time with u...hmmmmm....ima lil confused by the way u say shez actin...ne other signz shez givin u?
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yo i realise i messed up, aint nuffin i can do now. i made a mistake n i got to pay 4 it...anywayz thankz 2 al da ppl who offered ther views n advice