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aj kal khamosh rehnay se kuch nahi hota hakuna one needs to speak for their rights! or else ppl take you forgranted! :p
True.
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log ji ker lein baat 
mein bhi to hoon 
mein aise logon se baat hi nahi kerta and ignore kerta hoon 
and result ye hota hai ke wo log aur jealous aur jealous hote jate hein 
and jab mouqa milta hai to meethi meethi baatein lagata hoon mazak mazak me which sounds so deep 
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So? Bolun ke naa bolun?? Do mullaahon main murghi haraam 
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nai nai plzz mat bolein plzzzz… bas aik dafa meri maan lein… baad me bhi to bol sakti hein naa.. per bolne ke baad khamoshi nai ho sakti…
darguzar ka result acha hi hota hai… ohhhh sorry I mean sabar ka phal acha hi hota hai :shoaby:
I feel so bad!
Personally, as tempting as it is to hash things out with her, do you REALLY feel like you will be able to come to an understanding? For someone who has the ability to stir all this drama without much even being said, you could only imagine the kind of drama that will come from approaching her. You know in your heart and your husband knows what the truth is, so why try to fix something that's not broken. Just keep your dignity and respect because if you are expecting her to turn your problem solving attempt into a cart fight, you must know that she's not really capable of reasoning with. She's already said a bunch of lies about you, I'm sure it won't make her nervous to say a couple of more just in defense of herself. If she's really trying to stir up trouble then don't let her win at her game by giving her that satisfaction. If your SIL trusted you enough to talk to you about and you were able to talk to her and be completely fine, then you shouldn't worry to much about it. You may be pure in your intentions and wanting to try to get to the bottom of things as to why she would feel the need to spread rumors about you, but her intentions from the start don't seem like its a mutual misunderstanding, it seems more calculated from your posts so why fall victim to a drama queens drama.
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You're leaving queen...why let this drama explode right now? Personally I'd ignore it all...mein jarahi hoon...ek doosray se lartay rehna zindagi bharrrrr. Ta Ta!
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It's annoying but if I was you, I would just ignore it...there is nothing you can say to someone who talks sh*t.
Just go back home and relax!
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Personally, as tempting as it is to hash things out with her, do you REALLY feel like you will be able to come to an understanding? For someone who has the ability to stir all this drama without much even being said, you could only imagine the kind of drama that will come from approaching her. You know in your heart and your husband knows what the truth is, so why try to fix something that's not broken. Just keep your dignity and respect because if you are expecting her to turn your problem solving attempt into a cart fight, you must know that she's not really capable of reasoning with. She's already said a bunch of lies about you, I'm sure it won't make her nervous to say a couple of more just in defense of herself. If she's really trying to stir up trouble then don't let her win at her game by giving her that satisfaction. If your SIL trusted you enough to talk to you about and you were able to talk to her and be completely fine, then you shouldn't worry to much about it. You may be pure in your intentions and wanting to try to get to the bottom of things as to why she would feel the need to spread rumors about you, but her intentions from the start don't seem like its a mutual misunderstanding, it seems more calculated from your posts so why fall victim to a drama queens drama.
I dont deny a single word you and agree till the end.
I was just wondering, I think she started it... what if it wasn't SHE but my MIL?? What if my MIL started random things to her that led her to feel bad about me and say such things. Of course this I would only come to know through my Jithani, not my MIL will tell me...
I have this feeling because whenever I ask my MIL that what discussion was on, she is simply trying to ignore but saying, pata nahin, yad nahin.... jab ke baaat ko sirf do din hoay thay!!
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Seriously, so true!
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queen sisso kuch mat boliye ga..jane dein…warna or kuch nahi huaga baat bhar jaye gi..
or sirf app hi ko tension hugi…or may be yehi wo chahati hain.
App apney hubby ki baat suney or ksi ki nahi
pochein mat bohut experience hai is baat ka 
itna huagay hai ke abb pata chal jata hai kon kya kerwana cha raha hai…
ye sahi baat hai ke apne haq ke liye lerna chahiye But ek waqt aye ga sisso jaab sab app ke haq main huga jithani ko marein goli 
Or happy happy rahein 
App sab chorein or popcorn kahyein 
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oye hoye hoye hoye hoye hoye niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii… Niiiii MAA sadqay jaaye Te Peyo Kitay daske naa jaye…
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Hakuna, Dont tell me that Fariha Ali is your female version 
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awwwww comon Didi… mein aisi harkat karunga ?? I mean seriously ???
apun ka style aisa nai reeeeeeeee
apun to aik dam masti lover hai in a best way :shoaby:
but Didi ye kon hein I dont know… wo kehti hein KSA se hein… per pata kerwana hi parega 
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Everyone already knows what kind of woman she is. I am also concerend about what my jithani was being told for which she passed such statements on my behalf!!??
I am not married so may be me suggesting you something would be like joohta muh bari baat but i would just like to say that as far as your hubby is with you and trust you do not pay heed on what your in laws are saying about yourself because like they say 'sachai chupti nahi hai' one day everyone would get to know that who said what :)
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Honestly speaking from experience, your better off not knowing if it was you MIL that started the rumors. Life will be much easier for you not knowing. Once you cross that line and start to lose respect for her it's really hard to get back to a good place. Trust me. I know it's super annoying because you need to know who? What? Why? BUT why change your opinions now. If you feel that way, just keep a respectable distance. You don't want to know these things because these are not people you can just write off from your life. If they were, the easy thing to do would have been to fight and walk away. You won't walk away and usually these arguments follow with a lifetime of more conversations like that because opinions change. Like that saying, a bad impression is a lasting impression, it couldn't be more true. Know that you have some idea and leave it at that. Knowing details will only put you in a more delicate, vulnerable, difficult position.
I wish I hadn't known any of the **** that was said about me because it only made me different in my behavior towards them. I lost my respect and no matter what I will never feel same about any of those individuals but unfortunately they are also active people in my life. I see these people everyday the others every other weekend and the uncomfortableness I feel in their presence never goes away and hate feeling that way because it take over your mind. It's easier to be ignorant than fake. In this case, ignorance is truly bliss. Go about your day, enjoy the rest of the time you are with them and good riddance till the next time. Fight the temptation to do anything, patience is a virtue. It's so damn hard in the moment! But better for you in the long run.
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^gimme a huggie… 
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Hugs!! You'll be alright girl! Keep that trust with your husband because its the only thing that truly matters! If he's on your side without even having to ask him or him having to chose, your totally fine. It may sound like its not enough, but it is.
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Yeah, He is with me alhamdulillah because he knows the kind of women she is, and its not only me, she creates fuss with anyone around and sometimes my SILs even consult my hubby for her messes with them!! So he knows everything.
I know I cant keep anyone feel bad about me but my hubby says, tum har waqt har kisi ko, zindagi bhar khush nahin rakh sakteen.. people never get satisfied so dont put too much of your efforts for something that can't be happened.
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kya pata ker wana charahey hain about me 
App ne aisa kyun likha hai queen sisso:konfused:
kya matlab hai is ka iss se pehley main tranlate karun app hi bata dijiye
OR hk bhaiy and queen sisso main ne aisa kya keh diyke mujhe tu dar lag raha hai
Dear queen mere pass bohut kuch hai bataney ke liye Full experience hai sach main..
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You like every post like HM, you call sisso like Hakuna DIDI … your suggestions sounds more like Hakuna