ohh god queen sisso you are sho cute samney huteen tu galay laga lety:wub:
Dear jo baat sahi hai wohi tu karein gey…
like app ne kaha ke sab clear kerna chahti hain tu achi baat hai dil main koi baat rahkni bhi nahi chahiye…
lekin is se kuch nahi huga baat sulhaj ne ki bajye or bigaar jaye gi jo wo charahi hain or sisso ager unhu ney app ke bare main kuch uraya bhi hai tu Chor dijiye sab ko pata hai app kesi hain or i hope un ke bare main bhi pata huga means your jjthani…
Sach bataun tu meri phoppo bhi aisa ker chuki hain isliye app ko keh rahi hun same wohi sisuation hai…
Isliye mat clear karein kuch unhu ne baat hi isliye nikali hai ke app kuch kahein or un ko muqa miley…
And sab se achi baat tu ye hai ke App ke hubby ko pata hai ke wo kesi hain yu un ke kehne pe chalein…meri sab se achi sisso hain naaa:wub:
Ok, so I am noticing, she is throwing indirect sentences on me as if she wants to provoke me and wants me to speak up. I assume, she knows things have been discussed with me already and I am quiet. She is just surprised why I am not clearing up the things and neither she wants to initiate.
And believe me, this time, I dont want to clear a single thing! also I have thought, if she comes to me and even directly comes to me to clear the issue, I would simply say, Dont clear up the issues now when I am leaving, when you could not clear it up at my stay!!
What do you say?? Shall I say that? or I should listen to her??
Sometimes her provoking sentences makes me let go the GHUBAR I have in my heart!! but I am just so fed up with her CRAP!!
Queenie whether you MIL or jethani started the main mission was to ruin the little time you have left and by handling it with grace and maturity you have foiled their plan. Dont acknowledge indirect sentences and if you are feeling angry with her avoid any situations where the two of you are alone. It is hard but in very little time you will forget all about it.
Oh and if she comes to you directly say there was some misunderstanding but I have cleared it with MIL, SIL and OH. but I am pretty sure she won't ask you directly. She wants you to lose your cool so she can say well you started a fight. Don't give her the satisfaction.
Ok, so I am noticing, she is throwing indirect sentences on me as if she wants to provoke me and wants me to speak up. I assume, she knows things have been discussed with me already and I am quiet. She is just surprised why I am not clearing up the things and neither she wants to initiate.
And believe me, this time, I dont want to clear a single thing! also I have thought, if she comes to me and even directly comes to me to clear the issue, I would simply say, Dont clear up the issues now when I am leaving, when you could not clear it up at my stay!!
What do you say?? Shall I say that? or I should listen to her??
Sometimes her provoking sentences makes me let go the GHUBAR I have in my heart!! but I am just so fed up with her CRAP!!
You wanna know the best way to get someone back? Let them wonder foreverrrrrrrrrrr why you didn't do what they thought you would. :)
they probably will think you are too dumb and easy to mess with. so i suggest you go kick that little youknowhwat's little youknowhwere sab ke samne and do big drama and expose it in front of everyone in the mohalla. trust me, that is best.
Let them think but they wont I know. Because she has already tried to messup with me in the past and she probably seen the whole movie.
After going through her craps and daily soaps .. and clearing different issues with her in past, I thought, one day she will growup.. but now seems its her fun time.. and I dont think she is worth speaking to!
My hubby told me last time... If you fall in mess..its YOU who'll get dirty.. not the mess!! He said right!! Usko samjhanay k liye mujhay uski auqaat p utrna parega and main itna girna nahin chahti!!
Dear Queen Sisso..Jese app ke hubby keh rahey hain us pe chalein...
i have told you wo muqa dhond rahi hain ke abb ki baar app kuch karein or bori ban jayein....app jitna huskti hain ignore kijiye....bcuz baad main App hi bori baney gi bilawajah..jane dein...
Allah ke ghar dair hai andher nahi
App saber kijiye....Sab kuch acha hu jaye ga ...In Sha Allah thora time lagey ga mager Ek din App ko saber ka phel zaroor miley ga....
dear app pak thorey se time ke liye ayi hain naa...Janey dijiye kab tak wo aisa karein gi ..Ek din zaroor sab samney aye ga un ke..
filhaal tu sirf or sirf hubby ki sunney ....Mashallah you are lucky that your hubby with you or wo app ko keh rahey hain ke koi baat clear mat kerna....tu mat kijiye ga....
meria bhi yehi mushwara hai....
bcuz app un ki batun ko jitna ignore karein gi unhey utni hi ukjhan hugi or wo koshish karein gi kuch na kuch ker ne ki jis se app baat niklaein...ye huchuka hai humare sath...Abb hum loog bhi kuch nahi kehtey ..chahey wo jitna bhi kyun na ke lein
So un ko kqnor ,er dein or happy happy rahein..
Allah pak ne do kaan diye hain humein...ek se sunney oe dosrey se urha dein...
Allah pak App ki mushkilaat ko dour karey or app ko kush rahkhey..Ameen
In fact because I know her... isliye.... I know her lol!!
You know what, this time, her motive to fight is not to FIGHT. This time her motive to fight is to play a maafi maafi game. Because she knows I am leaving .. and I have already mentioned on forum in my other posts.. usay AYYBROOOD se anay walay logo se bana ker rakhnay ka bara shok hay.. so because her plan is failed already and she didnt find a way to fight... ab wo is fight ko doosra mor dena chah rahi hay... jisme even if I listen to her, what all she will do is to shed some tears and tell me how soft heart she keeps for me and koi na koi baat nikal legi ke mujhay tumhari falan baat buri lagi... which must be some tucchi baat!!
I won't let her do that.. She tried to ruined my trip.. I will ruin her brain!!
woman...your husband gave you great advice! listen to him. it feels like to me that you yourself are looking for an issue/bring things to the surface. dont be so curious....its better to let things go. you're out of there soon anyway. what if your attempt to clear things up turns into a big fight....then your jithani and SILs and mother in law will ALL TURN on you! do you really want that to happen. Just smile, be happy, be nice....and move on. Plz dont sabotage your own life, no matter how curious you are to get to the bottom of who said what about you!
No ...... dont talk to her.
You had asked her to talk to you when she hears something about you ... she didn't so you should get the message that she is not on the same mental level as you are....... stop trying to get everyone as detailed oriented as you are ! (sorry might be rude but I learned it the hard way!) it doesn't matter what she was told ... IT WILL NEVER MATTER
Mission Implemented..
nahin manti 
