Re: I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!
OMG!. Are you sure about it?/?? :(
Yes I am. 100%.
Better to quit right now. Don't make it hard for yourself.
Re: I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!
are you ovulating? I am not joking btw
Sorry if i offended you inspiron but i am going through so much right now. How do i keep my mind off from him??.
Re: I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!
Yes I am. 100%. Better to quit right now. Don't make it hard for yourself.
How do you know? Is there religious islam ruling into this matter? Since both my friend and her cute hubby are muslims.
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Thinking of being with your friend's husband, when their relationship isn't completely over is just plain mean.
Doesn't your friend also need you in her tough time, maybe more than her husband, give it a thought
Also, do you know the reason behind their divorce? Maybe its the guy (im not saying for sure he is, but you never know)..... Dont just focus on looks/physical attraction, life is a lot more than that......
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im not offended but when some women are in the ovulating stage of their cycle they get massive obsessive out of control crushes on people for like 3 days hence i am asking.
You cannot feel so strongly for someone after just one dinner.
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I don't consider you are at fault here in any ways. These are your feelings. But I don't think you are looking at the situation very clearly. He has not divorced his wife on paper yet, which is a huge thing! Even if he divorced her islamically, it could just be a moment of anger or smtng like that and once things cool down, they might decide to get back together for whatever reasons.
It's ok if you like him but you are going to have to back out for a little while. The reason for that:
1) You have to be fair to both your girl friend and this guy. You need to give them time and space to ponder over what has happened.
2) This guy can very well use you as rebound since you are available and 'lessening' his pain.
All you need to do is to back out and give this situation time. If someone is meant to be yours, it will come your way. Don't take the risk of unintentionally hurting people who are going through a tough time.
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How do you know? Is there religious islam ruling into this matter? Since both my friend and her cute hubby are muslims.
Yes. We've had a divorce in our immediate family and ths is the route that was taken. We've consulted scholars on this so I'm very sure.
Re: I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!
Thinking of being with your friend's husband, when their relationship isn't completely over is just plain mean. Doesn't your friend also need you in her tough time, maybe more than her husband, give it a thought Also, do you know the reason behind their divorce? Maybe its the guy (im not saying for sure he is, but you never know)..... Just dont focus on looks/physical attraction, life is a lot more than that......
Ok i know the reason what she told me. And truth is she can't have babies apparently and he really wants a kid. For this he is willing to marry different woman. My friend needs me but like i said i am not her best friend so she might not tell me everything. I feel so fake when i console her that everything is going to be ok. oh gawd.
Re: I am very attracted my friend’s ex husband!
you are the only one who understands me. Ok i will try to stay away but what if he calls me???
Re: I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!
im not offended but when some women are in the ovulating stage of their cycle they get massive obsessive out of control crushes on people for like 3 days hence i am asking. You cannot feel so strongly for someone after just one dinner.
inspiron. My attraction to him was not only on 3 days. I have always felt attracted to him but when i got to know that he is getting divorce i just then probably thought about getting close to him.
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inspiron. My attraction to him was not only on 3 days. I have always felt attracted to him but when i got to know that he is getting divorce i just then probably thought about getting close to him.
Ok, but now that you know his real situation, make yourself unavailable so they can make a better decision about their future. And save yourself from getting badly hurt as well.
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Yes. We've had a divorce in our immediate family and ths is the route that was taken. We've consulted scholars on this so I'm very sure.
You have consulted respected scholars but what about Islamic ruling. Can you tell me some exact reference????
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do you really want a man who has so much baggage just because hes cute??
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You have consulted respected scholars but what about Islamic ruling. Can you tell me some exact reference????
Those are Islamic rulings. we went to a mufti. Go to shariah board.com and review their database of questions. Many questions on this topic. You can also write to the mufti who will send you a detailed response with correct references.
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do you really want a man who has so much baggage just because hes cute??
He has very good heart, good looking and rich. Kes chiz ki kami nai hay us mein. :(
Re: I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!
Those are Islamic rulings. we went to a mufti. Go to shariah board.com and review their database of questions. Many questions on this topic. You can also write to the mufti who will send you a detailed response with correct references.
I feel so scared for some reason that you might be right. :(. I will go to masjid to ask someone here.
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Well then give yourself and this guy some time. Let him clear his head and if he wants to come to you, let it be for your sake, not for a rebound
As of now, its better to not get involved
He left his wife as she cant have babies.? Sigh
Dont get involved if you cant be a true nuetral friend as you keep saying they are both your friends then dont offer them a shoulder to cry on. Chances are hes not even looking or thinking about u in that way. Also even if you and the guy get involved.. Chances are his wife will think you were a reason for him leaving.. Give them their space and control ur feelings until they decide wt to do with their relationship. Im sure theres plenty of 'cute guys' out there..
P.s the miss calls to hear his voice is abit stalker-ish
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He has very good heart, good looking and rich. Kes chiz ki kami nai hay us mein. :(
good looking and rich doesnt make a good relationship.
How long have you known him to say he has a good heart?
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I feel so scared for some reason that you might be right. :(. I will go to masjid to ask someone here.
everyone will give you same answer.