This is my first post in life 1 and i have serious problem which i am facing. I reallly need sincere advise and especially someone who has gone through same problem. There is a friend of mine her name is Samia. She is going through divorce from this guy name Irfan. And knowing them for couple of years (ever since they got married) they are mashallah nice people. However, i felt slight attraction to Irfan whenever we would meet in group gathering. He was kind of guy that i wanted. He is loving sweet and caring. At the moment they have filed for divorce is because they can’t get along with each other. That is all i know. Ok so i met him at grocery store on christmas eve and we ended up going for dinner. So here is the issue, i have been thinking about him so much for last 2 days!. Don’t know what happened to me. I think i always liked him but i am developing feelings for him. The problem is what Samia would think if i date her ex husband??. Call it infatuation love or whatever but i have developed very strong liking to him. 
And guys please no making fun otherwise i will burn you alive. :mad
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Thanks Niksik. The names i have used are not real names. I just need sincere advise. Would my friend kill me??????????
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If she is divorced then she shouldn't kill you because her husband is no longer hers. He's a free man. But if she s your friend, she may think you're insensitive.
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having seen my friend date my 'ex', yes she will want to kill you.
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Are you lusting or actually liking?
How good of a friend is she?
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But he is my friend's ex!. Can't seem to think about anything else. I gave him two anonymous missed called him yesterday night just to hear his voice.
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But he is my friend's ex!. Can't seem to think about anything else. I gave him two anonymous missed called him yesterday night just to hear his voice.
ahahaha. lawlz.
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I think you're just having a crush. Delete him from your saved files. Move on. Watch a good movie.
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Are you lusting or actually liking? How good of a friend is she?
Not best friend for sure. But good enough friend to have dinner or lunch together once in a while or watch some nice movie. Am i lusting or liking?. Quiet honestly both! i always liked him but recently developed incredible physical attraction.
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ahahaha. lawlz.
And you are laughing at my misery? :(
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Err. Im guessing you're not married otherwise that would be opening up a whole other can of worms.
If you're really that worried, tell your friend you're interested in her hubby and face the storm. You obviously don't want to walk away from him, and technically he IS divorced (and available AND intersted). If you sneak around behind her back it'll make things worse. Tell her. If you really don't want to then you have to decide whether you can walk away from this guy to avoid hurting your friend.
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I think you're just having a crush. Delete him from your saved files. Move on. Watch a good movie.
This is not crush. I've had those in highschool but i realllllly like him.
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how old are you?
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This is a no no as in :nono: zone. I would really stay away from this dude.
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Err. Im guessing you're not married otherwise that would be opening up a whole other can of worms. If you're really that worried, tell your friend you're interested in her hubby and face the storm. You obviously don't want to walk away from him, and technically he IS divorced (and available AND intersted). If you sneak around behind her back it'll make things worse. Tell her. If you really don't want to then you have to decide whether you can walk away from this guy to avoid hurting your friend.
You kidding me? She will kill me if tell her. I would get a label of stupid girl who stole her cute hubby away. They just filed for divorce but i want to help him. When i talked to him i felt like hugging him. He was torn apart. ** NOTE: He only gave 1st religious divorce to his wife for now. Don't know what is that suppose to mean????????????**
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how old are you?
22 and her cute hubby is 26
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Why can’t people be open minded about it???/
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But he is my friend's ex!. Can't seem to think about anything else. I gave him two anonymous missed called him yesterday night just to hear his voice.
Ermmm??
Please don't be a stalker.
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PakiQueen I really don't think you're helping anyone here. Walk away. Seriously. You can't 'date' him and his marriage isn't quite over yet. Plus you have to give yourself a chance to find someone a bit more suitable. Attraction is not going to be enough here.
Seriously. walk away.