I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!

Re: I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!

I knew i would be called stalker. But i have been thinking about him a lot. He told he gave only 1st divorce to his wife. Whatever that suppose to mean????/

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:smack:

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Sounds like legally they are not divorced yet and he has only given her talaq in Islamic terms. Don't get involved, seriously.

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I am his friend too. I think he is going throuugh soooo much. He was in tears talking about my friend. I felt very jealous. :mad:. For those who think i should walk away. This is not easy for me either. ok. :frowning:

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I don't know what that means. But this is a very tough suitation you're getting yourself into. And you know it too, since you posted it here.

Like Mad hatter just said: WALK AWAY. like NOW.

And yes calling someone anonymously to hear their voice is very stalker-ish.

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it means they have the iddat period to get remarried again.

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Ok i am not sure if they have filed for divorce or not. But what he told me he is filing so that means he has not. So what is that suppose to mean in Islamic terms????????????? like giving one divorce???

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Read what you are saying:

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He was in tears talking about my friend.
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DON'T make this about you. It's their marriage and their divorce. The last thing that he needs is to jump into another relationship, he is obviously upset about the divorce regardless of the reasons behind it.

GAHHHHH

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ok isn't iddat period is when woman suppose to wait 4 months or something before getting married again. But why the heck he would be going through iddat, he is a guy!.

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Ok fine. She is my friend but i care about him too!.

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She is going to go through it while they wait. If after these 4 months, they are sure they want to separate they can, and he can give her the remaining 2 talaqs. But if the want to remarry, they need a simple nikah and they can be together again.

Keeping that possibility in mind, you shouldn't be around to distract him because you could become the "other woman" in this case.

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If you cared about him, you wouldn't want to make it harder on him.

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he is crying about his wife, why would he want to get into a relationship with you? he probs still has feelings for her.

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Ok so wait a minute!!!!! This means they can be with each other again??????????. omg he was talking about it and i was like "you just divorced her, you will find better girl for yourself". omg i feel so awful. :(

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1) He is not her ex yet.

2) He is not single currently.

3) Dating an already involved guy isn't a good idea (understatement).

Unfortunately, life is not about acting on emotion only.

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Yes, they can be together again.

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I am not Gaia, i just want to be his friend. I want him to cry on my shoulders. :(

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Ok if you are write about this then mojai asa leg rehaa hae jase aag lagga dee ho meray jisam ko. :(

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are you ovulating?

I am not joking btw

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OMG!. Are you sure about it?/?? :(