I am very attracted my friend's ex husband!

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2 years. We would often see each other in group lunches or dinners. We did exchange some funny texts not flirting though. :(.

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GAH!

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Yes and other problems. So in short what i know: -She can't have babies. -He can't get along with her. (mezaj nai miltae ab)

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ok why are you so mad????????/

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This is a commonly known fact in Muslims. It s as clear as the fact the you need go pray 5 times a day. Why do you think he didn't give her all 3 talaqs at once? He was probably advised by elders to think this through.

You have to remove yourself from this mess. If you're meant to be together, then wait for his decision to be complete. Meanwhile, distract yourself with worthy goals.

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PakiQueen, forget about the Islamic definition of divorce/boundaries and all that, even ethically it’s not right to try to make place in a man’s life when he is not out of the relationship with another woman (especially one who happens to be your friend).

If I were you, I would make sure (not just try) to cut off all contact. No call, no shoulder, no dinners. If you get involved, chances are that you won’t get a good deal either.

Sorry that this is not what you wanted to hear.

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Oh dear.

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I am mad because the old me would make a mistake like you are now.

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princess jojo. :(. Reason i was asking is may be may be their divorce was full. Up until now in other words they are not legally and islamically divorced fully. I can't cut ties with him he works in a same company as me but different department. :(

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I am not Muslim Niksik. omg i think you are right about not divorcing his wife three at once. He told me his mom was sooooo mad at him for divorcing his wife though it was only one talaaq he said. Becharay ko ghar se nekall dia tha ma'an baap ne os ke. :( haye bechara.

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what share share if you can. for now i can't stop thinking about him. :(

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he is muslim and you are not, another obstacle!

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Yes but i can convert for him if he wants me too. :(

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Oh boy. please step away as quickly as you can. Sincere advise.

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He does not have feelings for you. If he does, he has not made them known to you...and you are thinking about converting???????

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Why? he can marry a woman from ahle kitaab right????. Please say yes.

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Pakiqueen, I can do u a favor and close this thread.

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For him only. Don't know if i would fully accept islam as my religion.

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As the first man responding to this thread. Yes I checked. I wanna say LMAO!!
Oh Lordy! This is a right mess. Thanks for the laugh 10 women trying to stop one woman for making a complete mess of stuff and she refuses to listen.

And you wonder why men call you all crazy?

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are you for real?