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err.. no thanks
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^ Aww come on! I was expecting an outburst here. I hate cool minded people!
Just winding you up 
If the occasion calls for it …they can get vicious …
hate away…
Re: I Am trying to understand the psychology here
okay ...
im a girl so i know!
she's playing hard to get!
kinda obvious!
dude, ever since you started to IGNORE HER that's making her impatient...
she's playing games so you should keep yours up as well...
i mean of course she's wondering why isn't she's getting the SAME ATTENTION from you!
so you just do your thing & act all macho & tough, watch she'll try to talk to you next then act all nice :]
but if your willing to take her in go ahead, but girls like her...ehhhh i'd stay away from :]
oh oh one more thing!
if you propose to someone they start flying in the clouds because they think they're all that & beautiful ...
soooo...you know the best you can do is ignore... or better yet BEFRIEND SOME OTHER GIRL!
make her jealous...hahahah i love this :D :D :D :D :D:D:D :D
I didn’t mean to disappoint you. Go ahead with the details then, will discuss the jaanwar factor at an appropriate time.
Rawwrrr
PS: General pondering - This chai smiley has been overused for sarcasm. A couple of quite obnoxious fellows (not me though) used it in every single post. A couple of their healthy debates got them banned. This smiley used twice in this thread reminded me of that, nothing to do with either of you, honestly.
okay ...
im a girl so i know!
she's playing hard to get!
kinda obvious!
dude, ever since you started to IGNORE HER that's making her impatient...
she's playing games so you should keep yours up as well...
i mean of course she's wondering why isn't she's getting the SAME ATTENTION from you!
so you just do your thing & act all macho & tough, watch she'll try to talk to you next then act all nice :]
but if your willing to take her in go ahead, but girls like her...ehhhh i'd stay away from :]
oh oh one more thing!
if you propose to someone they start flying in the clouds because they think they're all that & beautiful ... soooo...you know the best you can do is ignore... or better yet BEFRIEND SOME OTHER GIRL!
make her jealous...hahahah i love this :D :D :D :D :D:D:D :D
good advice. i think i will just pass. I have never been a man who would play games with people. and i dont understand the games people play.
I agree with U…
I prefer to use this smiley to display polite sarcasm from now on or just to say "do i look like i care "
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^ Yeah, this one looks neat
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I agree with waterfall
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BEFRIEND SOME OTHER GIRL!
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she'll feel jealous to the core.. and it may lead to her regretting her behavior!!!
Atleast that way she'll 100% know uve moved on otherwise she'll always live with the misconception that ur 'in love with her'
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Jaanaan, say to her
"Ya jinnai, sa chal de? Ka bya de rasara wraaneh wako, nu GOORAM BA DARSARRA!!!"
Then follow it up by singing "Gul de pa mann, gul de jaanaaanaaaaa, gul de pa mann, gul de janaaanaaaaaa!"
Firstly never ask women for advice about women. They are obtuse to say the least. Now your problem is as follows she is deliberately placing herself opposite to you. Its a simple. She is an attention whore. She is looking for attention from you.
You have two ways to handle this. 1. Give her the attention but like a man. Meaning act the same. Act like nothing happened. It will drive her ****ing insane. It will work perfectly for you. Chat with her when you sit next to her. Nothing to serious. Say hello, talk to her about work or class and then blow her off when you see another girl.
The thing you want to show is indifference. Yes you proposed, she rejected you, now its time to show her she is not all that important. Class room setting as it is, she sits next to you. So say Salam. Smile at her, reel her in so that she expects a conversation, then move on to speak with someone else right away.
While the female will construe this to you being a jackass, it will have a second affect. She won't target you. Women love attention. When they lose it they are *****es. They also hate competition. What you have done is given her the assumption she is important to you and thus deserves your attention. Your indifference will cause her to back off right away. Be ready for major backbiting then. You are to show her the following:
- You proposed, she rejected you. No big deal You are over her and can be a normal person.
- She isn't that important to you. You will be normal around her and she was a small fish a rather large ocean.
Most important thing you have to remember is that her feelings are unimportant. You aren't marrying her. You are your own person. You are not responsible for her actions. You are the not the cause of her blatant stupidity.
- The second option is to be a rude jerk. But anger is not indifference. Anger shows you are slighted and thus gives her some satisfication. Indifference is the key.
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Hey good advice :k:
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^ dammit hes right!!
id hate to be on the wrong side of u!
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I personally thinks the proposal you gave her made her feel like she was something special to you. I'm sure she her self confidence broke when her mangni was broken, so she is probably like well this guy is all into me, so he must think im something great. Now i dont know why shes acting like that towards you.
Maybe shes bipolar...
CM-- your right never ask women for advice on women
LOL
100 percent on the mark . You make lot of sense . Lose the profanity though , it is not cool.
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But Mirch that would actually make me behave like an adult and I certainly do not wish to do that.
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I wonder if that girl turned you down in the first instance bcos she thought it's not good to appear too eager, and she expected you to woo her, or at least propose again to show how much you want her.
Then you simply walked away, so she is trying to get you to notice her so that you can pursue her with enthusiasm.
You have raised her hopes, and then dashed them to the ground. Jaanaan you are a heartless Casanova!
I wonder if that girl turned you down in the first instance bcos she thought it's not good to appear too eager, and she expected you to woo her, or at least propose again to show how much you want her.
Then you simply walked away, so she is trying to get you to notice her so that you can pursue her with enthusiasm.
You have raised her hopes, and then dashed them to the ground. Jaanaan you are a heartless Casanova!
Halwa, she turned him down in the beginning because she was already in a relationship with someone else. But that guy broke up with her. And now she's treating Jaanaan like crap because
1) Her self-esteem suffered a blow and she wants to boost it by reminding herself and others that she's still "desirable"......because jaanaan had proposed to her.
2) His proposal has gotten to her head, she want attention and is resorting to behaving like a two-year old.
You sound like a nice and shareef guy. Like most ppl here, I think she was playing hard to get when she rejected you.OR she regretted rejecting you and doesn’t know how to fix it, coz she’s never been around guys and doesn’t know how to get your attention or communicate with you.
Did you ever tell her about your intentions or did you one fine day send a proposal over to her through your mutual friend. Coz she could just be ticked off that you didn’t talk to her about it and is pissed off.
okay so maybe i don’t agree with the playing hard to get scenario. There could be a million reasons my friend and the only way of finding out the truth is by asking her.