Re: i am afraid of gaining weight.
Woh phir mein aapko personally NY aa kar batata!!!
Aap aisa karein, apni picture k neechey apna message likh kar mujhe PM kar dein, mein apni biwi ko aapka message dey doonga.
there you go. verdict of a husband.
what goes up, must come down :>
excercise, kido!
sister mrs. shikra, please count his calories.
tu kab a rahay hai app NY...hehehe i am looking forward to see your haal
there you go. verdict of a husband.
what goes up, must come down :>
excercise, kido!
sister mrs. shikra, please count his calories.
Dushi jee, aap meri side par hain ya Mrs. ki side par?!?
tu kab a rahay hai app NY...hehehe i am looking forward to see your haal
It may be very soon!
Re: i am afraid of gaining weight.
meye insaaf kee side bar per hoon!
Re: i am afraid of gaining weight.
loo kaar lo baat 
..amd i came to canay-da because i was afraid of getting kala in pakistan 
Shikra bhai i will wait for you :D
Re: i am afraid of gaining weight.
You can only see me if you live in Nyack, Spring Valley, and Pomona area 
kyun you become invisible in other locations
where is Nyack and Pomona?
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No, I don't go to other places because 1) I don't know anybody there and 2) I don't have my own car there.
My in-laws live in Pomona and it's about 45 minutes from the city and it's pretty close to NJ border. If you know where palisades mall is, it's in that area.
ye be koi baat hoi...airplan ka suna hai kya....ussey car ki zaroorat nahi hoti
wassay app sab hummain humari saali shaadi mein join karsatay hai...in Brooklyn
Yeh shaadi ko gaali dee jaa rahi hai ya saali (sister in law) ki shadi ka zikar horaha hai 
Shaadi hai kab? I don’t think plane LGA sey Brooklyn mein jaata hai. Besides, flying is such a big hassle and it’s really annoying to fly these days. I love to drive though. Last time I was in NY, I went to Brooklyn side (I think) and met someone there. That was fun.
I am about to go offline right. Chances are I will forget to reply here. If you have any questions to ask, feel free to send a PM because anything said here may get ignored (unintentionally). Good talking to you 
oh really...so people from here actually meet? thats very intersting
sis ki to 6 months ago hogeee
actually shaadi dost ki 25 of june ko and in brooklyn...we dont live in brooklyn anymore so we might be flying cause i am not a pro at driving in brooklyn
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I drove in the city and although my wife was scared sitting next to me but I absolutely LOVED it as I love to drive. I always wanted to drive in the city and I am glad I got a chance to do so. Yes, people from here do meet. I have met over 50 gupshup members in person :)
It may be off topic but just the other day my husband's 6 years old niece made me think about our obsession with looks. She does not eat beacuse in her own words "I donot want to become healthy coz healty is fat". I was shocked to hear this from a 6 yers old coz when I was six I didn't even know about these things. Sure children are difficult when it comes to eating but I have never heard this reasoning. Children emiulate whatever they see around and they definately get effected by the society's focus on weight. Now we think of fat as something horrible and the worst thing to happen. People specially girls go to extreme ways to cut on nutritions in order to become skinny. I personaly know new mothers who are more concerned about their own weight gain during pregnancy than the wellbeing of their newly born. Health and all is euphemism coz if some one is skiny no body ever question their health but a chubby or "fat" person is automatically assumed as unhealthy and advised to reduce weight. My husband and his siblings genetically are all slim and do not put on weight no matter how unhealthy their lifesyle is (and believe me it is unhealthy). While I am from kashmiri and Punjabi family and I have always been a chubby person despite being weight concious and maintaing a healthy lifestyle. I am fat according to their standards and I know my inlaws also talk behind my back about it but I refuse to starve myself because of this stupid thing and also I know even that would not make me as skinny( I tried when I was in college). I feel in westren societies, while there is this obsession about weight but at the same time there is also awarness about eating disorders but in Pakistan young girls and boys suffer without any help.
