the dude said to his potential rishta, and said, " that is why i wont marry. "
is it that bad that people are afraid of marriage because they would put on weight?
should not it be that if the couple is really about maintianing physical fitnes that they will be fitter than before??
share if you like.
best,
Dushwari
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:o khair thats really stupid reason for not getting married but u can stay fit in any phase of ur life.its not hard i guess if u keep exercising:hmmm:
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All I know is that I have gained about 10 pounds after marriage and still gaining 
I used to workout when I was back home as the gym was one floor above my office but there’s no gym in this office here, so no exercise. I do walk everyday but that’s not enough. The Apt. complex had a gym but the stupid management decided to shut it down to convert it into a club house 
But that does not seem to be a valid reason to stay away from marrying.
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hes not alone there r alot of psyco ppl out there
and i know many personally
who r anorexic but wont admit it
wen u offer them sumthing to eat they will go like " ugh this is full of fat"
now how much fat is there in crackers??
sum havent tasted chocolate for 2 years
and sum r living on just tea
and sum on nuthing but water
and sum r so depressed cuz they r fat and they weigh total 50 or 53 kgs 
man how fat they r 
so yeah that brother of mine is not the only 1
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heheh i like this excuse i wonder if my family will buy it
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but people do become overweight?
that is scary too. :
i think its more true for guys....becuase my sis just went nuts with dieting and she worksout regularly for the 6 months she has been married
girls become more conscious of thieir figure or whatever after marriage
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Guys gain weight because they stop caring because who do they have to impress now, they are already married Also there are so many dawats to attend and the honeymoon and then yummy food that wife makes that you just can’t say no to (sometimes to be nice) etc. etc. etc. 
ye kya hai bahi sabb :) app be hadh kartay ho...apni take care khud he insaan karta hai....
guys cant do it so ab biwi kay food ko blame kartay hai
ps: its good that guys are not into impressing anyone after marriage, because usski biwi tu ussey chodday gay nahi and koi aur pakaday gayee nahi
ps: its good that guys are not into impressing anyone after marriage, because usski biwi tu ussey chodday gay nahi and koi aur pakaday gayee nahi
Exactly! We make ourself look fat so that no other girl looks at us, JUST FOR YOU GIRLS :(
heheh haan but not for us gals for mrs
ek aur baat be hai...its not easy to workout... i am saying this from experience :(
if i dont workout meray Ami mujsey baat nahi kartay...they are so strict about it...
ps: Shikra bahi can you tell me what is the thread with everyone biography...i cant find it by searching
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I said “you girls” because I used the word “we”, not “I”, read again you yummy ras malai 
You are right, it’s not easy to work out. I would love to workout and I used to workout everyday when the gym was right upstairs from my office. I am too lazy to go to a gym where I have to drive to after work. I come home tired and don’t feel like doing anything.
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shikra, :>
ye sab tu theek...but i asked something uska kya?
i hate to workout its so boring...paley tu i used to imagin my selfing looking cute and hott and sexy on my sis's wedding...and ye and woh.. lakin ab tu weddin shedding hogayee ab what should i imagin
par meri Ami ko kyun smajhay....excerise na karo tu woh baat tak nahi kerti
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Show me your pictures when you were looking cute and hot and sexy on your sister’s wedding and then show me a picture from now and I will tell you which one looks better.
And sorry, I missed your p.s. part of the post. I think you are talking about the sticky thread that I had opened in cafe? If so, here’s the link for that. Some naive cafe mods had taken it down when I was not a mod for a few months.
very clever boss…meri pics…
hmmm no not yet…but i assure you i look nice in both instances…
btw thanks…this link is exactly what i was lookin for…dehko bhai sab app kaheen jay na karo…they mess up when you leave
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I was not trying to be clever, just wanted to help you make feel better about yourself :) Of course everyone thinks they look nice, others can tell more. I will confirm it when I see your pictures. Merey inbox k darwazey aapkey liye hamesha khuley hain.
itni raat ko be inbox ka darwaza kholla koi chorr ajayga...
app plz ussey jaldi sey baand kar lo
btw i honestly feel good about myself...
aur app ko pata hona chahiyay ka Pakistani larkiyan tu MashAllah hoti he bahoot khubsurat hain....tu koi shaaq wali baat he nahi...jo app confirm karni ki zameet karo gay
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Arey aap ko kia maloom, jab sey shaadi hui hai, mera inbox taras raha hai k kisi larki ka PM aaye. Isi aas mein hamesha uskey darwazey khirkiyan khuli rakhta hoon, chahey din ho ya raat. Koi Allah ki bandi kab meri ye khawahish poori karey gee?
lol.....kaash meray pass appki mrs ka email adress ye phone number hota...apni tu night ban jati...aur appka kya hota ye tu rab he janay