anything is possible in this day and time 
As for my kids (when i have one) watching it... well kids will wanna see whats it about, But i'll give them a good talking too to explain its jus fantasy, and in 'real life' woman are not like that. And you shudnt be protrayed like that either.
What's in it that you think it's "jus fantasy"?
you're right stoppit but that doesnt mean we need to emulate them.
it is so hard to raise children in this environment AND hold onto your husband.
And Iam sorry, but there has to be better ways of keeping "things alive" in the bedroom rather than watching people who get paid to act it out.
I agree. I'm just saying that since it's normalised most people don't think there is anything wrong with it; it's become part of "healthy" relationships. So in extension to that, morally people get confused and you don't feel the guilt etc associated with doing something wrong.
I don't think she's losing her husband in any way, it's a separate issue.
Guys will always watch porn, No matter what. UNLESS you got some sexy wife thats gonna perform the acts they watch, Then they have no need to watch it. However to keep their 'fantasy' alive in their minds they will watch it.
It wouldnt bother me tbh, I really dont see the big deal. I'd rather him watch porn then go sleep with a woman in person.
As for my kids (when i have one) watching it... well kids will wanna see whats it about, But i'll give them a good talking too to explain its jus fantasy, and in 'real life' woman are not like that. And you shudnt be protrayed like that either.
Imagine wht kina men they are if the only 2 options they have are "porn" or "sleep with a woman in person"?
wht about loyalty as an option?
Are such guys really worth being with?u said all guys watch it so are these not men who here on this forum in this thread know its rong and would punish their kids if they do it too?
dont be tht broad minded tht u stretch ur boundaries n forget the basics of black and white and create ur own shades of grey..
dont even make this acceptable in ur mind cuz in no way is it acceptable..u tell him porn is fine the next thing u know hes slepping around havnt u heard its human nature "ungli do to haath pakar letey hai" !!!
What's in it that you think it's "jus fantasy"?
I hav no idea, But i doubt if your married your gonna be willing to have 3-4 sums right? So thats a fantasy right there.
"ungli do to haath pakar letey hai" !!!
LOL
it's not ungli dau...it's haath dau tau baazo pakkarna.
But I guess given the topic on hand, your terminology has more juice. :D
I hav no idea, But i doubt if your married your gonna be willing to have 3-4 sums right? So thats a fantasy right there.
what is 3-4 sums?
Imagine wht kina men they are if the only 2 options they have are "porn" or "sleep with a woman in person"?
wht about loyalty as an option?
Are such guys really worth being with?u said all guys watch it so are these not men who here on this forum in this thread know its rong and would punish their kids if they do it too?
dont be tht broad minded tht u stretch ur boundaries n forget the basics of black and white and create ur own shades of grey..
dont even make this acceptable in ur mind cuz in no way is it acceptable..u tell him porn is fine the next thing u know hes slepping around havnt u heard its human nature "ungli do to haath pakar letey hai" !!!
Inshallah my husband wudnt feel the need to watch porn. But your right in what your saying. And kids as in 13-14year olds. I dunno what i wud do, their in that awkward stage of how they are feeling. But i wud jus let them kno that this is not 'real life' I caught my nephew on porn once. It was very awkward but i jus explain'd to him that the things these women do, Dont expect every woman to agree to it. Because its not right, Its de-grading to women.
And men jus think, The women your watching, is someone's sister, daughter, mother,
How would you feel?
what is 3-4 sums?
Allow it . fool.
Re: Husband watching something inappropriate online?
another interesting thing is the line, i.e where to draw it?
We are family friends with a couple in which wife does not allow hubby to watch even Indian movies and she watches it coz "she is a girl" ..... who is gonna decide whats over the line? I mean Indian movies (even prime time shows on US channels) sometime becomes real revealing ...
Re: Husband watching something inappropriate online?
There was an interesting study done on indigenous people from Australia, they found that the rate of child abuse correlated with the introduction of internet in their communities. Many of them were accessing porn.
Now I find that increasingly depressing, no wonder people nowadays have sick fantasies that has left no idea unexplored! I think once we start calling porn a normal part of life, then we don't see the need to eliminate it.
Pamela Paul's book, Pornified, gives in depth stories of people who deal with porn in their life. The statistics Pamela went through were quite alarming.
As for the poster, I think the wife should be alarmed and bring it to the husband's attention that what he is doing is completely wrong. Her children are not safe if he is viewing such indecency.
Re: Husband watching something inappropriate online?
^ Thats taking it VERY far! Poor guy!! Thats not right at all. And the revealing bits. Change the channel for abit?
^ Thats taking it VERY far! Poor guy!! Thats not right at all. And the revealing bits. Change the channel for abit?
see for you its taking far and for her its the matter of ...let me quote "what does she have that I dont have"
^ And the revealing bits. Change the channel for abit?
That didn't work. A hot kissing scene was on, so being the shareef that I am I switched channel in a jiffy only to witness Tom Cruise's bare butt on the next channel.
There was an interesting study done on indigenous people from Australia, they found that the rate of child abuse correlated with the introduction of internet in their communities. Many of them were accessing porn.
Now I find that increasingly depressing, no wonder people nowadays have sick fantasies that has left no idea unexplored! I think once we start calling porn a normal part of life, then we don't see the need to eliminate it.
Pamela Paul's book, Pornified, gives in depth stories of people who deal with porn in their life. The statistics Pamela went through were quite alarming.
As for the poster, I think the wife should be alarmed and bring it to the husband's attention that what he is doing is completely wrong. Her children are not safe if he is viewing such indecency.
Really?... Thats taking it abit far. Surely he wudnt harm his children?
Re: Husband watching something inappropriate online?
Porn has been classified as an addiction just like cigarettes and shoes. There are ways to rid the addiction and not one of them is your friend's reaction.
see for you its taking far and for her its the matter of ...let me quote "what does she have that I dont have"
OH thats jus silly. My dad was absoloutly obsessed with Madhuri Dixit. Loves her still does. Still he adores my mum. Because shes jus the 'fantasy' actress. Shes not real life. He's never gonna have her.
However if he's comparing HER to her then thats different, Its his own fault and brought it on himself.
Re: Husband watching something inappropriate online?
To the OP, tell your friend to fulfill her husband's desires frequently. An empty gun never fires.
another interesting thing is the line, i.e where to draw it?
We are family friends with a couple in which wife does not allow hubby to watch even Indian movies and she watches it coz "she is a girl" ..... who is gonna decide whats over the line? I mean Indian movies (even prime time shows on US channels) sometime becomes real revealing ...
Personally, we have the same rules applied to both of us and it depends what it is.
Movies worth watching, i.e. Requiem for a Dream, fine. Scantily clad ladies dancing provocatively in an Bollywood flick, pass thank you.
That didn't work. A hot kissing scene was on, so being the shareef that I am I switched channel in a jiffy only to witness Tom Cruise's bare butt on the next channel.
Ok 'fun guy'. Whos gonna turn off jism tho?....................... not meeeeeeeeee :p