I was talking with a close friend and she told me that she caught her husband watching something he shouldnt have been watching online. She was so shocked and freaked about it because in her mind there wasn’t a need for it since she thought they had quite a healthy relationship. I just told her that it wasn’t a reflection on her abilities but maybe her husband did this before marriage and just wrongly continued the bad habit. Maybe he had some secret fantasy which she couldn’t perform on him. I, for once, didn’t have anything better to say!
I mean, I thought the whole point of marriage was to do these things the “Halal” way in a respectful and modest way. Why do so many men have to resort to these outlets of immodesty?
Has anyone experienced this before with their husbands? What was your reaction and how did you deal with it?
Also, this doesn’t have to stop at husbands. Could be siblings, children etc. For me, my biggest concern is if my children (which I hope to have once Iam married) watch something X-rated online having accidentally stumbled onto it. How would their fragile minds cope with seeing something so graphic?
I don’t want to offend anyone or get banned people! It is just a genuine concern which we shouldn’t just “brush under the carpet”.
Comments on this topic should be interesting… I think you might be slightly shocked at how many people actually DO watch porn whilst being married. Personally i find the idea sick but i know a few married couples who are slightly too open about their personal life with me and yes they do watch x-rated stuff to ‘keep the passion alive’ apparantly
the sole purpose of this “research” is strictly to spice things in the bedroom, lol.
On a more serious note, unfortunately a high majority of men watch it regardless of being married or not and this generally starts at a young age, it is actually a repulsive things for girls yet guys do watch it just to keep their wives interested
ohhh after this response i should be anticipating a few not so nice responses and maybe PMs
omg its true men have this filthy habbit of watching porn even after they get married..mera wala kareyga to ill smack him n tell him murga bano fr an hour
on a serious note: its plain disgusting! Ladies dont make it “acceptable” in ur minds if ur husband does this..sort it out however best u feel this can be sorted as u know ur husband better thn anyone else n ud know wht u cn do to get thru to his brain n make him understand its sick!
Guys will always watch porn, No matter what. UNLESS you got some sexy wife thats gonna perform the acts they watch, Then they have no need to watch it. However to keep their 'fantasy' alive in their minds they will watch it.
It wouldnt bother me tbh, I really dont see the big deal. I'd rather him watch porn then go sleep with a woman in person.
As for my kids (when i have one) watching it... well kids will wanna see whats it about, But i'll give them a good talking too to explain its jus fantasy, and in 'real life' woman are not like that. And you shudnt be protrayed like that either.
If i ever find my kids watching it, ohohohoh , they are getting it, my kids (future) will regret being born to a maniac, if i find them watching i wont talk, but somebaady gonna get a hurt real bad :danda:
I would BEAT... yes BEAT my kids if i found them watching porn. and not just a slap on the bum.. a fully fledged beating.. call me ignorant but if they watch it when they are older then id rather not know.
I would BEAT... yes BEAT my kids if i found them watching porn. and not just a slap on the bum.. a fully fledged beating.. call me ignorant but if they watch it when they are older then id rather not know.
thanks guys for the comments. My friend is just so hurt and feels cheap. They have been married for about 6 years and have a boy and a girl. She is so worried that her children will stumble upon it if they go through the computer.
I told her to put the computer somewhere in a public place where even the person walking outside your house can see it (well not such good news if you have robbers in your area).
I really am shocked about the amount of porn men watch. PyariCGudia, if a woman is to watch porn then thats up to her but even once she is married? there has to be something wrong with that!
