Husband and his laziness

Lifestyle Relationships
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**khair, i just want to say that instead of montly why not try weekly, like he should gve u x amount per week for ghar ka samaan n y amount is set aside for bills, n watever is left u can both spend on urslves or send back home ONLY if ur household expenses have been met

my BIL lives in Gran Canaria n he earns twice as much as my hsbnd dsnt pay any rent n most of the time his food is paid fr by his employers too, he has 2 kids n a wife who r in pak, despite them being his responsibility, my hubby stills sends them money, i dnt have a problem with that, why because hes taking care of us n saving for our 2 children n paying our rent as well as bills, althoough it does make me wonder y they need financial help when she has a working husband earning more euros than our pounds, i even asked hubs that n he said i just send it as a gift, i mea he only sends around 200 every other month, nt bad

so i advise u to sit him down n talk things thru like get a pen n paper n write ur expenses, n then decide wats left to send back home.
make it clear that its his responsibilty to cfulfill allur need even if it means playing the religious card, oh n please try n solve these issues urslf frst, involve parents as a final resort :slight_smile:
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i said the same thing :slight_smile:

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