Human standards of adulthood

[Majazi_Khuda]

Re: Human standards of adulthood

@redvelvet

Would you marry a 9-year-old girl? Would you raise your daugther from the get-go with expectation that when she hits puberty…she will be married off? Would you get your 9-13 year old daughter married?

The thought of getting my daughter married even at 25 is blurred with emotions because of the fear that she will be leaving me. And to answer your question, I am not advocating that girls should get married at that age, I am just questioning the standards of adulthood.

@Sehrysh

Sure advanced age is not a guarantee that a relationship will be successful, but at least older age and maturity will allow the individual’s to make informed and thoughtful choices. Whereas, if a kid were to marry,** he lacks life skills and experiences which is bigger strike against the viability of the relationship and raising born of that relationship.**
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Social skill is are an acquired art. Skills comes first or the responsibility to develop those skills? I believe that you wont develop the skills if the need is not there, just like cavemen did not have a need to develop certain social skills. Point again is, given the responsibilty and guidance, a 13 years old can develop those skills.

@blackforest_360

Societal expectations have changed pal, at least in the modern countries. Sure you can get your kid hitched at 12-13, sure they’ll have kids, sure the kid would be a little fisher boy. But will he be a good father when he himself is still a child? will the girl be able to take care of a house, kids, husband etc. will she even know what the helmet she is supposed to do? third world countries remain third world countries because of such practices. Can’t have kids running around making more kids with education no where in sight.

where did I say that people should stop educating themselves if they got married at young age? What education (or lack of it) has to do with what age you are getting married at?

@Reha

I hope you’re not itching to marry a 10 - 13 year old girl MK…because if thats the case…good luck trying to have a successful marriage like that.

I usually ignore the whole post if it starts with a personal attack.

@el_topo

Dude, I bow down before your genius.

Thanks

@Deeba1234

But isn’t it dangerous for a girl that young to give birth?? How thew heck is the 9/10 yr-old girl going to push a baby out easily if her hips aren’t fully developed..

I give you this link. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_youngest_birth_mothers