Huge fight with husband

[sadzzz]

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khatti… I totes agree with you… ! and the lanat bit too!

[Southie]

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@Iconoclast

Those of you who are bringing Islam as their argument i might remind you, that wife cannot work without the permission of her husband. OP’s husband islamically can prevent her to work and support her parents.

And what is wrong with telling the husband about financial situation of parents. Even men who are sole earners in the family shud share their financial situation with wives, why can’t she do that.

And frankly if the parents are so ashamed of letting damaad know what they are getting from their daughter, they shud not accept anything from her.

Am not qualified to comment on 1st para. Agree with last two paras. No harm done in sharing details of expenses between spouses.

[khattichic]

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@Exodus

Heads up. I don’t think I have an idea of what the OP speaks of. And nor did i skim through this thread in its entirety to make sure I did. My post however was in response to Reha’s (Last paragraph mainly). Other than that, I have nothing to say or respond to. Thank you much.

Mera itna khoobsurat post pay pani pherdiya pottay ne :mirch:

Jao jaakay shuroo say parho thread ko

[Exodus]

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Lanat ehh?

Test up for grabs. Does your religion allow you to curse against your own kind, let alone with a lanat?

[khattichic]

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When it comes to not supporting ones parents and making your wife feel bad for providing financial assistance to them from her own halal ki kamai that he has no say over anyway, then no, I don’t feel one ounce of shame.

I will follow whatever financial decision my husband makes for us or our children, but when it comes to my parents (Allah SWT unko Jannat naseeb karray) then he better not stop me. And vice versa…I would be a horrible wife for stopping him or giving him crap for providing financially for his mom.

[Southie]

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@canadiandesigirl

umm I’m all about being to open with one’s husband BUT the man has a problem with the money his wife made BEFORE the got married. How is that any of his business? He was hoping she would’ve saved the money for him to use after they got married. How do some people not see that as a problem? What is the poor girls fault in all this? I didn’t know girls were suppose to sav every penny so their future husband could mooch off of them. If a girl isn’t married and lives at home with her parents why wouldn’t she help out at home financially? Sometimes GS worries me.

No one hear says the husband is not the problem. It is obvious. Some have suggested some solutions that include open communication in a calm manner. As RV eloquently stated a while back - that the hubby is a jerk is beyond doubt. I concur with her that the key is to find solutions - which do not include stating the obvious- IMO.

[Exodus]

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@Southie

No one hear says the husband is not the problem. It is obvious. Some have suggested some solutions that include open communication in a calm manner. As RV eloquently stated a while back - that the hubby is a jerk is beyond doubt. I concur with her that the key is to find solutions - which do not include stating the obvious- IMO.

So one eloquently managed to out judge a person who has no meaningful existence or contribution in the said thread, and you had a reason to actually agree, acknowledge and share the same afterthoughts as they did. Based on a one sided affair where the person gets zilch participation to defend himself?

Cute.

[redvelvet]

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@Exodus

So one eloquently managed to out judge a person who has no meaningful existence or contribution in the said thread, and you had a reason to actually agree, acknowledge and share the same afterthoughts as they did. Based on a one sided affair where the person gets zilch participation to defend himself?

Cute.

Aaaw, wtf are you so eloquently on about yet again?

[Exodus]

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Pretty much what made you pull off a special appearance here?

[Southie]

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@Exodus

So one eloquently managed to out judge a person who has no meaningful existence or contribution in the said thread, and you had a reason to actually agree, acknowledge and share the same afterthoughts as they did. Based on a one sided affair where the person gets zilch participation to defend himself?

Cute.

Now in plain English please!

[redvelvet]

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@Exodus

Pretty much what made you pull off a special appearance here?

Trying to be cute? Or trying to be smaaarut?

You’re trying too hard.

[khattichic]

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Jibberish is the word you two are looking for

[Exodus]

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@Southie

Now in plain English please!

Age to offense ratio. Too strong. Sorry broseph. Still doesn’t justify anyone calling you a hypocrite when you’re not there to defend yourself.

[Southie]

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@Exodus

Age to offense ratio. Too strong. Sorry broseph. Still doesn’t justify anyone calling you a hypocrite when you’re not there to defend yourself.

Array bhai yeh age to offends ratio kya hai? Humnay Price to earning P/CF P/SALES P/EQUITY etc ratios sunee hai. Paranthu eee kouno rasio humkaa sunavath? (Ok wont derail thread!)

[khattichic]

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@Southie

Array bhai yeh age to offends ratio kya hai? Humnay Price to earning P/CF P/SALES P/EQUITY etc ratios sunee hai. Paranthu eee kouno rasio humkaa sunavath? (Ok wont derail thread!)

[redvelvet]

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:hinna:

[Exodus]

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Oye. I question you lot. None of you have earned the right to question me. Not as yet.

[redvelvet]

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@Exodus

None of you have earned the right to question me.

Don’t worry, Exodus. It won’t happen. In order for us to question you, we have to first comprehend your responses…jo k door ki baat hai. Cuz reading them is hard enough.

[Exodus]

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@redvelvet

Don’t worry, Exodus. It won’t happen. In order for us to question you, we have to first comprehend your responses…jo k door ki baat hai. Cuz reading them is hard enough.

Funny how she claims to be incapable/impaired to understand a single thing thats being said and yet goes on to make two posts expecting a reply.

[desigirl786]

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@psyah

Peace Reha

Financial assistance to parents is a duty on the male children, other duties are on both male and female children. However, should a female child provide financially for her parents she gets a double reward where a son would get only a single reward.

Where did you hear that from?