Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
I Just read this thread and the advice people are giving. Its mind boggling. I'm out.
You didn't think he was going to get a serious answer for such a stupid question, did you?
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
I said its one reason. Not the only one.
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
if you're in America/UK/Pakistan it's easy, any other country, good luck, my gf is indian and non muslim, but before we got together she was trying to hook me up with her friend who is paki and muslim etc, so I guess that's probably how it works, connections.
Also, you've to find a niche, for desi women it's 30/35+, because they can't get married the usual way now.
I actually used to prefer white women, but I guess once you go brown you never frown.
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
I Just read this thread and the advice people are giving. Its mind boggling. I'm out.
So were you.
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
if you're in America/UK/Pakistan it's easy, any other country, good luck, my gf is indian and non muslim, but before we got together she was trying to hook me up with her friend who is paki and muslim etc, so I guess that's probably how it works, connections.
Also, you've to find a niche, for desi women it's 30/35+, because they can't get married the usual way now.
I actually used to prefer white women, but I guess once you go brown you never frown.
True, I used to like white girls,but now I've gone back to liking my own race.
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While agreed with the substance to some extent, disagree with the last sentence. You seem to have given 100% assurance in your advice. :)
Not ANY girl/woman would given in to the wishes of the man even if all those methods tried.
In regards to rest of girls/women,... the time period from meeting first time to giving in to the ultimate desire of the man would vary based on many factors including the background of both the man and the woman.
Yeah true it doesn't work 100% of the time but doesn't hurt to try right?
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
Apologies for derailing the thread but THIS!
Two words showcasing Pakistan’s faith in a nutshell: HUMTV Awards. 
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
Two words to sum up your faith in a nutshell:Boko Haram.
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Two words to sum up **your **faith in a nutshell:Boko Haram.
So then, are you a hindu?
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
at a certain point in their life...mostly starting late twenties women across all cultures want a stable partner...
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and paki grls probably aren't as open to dating guys like you cuz they know eventually your mother will be the aunty passing fatwas on her.
even in your own statements there's "marriage material" vs. "dating material"...thats how you gauge another human being...what makes you so holier than thou?
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So then, are you a hindu?
a Pakistani is a Pakistani, he doesn't have to be muslim to post here, he asked how he can date a Pakistani girl, I don't recall him posting any pre-qualifiers, he didn't say she had to be a muslim.
I'm a sindhi, 10% of sindhis in pakistan are hindus, you can assume most sindhis in pakistan you meet are going to be muslim, however when you're outside pakistan, good luck finding a sindhi who's muslim. Something like 90% of Sindhi's are hindu.
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
Dating a Pakistani woman is not easy...they're cultured and while some may be liberal and willing to date...at some point the relationship becomes difficult because:
A - she will not put out or not easily at least.
B - she will put out and then the relationship will go south because she will want more out of it...women want to make sure they're not wasting their emotions and energy in a person who might not stick around.
So if you're just dating and not looking for marriage...chances are it will be hard to find someone who is on the same page.
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You must be a player swimming in *****; and I am in the process of becoming a daactar, but the type of girls that go for daactars are marriage material ones and I'm not interested in marriage at least for the foreseeable future.
You say you're not ready for marriage, so will you let the hypothetical Pakistani girl know this from the get-go so she doesn't feel 'strung-along' or end up getting hurt? Cuz to me dating has more romantic connotations and most Pakistani girls have an end-goal of marriage. You know your intentions better than us. If your intention for dating is just to have some female company, then I see a lot of potential for heartache because the more time you spend interacting with the other person, a stronger attachment forms and it can get messy when two people are on different pages. If this is just a temporary, while-the-hours-away ordeal for you....it's better to occupy your time with other activities then.
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OP not sure I understand. What is the difference between marriage material girl vs date material girl? Will you let the girl know beforehand as redvelvet mentions? Also what is the point of any activity without an end goal? What is the point of dating without at least having a serious end goal of lifelong marriage and companionship? Within first few meetings you'll know if you have enough in common to be more than friends. Then you can consider whether to take next step. No point stringing anyone along because it will hurt both of you as heartbreak is not way for either party.
If companionship is what you want then maybe make some female pakistani friends? What can dating (without end goal of marriage) give that friendship can't?
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What can dating (without end goal of marriage) give that friendship can't?
sex
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OP not sure I understand. What is the difference between marriage material girl vs date material girl?
My guess is that the latter will not be that interested in a commitment or getting married in the near future. If that is indeed the case or intention, then it leaves a bad taste...for women in general, not only the Desi ones.
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sex
Or the hope thereof.
Re: How to get a Pakistani girlfriend?
sex
Dating cannot guarantee that either. Most desi girls are conservative when it comes to this and few will do that before marriage. Also, if you are emotionally attached enough to someone to date them why would you want to place them in a vulnerable position knowing how society treats those who indulge in pre-marital sex. How bad would a girl feel if she was tricked into thinking it is love, doing this, then she gets her heart broken? She will be cynical and hard hearted towards all guys for the rest of her life. Just as one human being to another, how can anyone put another through that? If she knows that there is no marriage in the future and you are upfront about that then it is more ethical but i doubt any desi girl would agree to such a relationship. Also there are religious reasons against it but thinking logically i see no reason why any desi girl would put herself in such a position of weakness by yielding to such a demand. There are Indian/Pakistani couples who date without physical affection. OP should aspire towards that or opt for friendship.
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Or the hope thereof.
Unmet expectations can be more disappointing than having low expectations. Expecting the girl he dates to hold hands on the other hand is a better, more likely expectation to have. If the girl was his sister how would he like her to be treated by a guy?