It seems like from these posts it seems like the biggest attraction is the "taboo" factor for them to date. Is there something substantial that makes you want to date them that doesn't feel like they're some kind of challenge to conquest?
I think the most substantial reason for me to date a Pakistani girl is that........I'm Pakistani myself and most people are attracted to their own race.
You're pakistani? You Muslim too? You do know Ramadan is coming right? And yes dating is haram. So glad you know that.
Why do you care?People like you are the reason why Pakistan is in deep****; mind your business and don't try to impose your religious beliefs onto other people.
I am not imposing my religious beliefs on anyone. If you're Muslim then its haram. I'm just stating facts. And fact is if you are looking for a Pakistani girlfriend then chances are she'll be Muslim. And I font live in Pakistan I'm in Britain. Also this is a public thread so your question was for everyone and I am entitled to answer it.
This is a serious question, I don't want anybody lecturing me about how dating is "haraam", if you have any experience dating women, do give me advice.
I think dating Pakistani women is harder than dating non-Pakistani women cause they belong to a conservative culture, so how do I go about getting a Pakistani girlfriend.
It depends where you live. if you live in US, or any western country, its fairly common for Pakistanis to date. is there any Pakistani woman that you like? if so, how about first try and be friends with her and then see how things go? all pakistanis are not conservative, you will easily find liberal ones even if you live in pakistan.
^ This. The norm is that Pakistani women all over the world are DATING pakistani men before marriage. Why you can't find a paki chick to date you is beyond me. You must scare them in some way.
^ This. The norm is that Pakistani women all over the world are DATING pakistani men before marriage. Why you can't find a paki chick to date you is beyond me. You must scare them in some way.
I don't think it's the 'norm' tho it could be getting more common.
I'm still new in the dating arena, I went to an all boys school and graduated last year and now i'm I college, I do have some female friends but I'm not good at getting out of the friend zone and dating a Pakistani girl has more cultural obstacles.
I think you mentioned in the first post that you are desperate. So probably rushing things down and nobody aint give u a bf status after first meeting or two
You knnow what you need to do. Just go through all episodes of the show "Guy Code".. then minus the scenes of bars, drinking, making out in first time.. and wutever is left then will be the guy code for you! Good luck :)
LOL how desperate. Become a daactar and they'll come running
You must be a player swimming in *****; and I am in the process of becoming a daactar, but the type of girls that go for daactars are marriage material ones and I'm not interested in marriage at least for the foreseeable future.
You have to start by gaining their trust. Become their friend. This will last anywhere from 6 months to an year if she's stubborn. Once you've gained her trust and you've both shared each others secret is when comes the good part. You'll start to get intimate with each other. It's a fact that since you're both straight (Hopefully) you'll start to develop feelings.
Usually it's not always this peachy. You have to gain her trust first then once you have it, you slowly and coyly inch your way in to her heart. Once you do and you'll know once you're there, you'll start to create a space inside of her heart which she'll sense as well. This bonding is very important. This is going to happen slowly so be patience, don't be a "utavla" and spill the beans at one swoop.
Now comes the question, "Where do you find desi girls?" Well most of the time you can just find them hanging out in your school/colleage/parties. 14 August mela is your best option bro. Try going to places where desi girls frequent such as desi bazaars. Facebook is also a good place to make some friends.
Make her laugh, take her out, make her feel that you're trust worthy. Then pop the question and trust me no matter how stubborn she is, she'll give in. Girl's are silly like that, they finally give in. And the thing that you share while being in a desi relationship you don't get with any other girl. The culture, the religion, the whole oneness about it all is pretty amazing dude. But make sure you're rich other wise she'll dump you and marry a doctor haha lmao jk no but seriously work on your career first that way she wont ever have to say "No, he drives a taxi, I caaaaan't ( British accent)."
Follow these steps and you'll have ANY girl you want!
You have to start by gaining their trust. Become their friend. This will last anywhere from 6 months to an year if she's stubborn. Once you've gained her trust and you've both shared each others secret is when comes the good part. You'll start to get intimate with each other. It's a fact that since you're both straight (Hopefully) you'll start to develop feelings.
Usually it's not always this peachy. You have to gain her trust first then once you have it, you slowly and coyly inch your way in to her heart. Once you do and you'll know once you're there, you'll start to create a space inside of her heart which she'll sense as well. This bonding is very important. This is going to happen slowly so be patience, don't be a "utavla" and spill the beans at one swoop.
Now comes the question, "Where do you find desi girls?" Well most of the time you can just find them hanging out in your school/colleage/parties. 14 August mela is your best option bro. Try going to places where desi girls frequent such as desi bazaars. Facebook is also a good place to make some friends.
Make her laugh, take her out, make her feel that you're trust worthy. Then pop the question and trust me no matter how stubborn she is, she'll give in. Girl's are silly like that, they finally give in. And the thing that you share while being in a desi relationship you don't get with any other girl. The culture, the religion, the whole oneness about it all is pretty amazing dude. But make sure you're rich other wise she'll dump you and marry a doctor haha lmao jk no but seriously work on your career first that way she wont ever have to say "No, he drives a taxi, I caaaaan't ( British accent)."
Follow these steps and you'll have ANY girl you want!
While agreed with the substance to some extent, disagree with the last sentence. You seem to have given 100% assurance in your advice. :)
Not ANY girl/woman would given in to the wishes of the man even if all those methods tried.
In regards to rest of girls/women,... the time period from meeting first time to giving in to the ultimate desire of the man would vary based on many factors including the background of both the man and the woman.
This is a serious question, I don't want anybody lecturing me about how dating is "haraam", if you have any experience dating women, do give me advice.
I think dating Pakistani women is harder than dating non-Pakistani women cause they belong to a conservative culture, so how do I go about getting a Pakistani girlfriend.