hmmm
Was this an arranged marriage? Or a love match?
If it was an arranged marriage I think I could understand the lack of intimacy. They probobly don't know each other well enough to be open.
wait .... as soon she gets her body in a shape wow wat a gr8 thinking
i think she is lost totally wat a immature thinking
she thinks like that MAIN JAISI HOON WAISI HI ACHI ....
come one yaar she is married now and her husband cant wait for a long !
I think the main problem here is lack of communication between the husband and the wife. It can lead to some thing serious in future. If she is denying with out telling some obvious reason ( she may have one, but he does not know it), he can get any idea from that. It is not the matter of time limit for which one can wait. With some obvious and geniun reason, one can wait for months or yrs. But i think that she must be communicating and discussing it with her hubby, and in my opinion this will b solved much more easily.
;) Cruel girl who is exercising.
This one was an arranged marriage. She has told him why she is waiting, but he doesnt seem to like the reason.
There are a few other girls I know who are also waiting, and they had a "love" marriage.
When ppl get married , the exitment is tremendous 'cause all of a sudden you'll be sleeping with a total stranger! and it scares the hell out of you. and the guy is just as shy as the girl, and the best way to feel comfy about this whole thing is to be nakay in the dark. that way both of them feel safe and secure. because in your exitment you hardly notice any flaws(aka= extra flesh!!). and when after a while the guy does notice the " flaws". then go on a diet or do some stupid xersize, re shape yourself and entice your man again!!!!!!
ps: by that time you'll be pregnant and you wont have time to reshapenad also by that time he'd be used to you!!
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and the best way to feel comfy about this whole thing is to be nakay in the dark. that way both of them feel safe and secure.
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considering the loadshedding in pakistan...that should not be a problem...
Re: How long do you wait?
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One of my friends is very "shy" shall we say, for lack of a better word. She has been married two months now and refuses to be "seen" by her husband. She feels uncomfortable with her body and doesnt want his first impression to be a "bad" one, as she put it. Therefore she is exercising to get into shape and then she will allow him to "see" her.
If you are a guy, would you wait? Do you think its silly to do this? I have no idea how her husband feels as she didnt tell me.
I had another friend years ago who didnt permit her husband to see her for four months. Mind you, she never lost any weight but it took her that long to feel confident and assured enough to be in that state with him.
What do you guys/gals think? How long is too long?
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A single day is too long in my view in such a situation. She needs to be confident of herself and the exercise she plans to do now should have been done prior to getting married. Since her man has agreed to marry her so it would not matter to him if she isnt in shape. I advise her to show up as soon as possible.
Single day!!.....is too long
I entirely agree with Capricorn.....(of course being Capricorn myself!!). A single day is too long, infact it should be like taking medication - morning, afternoon and night atleast ! Infact I would even strongly recommend an overdose daily!! . Now coming back to your friend.....unless her husband has either lost interest in her or is fishing around else where! , I find it hard to understand how he can wait that long.....................
Re: Single day!!..is too long
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Welcome to the show Capricorn 
I am sure this boycott and waiting must have helped the husband develop his arm muscles.
you r funny funguy:rotfl:
Oh Puhleez..!
There is no such thing as getting in shape for sex
Tell your girl friend, guys do not care much about shape or size. Skinny or fat wife can equally please the man(or vise versa). There is no reason to be embarrassed to be out of shape. Sex makes you lose weight faster than anything else. No point in waiting. JUST DO IT
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Oh Puhleez..!
There is no such thing as getting in shape for sex
Tell your girl friend, guys do not care much about shape or size. Skinny or fat wife can equally please the man(or vise versa). There is no reason to be embarrassed to be out of shape. Sex makes you lose weight faster than anything else. No point in waiting. JUST DO IT
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I think you are utterly wrong google. Shape and size do matter and you do not lose weight having sex, instead you tend to put on weight.
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I HOPE that’s not true..
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I think you are utterly wrong google. Shape and size do matter and you do not lose weight having sex, instead you tend to put on weight.
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You put on if you get pregnant. Sex is supposed to help reduce weight, but it has to be vigorous sex. Just like kissing. A peck on the lips won't get you anywhere. 10 minutes of passionate kissing on the other hand will help.
but, don't use it as a way to loose weight. i mean, eating watching tv all day and sitting on the couch eating junk food, and thinking I'll get a workout at night won't help you ....
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You put on if you get pregnant. Sex is supposed to help reduce weight, but it has to be vigorous sex. Just like kissing. A peck on the lips won't get you anywhere. 10 minutes of passionate kissing on the other hand will help.
but, don't use it as a way to loose weight. i mean, eating watching tv all day and sitting on the couch eating junk food, and thinking I'll get a workout at night won't help you ....
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As a married woman, I have to say that sexy sex that makes my uterus and insides contract work best weight loss wise.
So Nomaan is right. For that to happen takes lots of arrousal. Includes lots of kissing and touching and tickles.
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As a married woman, I have to say that sexy sex that makes my uterus and insides contract work best weight loss wise.
So Nomaan is right. For that to happen takes lots of arrousal. Includes lots of kissing and touching and tickles.
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I didnt know this. Thanks for the information. If this is true then I think we have this wonderful and beautiful way of reducing weight...maze bhee karo aur weight bhee loose karo wow;)
sex does not make u lose weight, if that were true, i would be 100 lbs instead of 250
It's not the actual sex that makes you lose weight, it's all the movements involved or the "excercises" involved with sex which burn calories, just like running or walking.