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*Originally posted by Aishaaa1: *
sex does not make u lose weight, if that were true, i would be 100 lbs instead of 250
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May be you are trying the wrong positions.
what about never? prancing around starkers in front of my hubbie is the most horrifying thought!
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*Originally posted by cat-woman: *
what about never? prancing around starkers in front of my hubbie is the most horrifying thought!
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Well..not starkers.
Wear something light, comfy and pretty.
Firstly feel good about yourself and about sex in general.
Whether you have to take a long bath, light some candles, wear something pretty. Have a good meal. Make the time. Do whatever it takes.
And then... have fun, laugh and be happy.
Re: How long do you wait?
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*Originally posted by Munni: *
One of my friends is very "shy" shall we say, for lack of a better word. She has been married two months now and refuses to be "seen" by her husband. She feels uncomfortable with her body and doesnt want his first impression to be a "bad" one, as she put it. Therefore she is exercising to get into shape and then she will allow him to "see" her.
If you are a guy, would you wait? Do you think its silly to do this? I have no idea how her husband feels as she didnt tell me.
I had another friend years ago who didnt permit her husband to see her for four months. Mind you, she never lost any weight but it took her that long to feel confident and assured enough to be in that state with him.
What do you guys/gals think? How long is too long?
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it is not a good thing ur frnd is doing to her husband since watever or however she is ,she is after all his wife. and in this realtionship u have to trust ur partner more then anyone else.
so may be i m wrong but i think she should immediately talk to her husband as soon as possible. 'cause GOD knows wat her husband is thinking about his wife. and may be he thinks that she is involved with some one else and can cause her alot of problems.
so she should consult her husband right now without delay of a second................................
watever the circumstances r in the relationship of a wife and husband ...........they should be greatest frnds trusting each other then relying on materialistic means...............
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*Originally posted by AvgAmericanGirl: *
Well..not starkers.
Wear something light, comfy and pretty.
Firstly feel good about yourself and about sex in general.
Whether you have to take a long bath, light some candles, wear something pretty. Have a good meal. Make the time. Do whatever it takes.
And then... have fun, laugh and be happy.
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How about a darn quickie for starters.
Isn't it always a quickie for starters?
^ very deep. 
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Originally posted by CHUSKA: *
comfy about this whole thing is to be nakay in the **dark*. that way both of them feel safe and secure. because in your exitment you hardly notice any flaws(aka= extra flesh!!).
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I dont think so , dark is not such a good idea, The next morning when they wake up , the man might have a vase stuck on his groin and the lady might have a banana.:)
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*Originally posted by cat-woman: *
what about never? prancing around starkers in front of my hubbie is the most horrifying thought!
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so, I'm not the only one then.
people here were implying that you shouldn't get married unless you're willing to go nekkid in front of a near stranger.
heck, I'm not even gonna ever take my shirt off in front my wife. I think I'll start doing hijab too when I get married.
Re-Write.....
Well..not starkers.
Wear something light, comfy and pretty.
Firstly feel good about yourself and about sex in general.
Whether you have to take a long bath, light some candles, wear something pretty. Have a good meal. Make the time. Do whatever it takes.
And have fun, laugh and be happy.
And then get naked.
And don't fall for those quickies.
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<~~ Average American Sex Therapist :french:
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*Originally posted by Aishaaa1: *
sex does not make u lose weight, if that were true, i would be 100 lbs instead of 250
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I thought that in another thread you said that your mother in law will be evil...implying that you're not married yet....
i have quite the imagination. I also have a personality disorder. Besides, u dont have to be married to do the ting ting ting
U r stupid janni
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*Originally posted by Capricorn: *
I didnt know this. Thanks for the information. If this is true then I think we have this wonderful and beautiful way of reducing weight...maze bhee karo aur weight bhee loose karo wow;)
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I hope you are not PakistaniTiger using those nicks again, if you are, im going to puke
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*Originally posted by Munni: *
One of my friends is very "shy" shall we say, for lack of a better word. She has been married two months now and refuses to be "seen" by her husband. She feels uncomfortable with her body and doesnt want his first impression to be a "bad" one, as she put it. Therefore she is exercising to get into shape and then she will allow him to "see" her.
If you are a guy, would you wait? Do you think its silly to do this? I have no idea how her husband feels as she didnt tell me.
I had another friend years ago who didnt permit her husband to see her for four months. Mind you, she never lost any weight but it took her that long to feel confident and assured enough to be in that state with him.
What do you guys/gals think? How long is too long?
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I think its the only n only mistake of her husband not hers...coz after marrying its the responsibility of both of them two...if one is not having courage then other make him/her confident....but this should be done before marriage not after.... if this is happening after marriage...then this is just like of big MAZAK
Isnt that enough that u have waited all the time before marriage, why in the world would u want to wait more,either that girl is dummy or not human.
if i knew that i was getting married and i knew that i needed to get into shape i would that way before my marriage, i wouldnt go into my marriage looking a mess...