lol, if I tell my husband he can't see me .. he's gonna hang me j/k
sometimes it depends on the husband, how he makes 'you' feel..
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lol, if I tell my husband he can't see me .. he's gonna hang me j/k
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He may have a point there if he hangs you upside down ;)
aww funguy .. silly billy
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aww funguy .. **silly billy*
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You sound like Monica Lewinsky
We have to give Mr. Bill Clinton credit for, that during his regiment period he made love and not war. :p
Heheheh munni its funny you ask that, because I mean come on its her hubby not some stranger, tell her she is all safe. Even if he doesn't like her body, oh too bad for him because its not like he gonna divorce her or something like that, no way out now. What you see is what you get. Tell her to stop stressing about her body and stop exercising. Have lotsa sex in sunlight and then eat big banana splits after that.
Now, that’s ma kinda woman. Where do I find more like you?. Sex in sunlight sounds 
and big banana split is on me.
she sounds insecure.. i think a lotta girls have the problem.. i mean i dnot think it has nething to do with weight.. u can be skinny and be ashamed of what u look like.. or be overweight and have no worries with ur self confidence.. i know a lotta ‘big’ girls who have done it and are not worried.. i mean what does the guy care.. as long as he’s getting what he wants.. haina?
if she has issues.. tell her to talk to him about it.. im sure he’ll be patient.. i mean if he knew wat she looked like before she got married.. that means he loves her for her personality and everything that comes with it… i think she just needs reassurance… no matter how much exercise she gets.. she’ll prob put it back on when she has kids…
my mama is making me eat fruit… so i can look good for my man.. sucks big time.. cus im like… ‘mama! there is no guy here..’ uffness
funguy.. u sound like a typical ABCD hehehee
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funguy.. u sound like a typical ABCD hehehee
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Funguy was born in Pakistan
ARCD??
he should have hidden cameras in the bedroom, take pictures of her changing and say, "check it out, I've already seen you nekkid, it's aight, you can take off that shalwar now"...
Ah yes the latent pervert speaks 
Try marriage counseling/fitness program.
You never cease to amaze me with your awfully witty comments Ahmed.
dont guys like chunky women? Aren't belly dancers fat? Does this have any relevance to ur question? It definitely does
Personally I have a lot of patience, but even so I think two month is a long time to make someone wait…especially in a marriage. I think it needs to be understood that sex (may not be everything) but is an important aspect to a relationship. And as somone mentioned earlier, that if your friend was concerned she should have started to workout before her marriage. Also it is not something to be shy or ashamed about between husband and wife…infact its to be enjoyed throughly! Tell your friend not to be … 
It takes time. Give her few more months
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dont guys like chunky women? Aren't belly dancers fat? Does this have any relevance to ur question? It definitely does
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most of guys do not have preference. Fat chick is as good as skinny chick. The important thing is feeling
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dont guys like chunky women? Aren't belly dancers fat? Does this have any relevance to ur question? It definitely does
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only if they could move like belly dancers I m sure nobody would mind.. :) and if your desi girl is like belly dancer before marriage you are in for a HUGE surprise/wife after a couple of years of marriage.. :) .. they tend to expand exponentially.. :D
I would have never got married before i feel confortable having physical relationship with my husband. cuz i dun want him to wait for me.. so i will hit the gym do everything to get in perfect shape and then i will get marry 
Fret.. that is very sweet :k:
If shyness and physical appearance is the only issue then
Blind fold them both...