One of my friends is very “shy” shall we say, for lack of a better word. She has been married two months now and refuses to be “seen” by her husband. She feels uncomfortable with her body and doesnt want his first impression to be a “bad” one, as she put it. Therefore she is exercising to get into shape and then she will allow him to “see” her.
If you are a guy, would you wait? Do you think its silly to do this? I have no idea how her husband feels as she didnt tell me.
I had another friend years ago who didnt permit her husband to see her for four months. Mind you, she never lost any weight but it took her that long to feel confident and assured enough to be in that state with him.
What do you guys/gals think? How long is too long?
Munni, I would respect my future wife's choice to wait. No matter what her reasons may be, if she's not comfortable, then I personally would have no problem waiting until she is confortable.
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*Originally posted by Munni: *
One of my friends is very "shy" shall we say, for lack of a better word. She has been married two months now and refuses to be "seen" by her husband. She feels uncomfortable with her body and doesnt want his first impression to be a "bad" one, as she put it. Therefore she is exercising to get into shape and then she will allow him to "see" her.
If you are a guy, would you wait? Do you think its silly to do this? I have no idea how her husband feels as she didnt tell me.
I had another friend years ago who didnt permit her husband to see her for four months. Mind you, she never lost any weight but it took her that long to feel confident and assured enough to be in that state with him.
What do you guys/gals think? How long is too long?
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no offense but if I was getting married and I didnt like how I look, I would work out the time I was engaged before I get married, that way when the wedding day comes, I am comfortable.
Personally to me it would sound a little ludicrous if my wife said she wants to look good before she lets me see her but the problem is I have no problem with her.. If she is lacking in self confidence and if her waiting makes her feel more better then until she becomes more comfy i dont mind ..
And yes you cannot force anyone into anything.. I mean you can but I personally would never force my wife into anything.. unless she wants to do it. Marriage is all about Patience, Compromise and Steady strong undying Love.
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*Originally posted by Sheraz CT: *
munni please i think u need to hang out with skinny girls...har post main koi na koi weight hi ki baat aa jaati hai
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Let me not get started on the issues that "skinny" girls face. Just about everyone has issues, I hear them all the time. smile
Munni, it’s an awkward situation but if she isn’t comfortable with him seeing her naked until the right time, then he should wait a bit. Now, if she drags on this waiting period for a very loooong time, then I think the issue needs to be discussed between the two of them in ernest.
Exercise, staying fit and sexy is always a good think though no matter what. :k:
:-) People who think that only overweigh Girls have this issue , I know some girls who are trying hard to not to look skinny and are fail to get results and feel really bad about themselves.
Regarding your question Munni,
I agree with Majestic. why not work out ahead of time? why keep the other partner waiting for being lazy in Past :-) ?
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*Originally posted by Fret Wizard: *
Munni, I would respect my future wife's choice to wait. No matter what her reasons may be, if she's not comfortable, then I personally would have no problem waiting until she is confortable.
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Fret pootter, tu saari zindagi biwi day thallay laga raaenga
no offense but if I was getting married and I didnt like how I look, I would work out the time I was engaged before I get married, that way when the wedding day comes, I am comfortable.
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im wit ya if ne gurl think (which dey sudn't) dat der hubby gonna change their thinkin bout da gurl after lookin ad dem nakie den dey sud lose all da weight dey can b4 da marriage nite or jus keep ur weight under control no matter wut ;) cuz ne1 cud b comin ur way!!!!
I always think twice lately 
and forcing to me 2 work out ----------> awfull