how long did you wait?

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yea hes the only one … so too many women after him … so let him be and concentrate on other not as good guys

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Jab wafa ke qasme usne tordiiiiiiiii....tho phir why should you dwell on it???? Trust me its not worth it...I have been through your whole phase...I was the only one who was loyal....not him. I had rishtas coming too and I rejected them...all for what? NOTHING!!!

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libran... i never even noticed him... woh khud mera picha karta gya... karta gya.... karta gya... till i gave in... aur akhir mayn.... khud he kahin kho gaya.. pata nahiN kahan... i hope he's doing good..

qualities toh uski baad mayN pata chali thi... the only thing that won my heart was his love for me... and he had promised me he will never leave me. aur woh jhoota nai tha.

toh ab... kaisay chor doon usko. uska wada yaad aataa hay.

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hehehehe :cb: I dnt concentrate on anyone any more…if they want…they should concentrate on me…coz I know I am worth it :wink:

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aaliya

the truth is...one should not commit to anyone before marriage...

and i dont know ke usne tori ya nai.. mujhay toh pata bhi nai woh kia kar rah hay aur kahan hay...

there's a good rishta for me now... but us rishtay ka sochnay ka dil he nai karta... sochti hoon ... kay shayad woh koi koshish kar ra ho?

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Questionner...now it depends how your break-up happened? did u discuss it at all...or he just disappeared?

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questioner ... listen not everyones gonna show their love the same way that dude did ... everyones different and the way of showin their affection is different ... it doesn't mean they won't love you the same or more .. m not tellin u to go for the next guy who comes along ... but dude the hoenst thing is that hes not here ... and whoever wants to be with u is atleast makin some sort of an effort

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aaliya... the problem is... im a sunni and he is not... so... technical mistake you see :D we always used to put the discussion off but it was high time and we said we need to now get married.. toh baat saari idhar aa kay ruk gai :D and he disappeared. and i cannot compromise on this :( not even for him. not for anyone. i will only marry a sunni.

libra... you are right... but i guess i need to feel that there is someone who loves me even more than he did.. and that seems impossible at the moment... or maybe at some point such person will come along.. ya shayad wohi sunni ho jaye aur wapas aa jaye.....

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i always knew that he is not sunnni but he is not that religious so i thought he'll become sunni... laykin us ne ayn moQay pe disappearing act dikha di :D he says he will not become sunni... i mean, i didn't expect him to become sunni coz of me... but i mean, i just thought that it would make sense to him the same way it does to me...
bad planning i know

but ghalti uski hay sari... hehe

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lol questioner i don't think ppl chng that easily ... anyhow so now that u have ur brain in place ..u take ur time and good things wil happen

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yeh... sigh

thanx libra :) wish you well too!

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thanku thanku ... i kinda need that

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well not much to say here Ali has done a good job! I want to add is take your time before you commit to someone else. It would be unfair to you and the other person if you are not ready to move on. Best of luck!

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ah. u must b going through hard time. bt i also feel dat u should move ahead nd give urself another chance. jst think about once for what good reason u left him. ap se to ALLAH JI b khush ho ge. i can bet u someone will come to u which will make ur life even more beautiful than him . nd seriously i feel very bad for u

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If you love something let it go. If it's meant to be, it'll come back to you. I had to let go of my fiancee and he finally admitted his feelings for me after 2, or was it 3, years. You can't live your life waiting for something to happen. Life your life. That's more important.

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ria man kudos to you for 2-3 years ... but honestly live ur life and be happy for wat u have and don't worry about wat didn't and cldn't work out

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:khumar:

life your life,what is this supposed to mean?

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Moving on is much much harder than sitting and waiting/wishing for things to work out. While i wouldnt suggest you go around chasing a catch when your heart isnt a 100% in it (bc that would be very unfair to any new person), I would say you should try to let go of the past and hopes and such and just let it be. If someone new comes along, give that person a chance but I guess keep your distance and you will yourself know with time whether or not you have moved on or not.

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still waiting:naak:

i have complete faith in Allah alAzim tht whoever i get in the end wil be the best one for me…whether it’s him or someone else:)